RiverLight Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 (edited) @babyxgothxx aww, thank you & same to you! Right now, I am kind of freaking out about my new job. I am SO anxious about my job performance. I've done well so far with all that I've handed in, but they've given me tasks I've never really done before and I am SO scared of failure! I am worried about getting fired... I feel like I'm in over my head a little. I know I am intelligent and can figure out complex tasks or issues - I've proven this to myself in the past. But when I am given something new that I've never done, I freak out. I worry I can't do it. That's my first thought! I don't know how to do this.. I can't do this. So today I am filled with dread for facing my new job later in the day. It's been stressful so far, but it's new, so I suppose that's to be expected. I just worry.... will I succeed????? I may take another professional, advanced level course to help me, led by a top industry expert whom I follow. He is VERY good. It's expensive, but it may be worthwhile so that I CAN be successful and feel more confident of my skills. Edited February 14, 2018 by RiverLight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyforeigner Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 2 minutes ago, RiverLight said: I am worried about getting fired... I feel like I'm in over my head a little. I know I am intelligent and can figure out complex tasks or issues - I've proven this to myself in the past. But when I am given something new that I've never done, I freak out. I worry I can't do it. That's my first thought! I don't know how to do this.. I can't do this. You're worrying too much, it's a new job, no one expects you to know everything right away. Like you said, you're intelligent and you'll be able to figure it out which is all that matters, just have to do it a few times to get comfortable with new tasks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiverLight Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 1 minute ago, lonelyforeigner said: You're worrying too much, it's a new job, no one expects you to know everything right away. Like you said, you're intelligent and you'll be able to figure it out which is all that matters, just have to do it a few times to get comfortable with new tasks. Aw, thanks LF. I DO worry too much! I will have to just have confidence in my intelligence to figure things out. It's gonna be a challenging role, I can tell already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natasha1 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 7 hours ago, Asta said: Only to my cat. My grandma started to be mean to me again. I told her how I've been having stomach problems and now I've lost weight even if I've been eating a lot of maple syrup. She thinks it's good because I lost weight. I hope I waste away to nothing. Your grandma is a piece of work. If it means anything to you how i feel, your life means something to me. I know im some stranger miles away but its true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natasha1 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 @RiverLight you got this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiverLight Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Just now, Natasha1 said: @RiverLight you got this TY! I HOPE SO!!!! I REALLY need to succeed and keep this job now. I cannot afford to lose it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladysmurf Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 2 hours ago, babyxgothxx said: Thanks hun! Who knows I may meet someone there? lol Same here... I'm going to buy all the chocolate after working lol Hope you enjoy the day!!! Remember, just because you don't have a Valentine, doesn't mean you are unloved or lonely... You have a lot of people who love you here... Same applies to @RiverLight and @HeatherG Love you and enjoy the chocolate... You deserve to indulge! Take care hun! Yes!! I hope you do, you are young and beautiful so I hope you meet a nice person :) Buy more chocolates tomorrow when they are like 50% off it's even better. I gave up on love/life a long time ago. It's very hard for me to trust a guy. I shouldn't judge all men, because not all women have good intentions either....but being treatment-resistant, and hurt from previous relationships I gave up. People tell me to not lose hope and I'm still young, but I just think it just BS for me personally. Life is unfair, it is what it is, I accepted that a long time ago, I am hanging on by a thread just like many others on here. So for all of us suffering and trying to get by, eat some chocolate :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aki Sky Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Only if I could quote each and every one of you I hope you all have a blessed day @babyxgothxxhugs you tightly Treat yourself to a wonderful day we are all here for each other 💚 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natasha1 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Im actually excited. In less than an hour...actually probably in 30 minutes i will be able to practice singing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Llama Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 I know I'm not alone in this feeling but... "Fudge" this day in particular. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD4010 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 16 hours ago, Asta said: I feel like my life doesn't matter. It does. You're part of this family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LonelyHiker Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 59 minutes ago, Natasha1 said: Im actually excited. In less than an hour...actually probably in 30 minutes i will be able to practice singing! Yay!😃 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD4010 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 (edited) 50 minutes ago, Llama said: I know I'm not alone in this feeling but... "Fudge" this day in particular. Ya hey. My sentiments exactly. Edited February 14, 2018 by JD4010 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD4010 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 @babyxgothxx Some very lucky guy will come along soon and be part of your life. It's inevitable. You seem to be a fascinating person and there many guys out there who would really appreciate you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyxgothxx Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 I WISH I was dead... I should seriously hurt myself because I'm a useless waste of oxygen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyxgothxx Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Why the f--k am I still here, guys?? Please tell me WHY I still stick around... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jules19 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Today is bittersweet. I actually have a boyfriend this Valentine's Day for the first time in years, but he lives in another state. Oh well. I always liked waiting a few days after Valentine's to buy some discount candy anyways haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JD4010 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 1 hour ago, babyxgothxx said: I WISH I was dead... I should seriously hurt myself because I'm a useless waste of oxygen Absolutely not. Use as much oxygen as you need. I, for one, am happy that you are alive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sober4life Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 @babyxgothxx I agree with what @JD4010 has said about you. I think you're great. I always look forward to seeing your posts. You're a very loving, caring good person and you will find someone that will make you happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aki Sky Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 2 hours ago, babyxgothxx said: I WISH I was dead... I should seriously hurt myself because I'm a useless waste of oxygen What's going on? Why are you feeling this way?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sober4life Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 3 hours ago, Natasha1 said: Im actually excited. In less than an hour...actually probably in 30 minutes i will be able to practice singing! It sounds like a lot of fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyxgothxx Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 51 minutes ago, JD4010 said: Absolutely not. Use as much oxygen as you need. I, for one, am happy that you are alive. Thanks hun... I'm feeling better now... But still feeling useless! So happy YOU are alive, hun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyxgothxx Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 35 minutes ago, Aki Sky said: What's going on? Why are you feeling this way?? I was feeling useless because I don't have a boyfriend... UGH!!! Because of this, I look at myself and see an ugly, haggard witch Also my co-worker skinny-shamed me... Most people do but I probably eat more than them... Just kidding... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aki Sky Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 26 minutes ago, babyxgothxx said: I was feeling useless because I don't have a boyfriend... UGH!!! Because of this, I look at myself and see an ugly, haggard witch Also my co-worker skinny-shamed me... Most people do but I probably eat more than them... Just kidding... Don't feel bad *hugs*I myself have been single for the past six years 😞.... Seeing one my best friends getting married after a while you really miss having someone to spend time with. Don't listen to what those toxic people have to say any person who is mean to you with have it coming to them I promise. One of my best friends had his heart broken and dealt wrong and guess what his ex is doing worse now that same friend has found someone who values him and loves him for who he is. The right people will come to your life and love you for who you are 💚 those mean people don't belong in your life leave them far behind Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyxgothxx Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 42 minutes ago, Aki Sky said: Don't feel bad *hugs*I myself have been single for the past six years 😞.... Seeing one my best friends getting married after a while you really miss having someone to spend time with. Don't listen to what those toxic people have to say any person who is mean to you with have it coming to them I promise. One of my best friends had his heart broken and dealt wrong and guess what his ex is doing worse now that same friend has found someone who values him and loves him for who he is. The right people will come to your life and love you for who you are 💚 those mean people don't belong in your life leave them far behind Thanks hun... I feel loads better and have so much hope... So sorry that you and your friends went through the same pain... *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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