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  1. no, i think the problem with me is that i lose my motivation very easy like last year, when i started exercising i didnt want to stop because i didnt want to lose my motivation to exercise and yet an injury happened to me and i couldnt exercise and i lost my motivation to exercise. i wish i knew how to fix this.
  2. last night, my brother asked me to go see his friend, that i havent seen in almost 2 years and i refused to go, my mom and dad are upset and so am i, i just feel so trapped, im afraid my disorder is getting worst where i cant socialize, find work, and even going out of date, i dont know what to do.
  3. oh no, i wont ask anything about their relationship status or anything like that, first i'll ask what aisle this thing is at and then i ask for her name and i say you look really pretty and then i ask if she wants to hang out sometime if she says no then i say i understand, i'll move on. that's what i did with the cashier, she was really pleased on how i approached it since i wasnt confident about it at all, it made me felt good. i always tell my dad about how they will think im trying to think they will get me for sexual harrassment but he says dont worry about it unless you make anything sexual which in my statement it was nothing like that. so i dont think it will be a problem.
  4. thanks, i feel good, i just feel like i have to do more than asking out female cashiers because i dont see them all the time so if i find a female shopper like in the womens clothing or someone that pops out in front of me, do you have any advice you can give me?
  5. im a male, so i need advice from males only, first of all, i finally asked a girl cashier out and of course she had boyfriend but she was very nice about it and i completely understood about it, after i got home i feeling down again because i feel like all cashier girls i ask out might have bfs so the next day i want to ask out female shoppers but i dont know how to approach them without being creepy. does anyone have advice on what i should say? because that's what im really stuck on right now and im really beating and stressing myself over it.
  6. i tried energy b 12 vitmains, they help me but they are making me, i have alot of heartburn from them, it's like everything is making me sick, i just dont know what else to do to make myself better, anyone have advice?
  7. i was at lowes today, i saw this girl i like, but i couldnt talk to her, i have social anxiety disorder, im very frustrated when i came out, it's like my brain doesnt want me to socialize, it's scary because i feel like im never going to get over this and be alone for the rest of my life, if anyone is dealing with this, does anyone have advice? because i dont know what to do.
  8. im doing ok so far, it's really hard right now, im trying to go through a dating site, im getting alot of negativity about them, im trying to go to different places, there's not many girls around. i dont know im really lost right now, im not going to hurt myself, it's just so hard finding someone.
  9. im hurting so much right now it's ******* me because i was on vacation, i was hoping to meet someone when that didnt happen, i was heartbroken and tears while i was in the hotel and coming home, now on top of that, im probably not going to go on a vacation at all next year because my parents only want to go on vacation after labor day which is usually the first week of september because they are cheap and they dont want to be in crowds and now next year, labor day falls on the second week of september which means it's usually cold i go to ocean city, new jersey and im probably going to stuck in hotel and going on the board walk for 3 straight days and no beach and pool which is why i go down. im so frustrated that i just want to end right now because god doesnt want me to be happy and i got family that just sticks their nose up the air at me, it's like is my death going to make you wake up and understand you are ones being selfish, i dont know what to do, im not going to **** myself, im just so heartbroken with the way things are going in my life, i feel like im never going to be happy.
  10. i went back to lowes, i saw a cute girl again, couldnt do it, went back to car and burst into tears, on top of that, i got home, my mom has to nerve to say you didnt talk to that girl did you? i said no and also said thanks vote of confidence, which im probably never going to have, im in a very bad place right now and im still hurting right now.
  11. i tried, there's no openings there, i'll just have to make my own luck.
  12. and my dad comes home, i'll tell him what's going on and he tells me to find a job and there's nothing out there, it just makes me feel worse, it's make depressed when i hear the same lip service, instead of actually physically helping me.
  13. i went out today to get a couple of things at lowes and i saw this cute girl that does applicanes and i couldnt talk to her and i wanted to ask for her number because she was talking to a coworker and i let it go because it's embarassing and i went around to look at things and i came back again and she was with a customer and i felt so depressed because i wanted to ask her out, its been happening to me everytime, not just today but the other times, i have been over there. i get so frustrated that i want to hang myself because it seems like god hates me, he doesnt want me to be happy, im probably the uglest person in their eyes, he just wants me to be a slave and lonely until im an old man, i dont know what to do. maybe im not making the effort hard enough, im just so affraid of girls because i have no confidence. i just dont know where to start. im not going to hurt myself, i need some help to get my confidence, it's really bad right now, any advice is good to get through this.
  14. i feel like i should because it's eating me up inside, getting depressed, im always in pain all over, jaw, stomach, head. everytime my mom walks i wanted to tell say something but i keep holding it back.
  15. i wish, im stuck at home, im unemployed, no friends etc, i have no place to go.
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