Obviously your partner is not interested in your wellbeing. What we need more that anything is someone who cares and is an equal partner sharing the good and bad. Being ignored and rejected is definitely not needed and amplifies the problem/situation. Sometimes we have to look in another direction. There are people in this world that are caring and sharing. Exert an effort to find a person, place, situation , group that can bring some joy and relief even though we must find the solution in ourselves.