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Hertz

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    Hertz got a reaction from evalynn in A-Z: Baby Names Game #4   
    Methuselah
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    Hertz got a reaction from Barrier Maiden in What Are You Listening To? #4   
    Boards of Canada - Cold Earth
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    Hertz reacted to nothing_man in What Are You Listening To? #4   
    Good one! I love Boards of Canada ❤️
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    Hertz got a reaction from nothing_man in What Are You Listening To? #4   
    Boards of Canada - Cold Earth
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    Hertz got a reaction from AloneGuy in epictetus' "Did You Ever?" Thread, Part 3   
    In the song Smooth Criminal I thought for a long time that the lyrics were "Are you ok daddy" instead of "Are you ok Annie" 😂
    Did you ever meet a celebrity?
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    Hertz got a reaction from evalynn in epictetus' "Did You Ever?" Thread, Part 3   
    In the song Smooth Criminal I thought for a long time that the lyrics were "Are you ok daddy" instead of "Are you ok Annie" 😂
    Did you ever meet a celebrity?
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    Hertz got a reaction from JD4010 in How do You Feel Right Now? #12   
    Low energy.
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    Hertz got a reaction from watalife in epictetus' "Did You Ever?" Thread, Part 3   
    Yes.
    Were you ever awake for a full 24h?
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    Hertz got a reaction from evalynn in evalynn's "A-Z: Animals Game" Thread, Part 3   
    Albatross.
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    Hertz reacted to TopekaK in Attachment   
    Yes, for the last few years, and it has been worrying.  The first thing I think of is some personality disorder but then i realize not everything needs to be a diagnosis! 
    It's feeling more like a defense and fear of loss. I also wonder if certain medication has anything to do with it.  Anyway i do think i can relate on some level. 
     
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    Hertz reacted to TrytoFly in Attachment   
    I have noticed this in myself lately. I do have people in my life that I care about and am attached to but I rarely feel love. If I have ever felt love before it hasn’t been in years. People I should feel love for I simply don’t have those feelings. In turn if they tell me that they love me I cannot feel those feelings in return. I’m not sure what causes this but it does prevent me from bonding more deeply with people or experiencing the richer feelings of existence. Somewhere along the line it just happened. I don’t know why.
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    Hertz got a reaction from camilo in Attachment   
    I wonder if there are any people out there with attachment issues similar to mine.
    Basically, I can't develop feelings of attachment. I have friends and relations and appreciate social stimulation, but I don't feel love.
    I don't think it is a an attachment style issue. I had a therapist suggest I may have an avoidant attachment style, but I think it goes beyond that. The feelings are just not there.
    This leaves me feeling disconnected from others, and myself as well.
     
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    Hertz got a reaction from TopekaK in Attachment   
    I wonder if there are any people out there with attachment issues similar to mine.
    Basically, I can't develop feelings of attachment. I have friends and relations and appreciate social stimulation, but I don't feel love.
    I don't think it is a an attachment style issue. I had a therapist suggest I may have an avoidant attachment style, but I think it goes beyond that. The feelings are just not there.
    This leaves me feeling disconnected from others, and myself as well.
     
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    Hertz got a reaction from Epictetus in Attachment   
    I wonder if there are any people out there with attachment issues similar to mine.
    Basically, I can't develop feelings of attachment. I have friends and relations and appreciate social stimulation, but I don't feel love.
    I don't think it is a an attachment style issue. I had a therapist suggest I may have an avoidant attachment style, but I think it goes beyond that. The feelings are just not there.
    This leaves me feeling disconnected from others, and myself as well.
     
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    Hertz got a reaction from evalynn in epictetus' "Create Your Own Minimal Poem For Today" Thread, Part Two   
    A narrow path
    Bordered by
    Labyrinthine precipices
    Hungry abysses
    Sharp thorns
    And slippery slopes
     
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    Hertz got a reaction from evalynn in epictetus' "Create Your Own Minimal Poem For Today" Thread, Part Two   
    Freedom
    To cry
    To grieve
    To be lead by brutes
    To lose
    Fly free

     
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    Hertz got a reaction from samadhiSheol in epictetus' "Create Your Own Minimal Poem For Today" Thread, Part Two   
    Freedom
    To cry
    To grieve
    To be lead by brutes
    To lose
    Fly free

     
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    Hertz got a reaction from hocico in What Are You Listening To? #4   
    Trist - Květy snových dálek
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    Hertz got a reaction from Epictetus in What Are You Listening To? #4   
    Trist - Květy snových dálek
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    Hertz got a reaction from Tilted in How Do You Feel Right Now #11   
    Struggling.
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    Hertz got a reaction from JD4010 in How Do You Feel Right Now #11   
    Struggling.
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    Hertz got a reaction from ladysmurf in How Do You Feel Right Now #11   
    Struggling.
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    Hertz got a reaction from Time Machine in My life was wasted and now I'm at a nadir   
    If I went into a time machine, it's likely I would just make different mistakes. Being human means making mistakes. That's how we evolve. People who are happy did not make less mistakes. They were priviledged to receive tools to better cope with mistakes. They had more supportive, more encouraging parents. They felt loved and supported, so their mistakes don't affect their sense of self-worth. I think a better avenue is to own our mistakes and learn from them.
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    Hertz got a reaction from Epictetus in Pick Between These Two #15   
    Victorian ghost story
    Morning or afternoon?
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    Hertz got a reaction from idkusername465 in My life was wasted and now I'm at a nadir   
    If I went into a time machine, it's likely I would just make different mistakes. Being human means making mistakes. That's how we evolve. People who are happy did not make less mistakes. They were priviledged to receive tools to better cope with mistakes. They had more supportive, more encouraging parents. They felt loved and supported, so their mistakes don't affect their sense of self-worth. I think a better avenue is to own our mistakes and learn from them.
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