Hey guys, My boyfriend and I have been going out for nearly 3 years and we are the best of friends. One of the things that brings us together is our strong morals, one of them being we are strongly against drugs. However, his parents (mainly his father) has been using drugs for a rather long time. And I have begun to notice it. All the symptoms are there, and the smell is just disgusting. My partner and I are both 19 but he has young siblings too. His mother claims to love her kids completely and care for them, but I know she used to smoke it too, although I am not sure if she has given it up. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend feels like he can't even hold a decent conversation with his dad because he is always too high to talk to anyone. I don't know what to do. I am very against drugs of any kind, and normally I would tell the police, but the big family of 7 rely on his income. But I am scared and confused. He can get very violent, and he is also an alcoholic, and he sometimes drink drives. My boyfriend wishes there was something he could do (he has told his mother, but she just says "ohh" and walks off), and I feel like I can't do anything because I don't want to tear the family apart. Help? Thankyou. Sorry it was so long.