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Victoria1011

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  1. Thank you for your kind words. I truly appreciate it from the bottom of my heart, it means so much to me. It feels somewhat relieving to talk about this since I can't tell my friends and family. I just don't know how to go about it. I can't see breaking up my kids little fragile hearts. my kids love each other so much. My husband is the kindest man you can ever meet and truly doesn't deserve this pain that I have caused him. I'm thinking in the future how my kids would question me why they don't look alike ect. what can I say, what do I do. I feel like this pain is going to be here forever.
  2. last week I confessed to my husband of 13 years that I was unfaithful to him. I also told him that our daughter (5yeasr old) might not be his. the pain that I have been dealing with is beyond imaginable, seeing him in so much pain is so painful. but I couldn't live with this anymore. I could have chose not to tell him at all but what if he would have found when she's older. I started going to a therapist is helping a little. but when I wake up every morning I just can't believe what we're going through. I want to say that prior to my confession I did a home dna test for siblings for my other child and the results came back that they are full siblings. after my confession he wanted a paternity test in which I did with the same DNA company, the results came back that he is not the father. he thinks that it could be a mistake. I told him that I'm willing to walk out of the relationship but he wants to work through it. I asked if he wants a legit one meaning going to a courthouse and he said no. he is sure that is his daughter. I need your advise PLEASE. The guilt is overpowering me.
  3. last week I confessed to my husband of 13 years that I was unfaithful to him. I also told him that our daughter (5yeasr old) might not be his. the pain that I have been dealing with is beyond imaginable, seeing him in so much pain is so painful. but I couldn't live with this anymore. I could have chose not to tell him at all but what if he would have found when she's older. I started going to a therapist is helping a little. but when I wake up every morning I just can't believe what we're going through. I want to say that prior to my confession I did a home dna test for siblings for my other child and the results came back that they are full siblings. after my confession he wanted a paternity test in which I did with the same DNA company, the results came back that he is not the father. he thinks that it could be a mistake. I told him that I'm willing to walk out of the relationship but he wants to work through it. I asked if he wants a legit one meaning going to a courthouse and he said no. he is sure that is his daughter. I need your advise PLEASE. The guilt is overpowering me.
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