Jcishere98 Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 I wear a tank top sleeveless and boxers. There are couple girls in the house tho, can they see everything or will I be fine 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denise17 Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 If you live with female roommates...no, it is not okay. They probably can see everything and they don't want to...even by accident. Put on a pair of outdoor shorts. It is not that you might not have a great body, you probably do...but save it for an appropriate female. Women typically don't want to see men's private parts. We are women and we think differently about these things than men do... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whatchagonnado Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 I would say that if you say you don't know what someone else can or cannot see, go with some regular pants - yes ? Hmmmm. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcishere98 Posted December 18, 2014 Author Share Posted December 18, 2014 I've been wearing boxers and tanktop for like 12 months tho everyday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmberV Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 one of my ex housemate used to do this too, we ended up dating. lolif it was the guy who i currently live with, id prob feel quite sick seeing him in boxers 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whatchagonnado Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 Stop wearing them around other people. It is up to you, not others, to control these kinds of actions. You know you could wear regular shorts. Do you enjoy the thought that you might be making other people uncomfortable ? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcishere98 Posted December 18, 2014 Author Share Posted December 18, 2014 Housemate ***??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Razzamatazz Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 Print this one and take it to your psych too. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taney Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 I'm assuming you aren't using the boxers as shorts, so I would have to say it's probably not a good idea. As a woman, I would be uncomfortable with someone walking around the house dressed that way. The only way to find out if your room mates would be uncomfortable is to ask them. BTW, housemate is another term for room mate. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcishere98 Posted December 18, 2014 Author Share Posted December 18, 2014 But will I be okay??? I can't change the past and what I did for 12 months Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taney Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 You've walked around like this in front of them for all that time? I would say if they were uncomfortable with it, they should have mentioned it a long time ago. There is nothing you can do about the past. If it bothers you that much, talk to them and see how they feel about it. But, be willing to change your attire if they aren't ok with it. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcishere98 Posted December 18, 2014 Author Share Posted December 18, 2014 Talk to who? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcishere98 Posted December 18, 2014 Author Share Posted December 18, 2014 And btw I don't wear that anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duck Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 I wear a tank top sleeveless and boxers. There are couple girls in the house tho, can they see everything or will I be fineI do that all the time. No complaints from anyone as yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcishere98 Posted December 18, 2014 Author Share Posted December 18, 2014 Duck do u have major depressive disorder?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taney Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 If you are concerned about walking around dressed like that in the past, I think your room mates would have said something. If they haven't, I wouldn't worry about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TiffanyC Posted December 21, 2014 Share Posted December 21, 2014 If you are wondering if it is ok, that sounds to me you are being convicted that maybe that isn't the right thing to do. A little modesty never hurt anyone :) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmberV Posted December 21, 2014 Share Posted December 21, 2014 I wouldn't worry about it if it was in the past. Look forward in life, not back. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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