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  1. On 1/7/2022 at 4:59 AM, GroovyChick said:

    Update: Well, mom passed away on December 14.  I tried to reach out to my late sister's husband and found out he died in 2018!  I feel horrible i never contacted him sooner.  His family never tried to reach me either.  Now I have another dilemma:  I found out I can't do anything with the house since the deed was in both mine and my sister's name.  I can't reach my late brother-in-law's family.  I've left messages for his daughter and cousin.  No one is calling me back.  I'm worried that they may be avoiding me.  Maybe I'm just jumping to conclusions way too soon.  It sucks being sensitive.

    Regret to hear you mom passing away. I hope you have made some progress in resolving your issues.

  2. On 8/16/2021 at 10:55 PM, RoselineM said:

    It's been 3 months since I had a nasty break up in my relationship. I am depressed. And feel like ******* myself.

    I was searching for a solution to depression and I found this forum. I am unhappy and depressed. I am lost at life

    I hope you are feeling better now. I went through a similar situation. Over a period of time we get over this.

  3. On 9/19/2021 at 10:08 PM, Kyrani said:

    I found that humane people get angry for two reasons. They are either there is an injustice or there is a violation. And I think that this is because in both cases we may need the extra energy we get with anger. We might have to take a firm stance against the injustice or we might need to fight back against some violation.

    To overcome the anger I believe it is necessary to address the issue that gives rise to the anger. If we don't address the issue it is hard not to be angry. 

    A very interesting observation. I tend to agree with you. 

  4. 10 hours ago, cherryapplez2020 said:

    Am not okay family is being umm not understanding how I feel and think I should just stop the feelings of wanting to d** but I still do have those thoughts but it don’t matter I don’t matter I just don’t want to live right now so people don’t have to worry or deal with me anymore 

    I guess we need to worry only about yourself and not worry that others worry about you.

  5. 1 hour ago, Nightjar said:

    Angry.. I went to bed angry over a late night text from a family member. And I'm angry again today over the same thing.. So angry I'm contemplating cancelling plans for tomorrow with that family member.. I'm tired and stressed. I can't control my anger. 

    I hope the sleep will take away your anger. It usually does to me.

  6. 4 hours ago, Nightjar said:

    I'll be limping through today on little sleep. If it keeps going on here I guess I will go back to moms.. Anyway, I got my forms done yesterday with half brain power working and called the lawyer today. I'm going in to see her tomorrow to get the ball rolling. 

    I don't know where I will go after this and whether I will buy again or not.. After everything I've been through with home ownership, its put me off a lot.. I'd be really happy with a tiny home in a rural setting. Wishful thinking maybe(?) 

    Rural setting is what I like too.

  7. 2 hours ago, nojoy said:

    trying not to beat myself up for not doing anything yesterday.  I just feel overwhelmed by everything I need to finish & can't figure out what to do first. Also knowing that at some point I will get distracted when I see something else in another room that I should do. Been awake since 5 & thinking I could have done alot in the 3 hours I've been awake. Yep, overthinking is what I do best.

    I face this situation quite often. Picking the easiest one and finishing gives me a satisfaction. Unfortunately, the difficult ones always remain undone and I get depressed because of that. I console myself stating atleast I got the easier ones done.

  8. 22 hours ago, ladysmurf said:

    I hope everyone is OK. I was just thinking about how much this illness has destroyed my life because it started at a young age, and no matter what I've tried from the medical field it has not been helpful, so I wonder do I really want to live like this for the rest of my life? Feeling miserable, sad, lonely , etc..

    I understand your feeling. 

  9. 4 hours ago, Nightjar said:

    Last night was hard work. I had a lot on my mind about the house sale and mom had wound me up a treat by simply not letting me be in the evening.I did 4 meditation sessions through the night so that I could get some patchy sleep. Happy at least that I got some sleep. Hopefully the house sale should be resolved today 🤞🤞🤞

    There has been another viewing this morning. I'm waiting for the agent to call me and hopefully I can make some decisions. There has been one offer so far 👀

    4 meditation sessions in one night. What do you do get sleep?

  10. 2 hours ago, Nightjar said:

    Argh. I'm pretty tortured at the minute. Waiting. Just waiting to hear from the agent. I'm trying to stop myself from calling. I don't want to call before he's ready I guess but it's all that I can think about. Praps I'll call in half an hour 🤔 The viewing was 2 hours ago. I just want an update and a chat. 

    I would let the agent call to avoid appearing desperate. I hope you get a better deal.

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