i feel so lost

[flyersfan83]

i try to go to lowes and kohls to find girls to talk to, it's either they are too old or too busy, i just dont want to do or where to go because no one is helping me, at times i feel ok, today i feel like i just want to end my life because i cant happiness no matter what i do.

im tired of coming home, empty handed with depressed look on my face, everytime i go out. i just dont know what to do.

[Epictetus]

I'm so sorry you're having such a rough time.  Wish I knew what to say to help!

[rainingviolets]

May I make a suggestion? As the Grassroots sing in a very old song, you're ..."looking for love in all the wrong places." When women go shopping they're hunting for "stuff", not people. They are busy, distracted, and focused no matter what age they are. Instead of looking in stores, why not try some more natural places - work, school, social gatherings, or (my favorite place to meet all kinds of people of all ages) the park. Everyone seems open and friendly when they are not rushed, out in nature, and casual. Take a book and go there and read. Take a stroll. Sit and drink a cup a coffee. Most important - SMILE. 🙂

[flyersfan83]

On 10/15/2022 at 2:24 PM, rainingviolets said:

May I make a suggestion? As the Grassroots sing in a very old song, you're ..."looking for love in all the wrong places." When women go shopping they're hunting for "stuff", not people. They are busy, distracted, and focused no matter what age they are. Instead of looking in stores, why not try some more natural places - work, school, social gatherings, or (my favorite place to meet all kinds of people of all ages) the park. Everyone seems open and friendly when they are not rushed, out in nature, and casual. Take a book and go there and read. Take a stroll. Sit and drink a cup a coffee. Most important - SMILE. 🙂

actually i wasnt trying to flirt with customers, i was trying to look for female workers. i didnt explain it in full detail my fault on that one. anyhow,  it's very hard in my area because most of the people are very old and not young even going to parks and bars, it's pretty much like families and most of the people gather in bars and dont hang out alone which makes it harder for me to find someone.

i want to try apps but i cant trust them because of scams, one thing i can trust when it comes to social media is fb but they took out the feature to meet new people on fb which is crazy. im doing ok, i just keep getting alot of self doubt. im really stuck right now.