i need solution for my sad life

[DragonBallZ1995]

i always go to talk to my mom and she says im harrassing her
cos discussion goes into arguement and many more things
and there is no one to talk to me
now she wrote an agreement that i should talk to her only for some work but not as a family

so i have no friends no parents no relative to talk to

i support my mom but i sometimes irritates her and i swear at her because she involves me in bullshit

but from now on she is just like unknown office worker for me

[Camellia]

@DragonBallZ1995  Im sorry u hv this problem. Is it possible for you to find another job and move out from there.

I hv family problem too. Im the black sheep of the family. Im not close to my mum either. 

To make the story short, i got a job in another city. 

I rented a room in the city. A family (not my family) in the city had advertised to rent out one of their rooms.  

Thats how i got away from family. 

Like you, i hv nobody with me. 

 

 

[Evergreenforst4]

I am sorry your mom does not want to hear about your problems.

If I was you I would try to search for a friend who is willing to listen. Family you are born into without choice but you get to choose your friends and relationships.

I think it can be kind of scary trying to meet new people but maybe you will find someone like you who has similiar problems and that they understand.

[monicott17]

I just don’t bother anymore. All I get is faux concern and empty platitudes. My therapist seems to be the only one who will listen and is not judgemental.

[Bulgakov]

On 6/16/2021 at 1:44 PM, DragonBallZ1995 said:

but from now on she is just like unknown office worker for me

Hi BallZ,

It might help if you would try and not swear at your mom when the next argument starts.  You wouldn't be allowed to swear at an unknown office worker. 

Best, Bulgakov