Being Ugly

[desperateloser]

I can't communicate with anyone. My teeth are disgusting, crooked, dentists want tons of money. On my nose because of the meat and jaw disorders occurred. When you get meat in your nose, you can't breathe or something, and when you breathe through your mouth, your teeth begin to scatter, not enough to breathe in your mouth. Every time you wake up, you have a disgusting bad breath. Because I breathed through the mouth, oxygen couldn't go to the brain, causing mental retardation. And that has affected my whole life negatively. These things may seem ridiculous to you, but the reasons I wrote that ruined my life. If my parents were in good financial condition, I could have fixed them and improve myself, but there is nothing I can do.
 

[ladysmurf]

you aren't a loser. where do you live? what about your parents insurance? or yours?

 

[BeyondWeary]

Welcome! Sorry that you are in such a hard place. Wish I could make it better for you. 

[Floor2017]

1 hour ago, desperateloser said:

I can't communicate with anyone. My teeth are disgusting, crooked, dentists want tons of money. On my nose because of the meat and jaw disorders occurred. When you get meat in your nose, you can't breathe or something, and when you breathe through your mouth, your teeth begin to scatter, not enough to breathe in your mouth. Every time you wake up, you have a disgusting bad breath. Because I breathed through the mouth, oxygen couldn't go to the brain, causing mental retardation. And that has affected my whole life negatively. These things may seem ridiculous to you, but the reasons I wrote that ruined my life. If my parents were in good financial condition, I could have fixed them and improve myself, but there is nothing I can do.
 

I’m sorry my friend to hear this perhaps 

in the near future you can get it looked 

at when you are better off financially. I 

was born with really bad feet and it would 

hurt so bad to stand and walk for a certain 

amount of time and my mother couldn’t 

afford to fix them as a child.  All she 

could do is to tell me that I would have 

to go to a specialist to get them fixed.  So

when I got about 25 I had them looked at. I

now have to wear a

speacial made orthotic in my shoes

just to be able to stand and walk for a 

while.  It still hurts really bad but at least 

I can work now for several hours on them.

Hang in there my friend and hopefully you 

todo will be able to get this looked after 

and  corrected.

[desperateloser]

I have no qualifications. I can't even find a job. I fell into the void after high school. I'm not leaving the house. Even if I get a job, I can't be happy because in my country the minimum wage is very low. Suicide is the only solution.
 

[JD4010]

None of that sounds ridiculous to me; not in the slightest.

I was born with a variety of chronic conditions that affect my appearance and ability to get around. I also have terrible teeth, with gaping holes in my jaws where teeth used to be. I can't afford to have them replaced.

[sober4life]

I went about 5 years with half of my teeth left some of them were only half there.  I never smiled.  I said it was because of the bad "teeth" but now that I have full dentures I still don't smile because I hate life.

[Bulgakov]

Hello Desperate,

You're not a loser.  You just got dealt some tough cards.  As Americans, we can't imagine how most of the world lives.  Without insurance, without the availability of resources, that is how most of the people on this planet live.  Do keep living though, keep breathing any way you are able.  There are sights, sounds, and tastes of this world that are worth staying for.  Appreciate a kind word, or give one, and if a smile or a laugh finds you, welcome it.  These things too are part of existing, and sometimes just surviving may offer opportunities that make you feel like a winner. 

Our hearts go out to you,

Bulgakov

Edited November 1, 2018 by Bulgakov
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[desperateloser]

 I wish my family had noticed and fixed it when i was a child. I wasn't an ugly **** when i'm 12.

According to the results of scientific research, people who breathe in the mouth  have  mental retardation. So this explains why i had a  bad grades in highschool and elementary.

I don't even know what to do anymore. I have no job, no money, no mental health.

[baileyf14]

Hello! I am sorry you are going through this. Self confidence is a difficult thing to start feeling and it often takes people a while to be confident in themselves. I struggle with being self conscious and what I have learned to do is look in the mirror and tell my self that I am awesome the way I am. Eventually, this helped me see my true beauty and be comfortable in my own skin. That is SO important in someone's life. I hope everything gets better!

[JessiesMom]

You are a worthwhile person who is deserving of good things in your life. Never stop believing that. I have met people in my life in all shapes and sizes - and they are all beautiful on their own ways. Can you start by getting out a little each day? 

 

[JD4010]

On 11/4/2018 at 5:38 PM, desperateloser said:

 According to the results of scientific research, people who breathe in the mouth  have  mental retardation. So this explains why i had a  bad grades in highschool and elementary.

 

Well, that sounds like utter crap to me. There are many reasons why people breathe through their mouths; none of them related to intelligence or whatever. If nothing else, that was some piss-poor research on their part.

@Bulgakovdropped a big truth bomb in his post above. There are so many "sights, sounds, and tastes of this world that are worth staying for." That's certainly how I've had to think about my own life.

 

[desperateloser]

On 11/8/2018 at 10:33 PM, JD4010 said:

Well, that sounds like utter crap to me. There are many reasons why people breathe through their mouths; none of them related to intelligence or whatever. If nothing else, that was some piss-poor research on their part.

@Bulgakovdropped a big truth bomb in his post above. There are so many "sights, sounds, and tastes of this world that are worth staying for." That's certainly how I've had to think about my own life.

 

Dude, mouth breathing can really **** you up. Here is a great comparison between nasal breather and mouth breather.

 

 

I ****ing hate my parents so much. Environment is the only reason why I've become such a lonely retarded virgin. Environment=EVERYTHING.

Edited March 20, 2019 by desperateloser

[desperateloser]

On 11/8/2018 at 10:33 PM, JD4010 said:

Well, that sounds like utter crap to me. There are many reasons why people breathe through their mouths; none of them related to intelligence or whatever. If nothing else, that was some piss-poor research on their part.

@Bulgakovdropped a big truth bomb in his post above. There are so many "sights, sounds, and tastes of this world that are worth staying for." That's certainly how I've had to think about my own life.

 

Dude, mouth breathing can really **** you up. Here is a great comparison between nasal breather and mouth breather.

 

I ****ing hate my parents so much. Environment is the only reason why I've become such a lonely retarded virgin. Environment=EVERYTHING

[Summer896]

I wonder whether we should stop trying to get others to love us, and just start doing whatever the f*ck we want.

 

[desperateloser]

The only way to end it is suicide.  I found a method of suicide while I was asleep. I have sleep apnea and I'm not able to breathe through the nose. I'm gonna tape my mouth tightly and fall asleep, so oxygen won't go to the brain and I'm gonna be dead in my sleep.

Edited March 21, 2019 by desperateloser

[Soarsie18]

On 31 October 2018 at 9:16 PM, desperateloser said:

I have no qualifications. I can't even find a job. I fell into the void after high school. I'm not leaving the house. Even if I get a job, I can't be happy because in my country the minimum wage is very low. Suicide is the only solution.
 

Suicide is never the only solution. I know it's hard to see the future when your depressed. No matter how long you will be depressed for, it's worth it to come out the other side. It's worth the amount of pain your in now. Get help. Just keep existing until that moment comes. X

Money isn't everything, theres always something to be grateful for - people, kind people, and animals.

Edited March 22, 2019 by Soarsie18

[Tears_Always]

I could see some of that happening being a mouth breather but nothing like that has happened to me. my teeth are fine except I grind the back when I stress badly. As for intelligence I have a masters degree so I think I am okay there.

Do you have a dental school anywhere close they often offer cheep and sometimes free services. Have you contacted your local employment office to see if they offer training.

There are things to be done if you wish.

[desperateloser]

10 hours ago, Tears_Always said:

I could see some of that happening being a mouth breather but nothing like that has happened to me. my teeth are fine except I grind the back when I stress badly. As for intelligence I have a masters degree so I think I am okay there.

Do you have a dental school anywhere close they often offer cheep and sometimes free services. Have you contacted your local employment office to see if they offer training.

There are things to be done if you wish.

Then you are not chronic mouth breather. I have also sleep apnea as i mentioned. Imagine your mouth keep opening 7/24 for 10 years. Of course it will effect the face and teeth.