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whatchagonnado

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  1. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    Thank you both. Tomorrow is the day I will know whether or not we both get relief. My heart is pounding and my hands are sweaty. What if she says no. What will I do. I cannot rehome him as he's a skittish cat and he's only known me for the last 11 years. I am so down and trying to keep bad thoughts at bay.
  2. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    So very sad. I cannot take care of my kitty who has what might be kidney disease. I have an appointment with a vet on Thursday and I hope they sign off on euthanizing my dear boy. I sent an email to the doctor so that I could better explain how I can't not only afford his care, but also can't emotionally and physically care for a kitty who will need growing care as the disease progresses. I am so scared that they will refuse. I wish I could care for him and I wish he could live forever. I will be completely alone once he's gone.
  3. 3 Words Of The Moment

    take me trazodone
  4. Wait. You go on and on about women using you, and here you are talking about using a woman you know is looking for something serious. Really ? You really are all about you. Has it ever occurred to you that other people can also have difficulties with communication and knowing what they want and figuring out how to explain those things ? That it's not only you who struggles with things ? * ETA - I see you said that it pi*ses you off that some women act a certain way on these dating sites and ' just ' want to chat, etc. And there you are, knowing a woman is looking for something serious and you are going to use her as " more experience ". What the ever-loving?
  5. I am gonna die alone

    Some men like to bash feminists whenever they can. The problem with his post was that he thought he was being reasonable and not asking for too much, considering he had sex with a fat woman. I wasn't caring about inner beauty or whatever. What he said and my response obviously went over your head. Ah, not I am outing myself as one of those feminists. * insert eye roll here *
  6. I am gonna die alone

    " The only woman in my 32 years who willingly engaged in anything close to sex with me (she insisted on dry humping and me eating her out) was like 250 pounds at best. I don't really think looks are at the top of my requirements list " What a horrible thing to say.
  7. Husband treats me like crap

    Amanda, that exhausting just reading that. If there is absolutely anywhere you can go and be away from him, try. What is the point of looking for " solutions ". Relationships are these things that have rules, and there is no rule that you should try and work something out that is so horrible. If you have the means, get out.
  8. What Really Bugs You (7)

    Summer. I don't like it. I am tired of the supposed joys of it being shoved down my throat. Many people hate Summer. I am tired of the heat and the constant bright light. When it starts raining here in the PNW, I will be happily gloating to all those who bang on about heat and all the gross things associated with it. Summer sucks.
  9. Many men these days are saying they are angry and bitter, and I always see flashing yellow lights when I read or hear it. It's threatening, saying that people, meaning women, need to stop doing something that make men angry and bitter.
  10. Hurting due to lack of spousal contact

    You told your wife about that ? That is a very low thing you did to this person you say is your everything. Make a decision as to whether or not you stay with your wife. She obviously cannot reciprocate in the sex department at this time, so don't make her feel guilty for that, which is what you wanted to do by telling her. Why else ? You are not getting what you physically want, and she is trying to survive actual life. No one is in the hospital for a month because they are just feeling down. Now, since you felt a need to tell her this horrible thing, she gets to have that in her mind. She isn't a machine, sexual or otherwise, and if ten months is too much of a burden, then you should seriously consider why you are still around.
  11. Caught in my lies

    He won't end up homeless. He will find someone else to abuse and manipulate. His being abusive should be what you think about when you start feeling sorry for him. I would leave as soon as possible and have friends be with you when you do. Be careful.
  12. Grace, he just wants to be friends. Anything else seems to me as him wanting to keep you around, in a way and to a degree, while he get's through whatever it is going on with him. It's unfortunate that others have walked away from him ( and I hope he has told you in honesty why that happened ), but do not allow damage to you and your life just so he can have someone kind of around.
  13. Teddy, that is your opinion and you of course are welcome to it. I've seen plenty to understand what's going on.
  14. You sure do know everything about women who are alone, don't you. Oh wait, very few women are alone, according to you. And, why are you still open to meeting this woman ? If you are that offended by what she says, then don't meet her. Sorry, but that seems like you want her to not apologize or whatever. It's like you get some satisfaction over saying ' ah-HA ! ' when a woman is being a jerk, just so you can make note of how you never get what you think is a fair shake. She said what she did. You then need to make the decision, but she doesn't owe you a response. Why do you want a response.
  15. How Do You Feel Today? #32

    Worrying about something that won't even be an initial ' thing ' for probably 8 months.