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On 5/1/2022 at 6:59 AM, Masoch said:

My mom told me - since I was 3. 😂

 

yes, I went through many changes; a couple months, to years. 

So far all the CO that I had/have has huge followings or handsome British guys. I definitely have a type. Their personal lives (Girlfriends) are the most painful part of it for me. 

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On 5/10/2022 at 1:00 AM, Honey1992 said:

So far all the CO that I had/have has huge followings or handsome British guys. I definitely have a type. Their personal lives (Girlfriends) are the most painful part of it for me. 

I know exactly what you mean. It’s the hardest part! And the fans who meet that CO often. 

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Hello! I just joined here.

(sigh) I have a CO. A fairly new one. 

I've had them in the past, but what's most disheartening is that this one is a decently well-known actor. He might be becoming an A-lister.

At first this was fun, watching his work and his handsome face made me smile, but (as you'd probably guess) I learned some info about his real life from reading a Reddit board about celebs. 

If anyone is going through this now please PM me. I hope for someone to commiserate about this very embarrassing and private problem. I'm a married 40+ woman with children.  

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Hey all!

Just checking in. So I actually do not claim to have a CO at this time. I wonder if it has to do with me being on a mood stabilizer. I haven't had much interest in anything for a while now. But there's also the fact that I'll never likely meet my COs so the obsession just has become boring. I'm not sure what more to say right now, but thinking of you all. Be well!

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On 7/19/2022 at 5:30 PM, anxiousE said:

Hey all!

Just checking in. So I actually do not claim to have a CO at this time. I wonder if it has to do with me being on a mood stabilizer. I haven't had much interest in anything for a while now. But there's also the fact that I'll never likely meet my COs so the obsession just has become boring. I'm not sure what more to say right now, but thinking of you all. Be well!

You're lucky.

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On 7/19/2022 at 4:30 PM, anxiousE said:

Hey all!

Just checking in. So I actually do not claim to have a CO at this time. I wonder if it has to do with me being on a mood stabilizer. I haven't had much interest in anything for a while now. But there's also the fact that I'll never likely meet my COs so the obsession just has become boring. I'm not sure what more to say right now, but thinking of you all. Be well!

I'm the same! I believe I have normal run of the mill celeb crushes, but they aren't obsessive and they don’t make me feel down because of their real life partners. Besides, I'm married and having a CO is almost like cheating in your heart so I've trained myself to not dwell on these actors. Instead I cast them in the books I write, which is enjoyable. (I dream of a TV adaptation,  of course!)

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On 7/20/2022 at 5:30 AM, anxiousE said:

Hey all!

Just checking in. So I actually do not claim to have a CO at this time. I wonder if it has to do with me being on a mood stabilizer. I haven't had much interest in anything for a while now. But there's also the fact that I'll never likely meet my COs so the obsession just has become boring. I'm not sure what more to say right now, but thinking of you all. Be well!

I understand on the boredom part. But for me, when I get bored with CO A, in a short amount of time, I can have another CO. Totally new and unintentional. Andddd movie stars again. GREAT!! Urghhhh 😔

Never ending battles

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Hi everyone

 

it’s been a long while since I have posted on here. I have suffered from COs since I was 7 and I am almost 40 now.  It seems every two to four years I get a new CO.  Currently I am totally head over heels over a band member from the 70s.  I spend a lot of free time looking at his videos or pictures of him.  I watch this one particular video so much that YouTube lists it every time I log on.  I watch the video at least once a day because the song is absolutely beautiful and he is just so gorgeous in that video that I need that fix every day.  I keep hoping one day I will be cured of this but so far COs keep rearing their ugly heads.

 

I hope the rest of you are all doing okay.

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