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  1. 26 minutes ago, JD4010 said:

    After a grueling three weeks, my daughter is finally out of the hospital. She had a strange confluence of health issues that almost croaked her. She's very weak and will be in recovery for a long time, but at least she's home. I'm hoping she's up and active again by the time her birthday rolls around in November.

    Im sorry she was so sick  but she has you to look after her right, hope she's as strong as you seem to be, i know you must have been terribly worried and tried not to let her see it,  how are you doing through all of this. Remember to take care of yourself also

  2. 1 hour ago, Depressedgurl007 said:

    I’m feeling ok this morning. Had a very bad day yesterday, but today is a new day. It might end badly though, judging from how pathetic I am in handling my work n communicating with others n with the voices in my head. Preparing myself to have a bad day on a good morning. Why do I do this. Sigh. 

    Its because we are trying to prepare for what we always expect,  hard times, not always true but it's what we do

  3. 2 hours ago, Nightjar said:

    Argh, it's difficult here..I'm kinda stuck here at the moment because of my foot. I guess this is making things extra difficult.

    All of the people who push my buttons in life are in and out constantly, (close family members) if it's not one, it's the other....A continuous merry go round. 

    I'm used to soooo much more space than this. I have my buttons pushed on a daily basis currently.

    Normally I will disappear for at least a part of the day and get some space but I can't right now.

    Whinge, whinge. Sorry for the whining. If my lawyer is to be believed, I only have about 8 more weeks to go and I'm free 💃

    8 weeks awesome, get that foot healed, btw how is it feeling. Is it black and blue

  4. 5 minutes ago, cherryapplez2020 said:

    Well am no longer trusting anyone with anything about me like everything and also will no longer say anything about anything like at all and I swear if this so called used to be friend comes on here talking about me am going to tell everyone everything not gonna hold back at all won’t say bad words but yea not gonna hold back I am serious 

    I am deeply sorry things didn't work out and i feel partly responsible for you getting back in touch which makes me sad, maybe i overstepped,  i was just trying to help you know definitively one way or the other so there was no question,  i hope you are ok

  5. 20 minutes ago, cherryapplez2020 said:

    Well I stopped talking to my friend again go figure I’ll be honest he comes on here so I guess I might have to quit posting on here

    You're good, unless you cant handle it, but you tried and that was better then just giving up right away.

  6. On 7/18/2022 at 3:05 PM, sober4life said:

    It's amazing.  They called me on Friday to tell me my windows wouldn't be here for 3 more weeks but during the conversation I told them I actually wanted to order a couple more things and mysteriously now my windows will be installed tomorrow.  Of course tomorrow I have to have a dumb look on my face and go on and on about how lucky I am to get the windows early like I don't have any idea I'm being manipulated.  I'll do it this time because things went my way.

    How did the window installation go

  7. 1 hour ago, Nightjar said:

    I've been feeling really tired for about a week. I'm just trying to rest as much as I can 🤔

    rest while you can, you have work ahead of you when you complete the home buying process, but it's good work that you'll be exited to do customizing your new home to your liking.

  8. 30 minutes ago, cherryapplez2020 said:

    I called him 

    Hopefully it was at the least a conversation to bury hard feelings and a start to maybe some kind of friendship again, but you made the effort and if it doesn't work you tried and didn't just give up, you owe it to yourself to either renew friendship or end things amicably where you can accept the results.

  9. you need time for yourself, working and being extremely busy all the time, stressing all the time over things you cannot change,  worrying about what has not happened yet all feeds the anxiety that increases the depression and suicidal ideation,  don't strive for perfection, perfection is unattainable because as soon as you think you are about there YOU change the parameters of what perfection is then you take it out on yourself for not getting there, divorce is hard on you but it's not the end of you, it can be the beginning of something better, you just have to allow yourself to make it that, in the end you won't wish you made more money in your life that's just material, spend time with the kids, work can wait, just my opinion. best wishes

  10. 7 hours ago, ladysmurf said:

    not that great...i didnt get a good night sleep, i had weird dreams... no energy

    i very often do not sleep well sometimes not at all, when i do i always have strange dreams, i long ago stopped trying to make sense of them and just enjoy the amusment of what i dreamed

  11. 45 minutes ago, cherryapplez2020 said:

    Well am so upset about not talking to my friend anymore I got sick 🤢😖

    giving it is making you so upset and i don't know why you don't talk and don't need to know, it sounds to me like you still want to talk to them, is there any way you two can make amends and continue the friendship, even if it is never what it once was, it might be better then no friendship at all,  maybe your friend feels the same way.

    anyway  i hope you find a way to heal from this   "hugs"

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