nexus321 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 Why should she like me? Why would she be interested in me? I'm not muscular,tall, popular or rich enough. These are the thoughts I get when I talk to a girl I like. I don't want to think like this but I can't seem to stop. How do I change my way of thinking???? help! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corbin Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Who is "she?" That aside, what matters is not how popular, tall, muscular, or rich you are. What matters is if you are yourself. The only way to stop thinking like this is to take the risk of telling her how you feel. Even if you do get rejected, you'll still gain experience from it. That experience being that you'll learn not to make the same mistake again. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mhartyn Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Corbin is right about being yourself .Believe in your ability to deal with the outcome, whatever it may be. Society pushes these ideals on us, who are not necessary there or real. But ask what exactly a relationship means to you? And what are you looking for? Question your motives and thoughts understand you mind and thought processes. All the best -M 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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