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Hertz

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    Hertz reacted to MrMisery in Second depression   
    It's never a walk in the park. Don't belittle your past battles. It took courage to get through.
     
    This new, and greater challenge you face, is something you can face.
    And sometimes these struggles are a good thing. They give us strength, and more than that, they give us empathy.
     
    Not sure if these words are of any use... but hey, here they are. Maybe I'm just crazy.
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    Hertz reacted to Mike1992 in Unemployed   
    Stay strong.  Addiction isn't worth it.  
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    Hertz got a reaction from TopekaK in Dream came true   
    I completely agree. Although it's always better when the person is alive and well, the fact that it's technically possible to meet and communicate, and that the future is uncertain and you never know if your paths will cross again makes it really challenging to move on
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    Hertz got a reaction from TopekaK in Dream came true   
    Thank you TopekaK for the encouragement. Lately I've been feeling very timid in general, unable to take chances. I have a lot of internal barriers and inhibitions.
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    Hertz reacted to TopekaK in Dream came true   
    But you should take the chance.
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    Hertz reacted to TopekaK in Dream came true   
    Relationship heartaches and loss are so hard to grieve because the other person is not actually gone, and it can feel impossible to let go.
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    Hertz reacted to ArnoldJRimmer in Missing   
    This is almost the same war that rages in my head every waking moment.
    It wasnt family for me as they tried their best.  It was others 
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    Hertz got a reaction from teasips in Trusting Or Careless?   
    I don't think you had to "prove" the authenticity of your story. When giving advices, the other person will likely use 5% of it, or none of it, so there's no point in taking a risk such as divulgating such an information. In addition, the topic of conversation had nothing to do with hospitalization.
    Sorry if I sound harsh, I'm sharing my experience.
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    Hertz reacted to RiverLight in Job Performance Anxiety   
    Thanks, Hertz. I have signed up to receive alerts about these in my area and there haven't been any. Otherwise, they cost a ton of money, which I don't have. =(
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    Hertz got a reaction from Asta in Dream: Maynard; Hangar; Trash   
    I think he symbolizes my ability to express myself.
    There was something I wanted to express but instead I tried to cover it up with garbage.
    The fact that he didn't want to be seen shirtless means I was ashamed of expressing something.
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    Hertz got a reaction from Asta in Love and Remeron   
    I can understand the wish to not have crushes. So far they haven't brought me anything very good. They have pushed me to get more involved in the dating scene, which I find rife with disappointment.
    I stopped having crushes long before starting Remeron. For some reason, after diminishing the dosage they returned. It could be a transient phenomenon, a side-effect of the tapering off, something to do with dopamine.
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    Hertz reacted to Hotaru in Goals   
    I might be able to help you with the recipes, if you'd like any help with ideas! What do you like to eat?  :)
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    Hertz reacted to samadhiSheol in Laid off.... Partially   
    Riv, I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you find a new job soon so you can tell your boss where to shove it..
    Muchos hugs!
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    Hertz reacted to Alien_Isolation in Change   
    I know how you feel. Esp the volunteer work.
     
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    Hertz reacted to JasonDark in In Love.. Can't Sit Still   
    Eazy...the roller coaster is climbing.
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    Hertz got a reaction from BettrResultsHereIHope in unemployment   
    Thanks for the comment and advice :) I do fit the profile you're describing. These are good ways to give some structure to my days. I've been going to a job search center these past two days. At least it's a change of scenery and I'm surrounded by other job seekers, and there is a job counsellor if I need assistance.
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    Hertz got a reaction from BettrResultsHereIHope in In Love With Me or Not?   
    Congratulations on having a access to the feeling of love and floating in the air. I had crushes but never really fell in love.
    I wouldn't close the door on love. Maybe there are things to be learned from this turn of event? Perhaps there were red flags? I believe your next relationship will be much more satisfying because this event will help you know yourself better and improve your ability to filter out guys like him.
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    Hertz got a reaction from RiverLight in It's Darkest Before Dawn   
    Go girl, that's what I call a great rebound, enjoy your two dates
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    Hertz got a reaction from Natasha1 in In Love With Me or Not?   
    Congratulations on having a access to the feeling of love and floating in the air. I had crushes but never really fell in love.
    I wouldn't close the door on love. Maybe there are things to be learned from this turn of event? Perhaps there were red flags? I believe your next relationship will be much more satisfying because this event will help you know yourself better and improve your ability to filter out guys like him.
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    Hertz reacted to RiverLight in In Love With Me or Not?   
    thanks, Hertz... it just hurts too much to love... I don't believe in it anymore... maybe I'll change my mind if another right person comes along.. I thought I had it & now it's just gone. Poof! Just like that. In and out of my life quickly. Gone. He is a really good guy, and I don't fault him for having emotional problems. He needs to figure them out, but I would have been there for him.... now I don't even have that opportunity. =(
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    Hertz got a reaction from RiverLight in In Love With Me or Not?   
    Congratulations on having a access to the feeling of love and floating in the air. I had crushes but never really fell in love.
    I wouldn't close the door on love. Maybe there are things to be learned from this turn of event? Perhaps there were red flags? I believe your next relationship will be much more satisfying because this event will help you know yourself better and improve your ability to filter out guys like him.
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    Hertz got a reaction from Clarissa in unemployment   
    Thanks for the comment and advice :) I do fit the profile you're describing. These are good ways to give some structure to my days. I've been going to a job search center these past two days. At least it's a change of scenery and I'm surrounded by other job seekers, and there is a job counsellor if I need assistance.
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    Hertz reacted to Clarissa in unemployment   
    I think your experience of unemployment is not uncommon, Hertz. Having a job really brings a sense of community, purpose, motivation and structure. A LOT of people become depressed and start floundering when that goes away. I wonder if there is some volunteer work or internship you could do or take a class or something. It might help to give some structure to your day, get you out around people and give you a feeling that you are being productive with your time. If you don't already, maybe going to the gym or starting a new exercise regime could give you something to focus on other than just the job search. Hoping something pans out for ya soon.
    We're here for ya!
    xo, C
     
     
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    Hertz reacted to Corbin in unemployment   
    You need to find a job that helps with your depression. Try doing some online jobs if commuting is difficult for you. Also, I suggest seeing a mental health professional or group therapy. Group therapy is cheaper than one-on-one, so do what's best for you.
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    Hertz reacted to carter_burn1 in Modern-Day Robinson Crusoe   
    Very insightful. Thanks for sharing this with everybody! Great food for thought with a positive flavor...something I don't see much of these days  =)
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