pdh Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 5 hours ago, duck said: Thank you pdh. I seem to enjoy cold cases. I will try your suggestions. You are welcome. What is a cold case? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdh Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 11 hours ago, Nightjar said: Nite family I guess its morning now LoL. Good morning. Welcome to the new sunrise. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duck Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 41 minutes ago, pdh said: You are welcome. What is a cold case? An unsolved crime which occurred a very long time ago. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duck Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 Tonight I took the outdoor heavy duty electrical cords from storage and placed them from the house to the parking area. We have to plug in our vehicle engine's block heaters when it gets very cold. I called a couple of friends. ------------------------------------------------------------- Happy Wednesday to everyone 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightjar Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 11 hours ago, juno_writes said: The latest person who can't help: the betterhelp therapist I've been paying out of pocket for, who suggested tonight that i find an in-person trauma therapist. she thinks someone else may be able to offer methods she can't via telehealth, something other than talking? around and around we go. already spent hours and hours finding her when nothing else was available. if she can find something local and affordable that i overlooked, awesome, but... really? feeling lost Ergh. I almost went with betterhelp too... But after reading some reviews and having bad experiences with online services in general, I decided against it. Apparently, they don't have to be qualified(?) and you are tied in with payments (?) In my area I did manage to find an in person counsellor... So far, I feel its gone well. We've had 3 sessions. She's got the gist of my story now so maybe we can begin to do some work. It's not easy, but I think beneficial.. As long as I don't get bad vibes I'll keep it up I think.. I wouldn't be best pleased if I had to start all over again because she decided someone else would be better suited to help It takes a lot to open up to someone. Sorry you've had that experience. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdh Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 2 hours ago, duck said: An unsolved crime which occurred a very long time ago. interesting 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladysmurf Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 8 hours ago, pdh said: I understand what u r going through. Even I am unable to concentrate these days. Somehow I end up with browsing the internet meaninglessly. If we are in a "good" company we feel happy and seem to do "right" things. I guess seeking like minded friends will help. Do u get to meet ur friends often? I never had many friends in my life because I don't trust people easily...I had a few good friends, but most are married with kids, and some moved away so it's hard to communicate. as you grow older friendships break apart too because of relationships/children,/work etc.. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sober4life Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 9 hours ago, duck said: Tonight I took the outdoor heavy duty electrical cords from storage and placed them from the house to the parking area. We have to plug in our vehicle engine's block heaters when it gets very cold. I called a couple of friends. ------------------------------------------------------------- Happy Wednesday to everyone It says it should be used at -15° C or lower. It's not already that cold is it? 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hocico Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 (edited) 7 hours ago, pdh said: interesting They have about 200000 of them in the US alone (according to that Cold Justice show) 9 hours ago, duck said: Tonight I took the outdoor heavy duty electrical cords from storage and placed them from the house to the parking area. We have to plug in our vehicle engine's block heaters when it gets very cold. I called a couple of friends. ------------------------------------------------------------- Happy Wednesday to everyone Happy Wednesday to you too Duck I feel reasonably happy today, had a few stressful moments being stuck in traffic at crotch gremlin releasement time but I enjoyed chatting to E this afternoon bubbly little ray of sunshine that she is. Edited November 10, 2021 by hocico 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duck Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 4 hours ago, sober4life said: It says it should be used at -15° C or lower. It's not already that cold is it? It’s about 35 F today. I am getting prepared for winter. The snow will cover the electrical cords and help prevent thieves from grabbing them. Gets much colder than minus 15 Celsius here . Minus 30 Celsius for six weeks is common. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sober4life Posted November 10, 2021 Share Posted November 10, 2021 12 minutes ago, duck said: It’s about 35 F today. I am getting prepared for winter. The snow will cover the electrical cords and help prevent thieves from grabbing them. Gets much colder than minus 15 Celsius here . Minus 30 Celsius for six weeks is common. My brother used to use block heaters in North Dakota. When you look at something and see antifreeze you think well it can't freeze. Nope everything liquid can freeze. I want no part of it. It sounds like a nightmare! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdh Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 13 hours ago, ladysmurf said: I never had many friends in my life because I don't trust people easily...I had a few good friends, but most are married with kids, and some moved away so it's hard to communicate. as you grow older friendships break apart too because of relationships/children,/work etc.. Very True, I don't know why I am unable to trust people. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdh Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 13 hours ago, ladysmurf said: I never had many friends in my life because I don't trust people easily...I had a few good friends, but most are married with kids, and some moved away so it's hard to communicate. as you grow older friendships break apart too because of relationships/children,/work etc.. I seem to feel more comfortable with myself than when people are around. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightjar Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 Morning everyone. Hope you are doing ok? Woke up feeling down and headachy again but not too awful I suppose. I had to use all of my tricks to get back to sleep last night because I started fretting about everything. I woke up about three times but I went back off to sleep with my headphones playing me soothing sounds thankfully.... 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdh Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 16 hours ago, hocico said: They have about 200000 of them in the US alone (according to that Cold Justice show) Happy Wednesday to you too Duck I feel reasonably happy today, had a few stressful moments being stuck in traffic at crotch gremlin releasement time but I enjoyed chatting to E this afternoon bubbly little ray of sunshine that she is. Two hundred thousand, that is quite a large number. Glad to know you had a happy day. I pray the next two days are good too. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdh Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 (edited) 36 minutes ago, Nightjar said: Morning everyone. Hope you are doing ok? Woke up feeling down and headachy again but not too awful I suppose. I had to use all of my tricks to get back to sleep last night because I started fretting about everything. I woke up about three times but I went back off to sleep with my headphones playing me soothing sounds thankfully.... Good morning, Good to know you could have some sleep. Do u listen to music that claims deep sleep etc., in the yt? It same to help me sometimes. I sometimes have a glass of water/milk when I wakeup inbetween, it makes me easier to fall asleep. Edited November 11, 2021 by pdh 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdh Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 12 hours ago, duck said: It’s about 35 F today. I am getting prepared for winter. The snow will cover the electrical cords and help prevent thieves from grabbing them. Gets much colder than minus 15 Celsius here . Minus 30 Celsius for six weeks is common. Thats awfully cold. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladysmurf Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 Lets see how this day goes, I might even go out for walking..if i push myself.I doubt it, but ill try 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sober4life Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 The new thing I'm seeing they're trying to blame wildlife for spreading the virus. It just amazes me this whole time they have wanted us to be scared and miserable. They know that most of us love wildlife and get peace and happiness from it and they even want to turn those pleasures into an awful experience for us. They don't even care if it's true or not. They just want us all to feel like we wake up to hell every single day. This world makes me more angry and disgusted every day! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightjar Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 3 hours ago, pdh said: Do u listen to music that claims deep sleep etc., I've been listening to rain on youtube and doing yogic breathing. Does help 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightjar Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 I'm having my 1st covid jab at the vaccination centre. Very nervous. Hope I feel ok afterwards 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladysmurf Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 I used the sun light therapy today so that was nice...i had others ask me and i personally recommend it because i live in a dark /cold area so it helps with your mood....it does not help so much with my OCD or anxiety, but feeling down (depressed) i do like it. as far as going for a walk i was a little drowsy so I didn't go. i spend some time cleaning some stuff in the house. i might go later . sometimes my blood pressure gets low and ican't walk so im a little afraid to go alone at times, so i dont pass out anywhere. i hope you guys are doing well 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladysmurf Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 ahhhh why don't people get this illness? i had a person tell me it's just reality, you need to accept it and move on, that's what we all do.... i really don't get people...... how can you say that for any illness, ?? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jxdama Posted November 12, 2021 Share Posted November 12, 2021 I am very apprehensive now waiting for everything to go wrong. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monicott17 Posted November 12, 2021 Share Posted November 12, 2021 I usually don’t handle the time change well but this time I am really struggling with it and it is making me more anxious. Also, once again getting more worked up than I should be about certain news stories. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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