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I work with this women who I care for deeply.  She was very stressed this past week at work.  So all of a sudden she changed her behavior.  So shut me out.  I get stressed out at work too.  I guess my question is do you forgive someone  who you care about let you treat you this way?   Do you let people you care about/love treat you this way?  Just accept them for who they are?  

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3 hours ago, IVAX said:
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I work with this women who I care for deeply.  She was very stressed this past week at work.  So all of a sudden she changed her behavior.  So shut me out.  I get stressed out at work too.  I guess my question is do you forgive someone  who you care about let you treat you this way?   Do you let people you care about/love treat you this way?  Just accept them for who they are?  

It always sucks when people we like and care about are in a bad mood and in turn hurt us But I think its important to be patient and understanding. Your description is very vague but based on the little you wrote if this person was under a lot of stress and not in a good place its normal that their outwards expression are not going to be pleasant. Of course if their constantly violent and verbally abusing you then yeah get away but if their having some bad days and need their space I think we need to just understand that people have bad days and those bad days carry out moods that make us just not be pleasant people to be around because well be full of anger towards everything and everyone around us. its nothing personal. But you decide  what are your boundaries and how often this occurs. 

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Yeah it's a real complicated issue for me.  Back to work with her today.  I am so busy all the time at work.  Even though we work in a small department we have very different job roles.  I'm not an assertive person.  We have had fights at work.  My life is basically a huge disaster

 

 

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