bluetile

Hey Saprkzz, Thanks for replying. We don’t have children. I can’t discuss the financial issues, but we can’t separate now. My therapist says my wife’s anger triggers my anxiety and depression, and I think so too. I’m sad we did not divorce after my first depression episode a few years into the marriage.

My wife and I’ve been married 14 years. The first years were rough and made me depressed and anxious. We battled through more years and I got more depressed. I’d like to sell our house and separate but have several financial issues now. On top of it my job’s very stressful. I feel like I’m being crushed. We’ve done counseling together and apart, which hasn’t helped much. I’d appreciate advice on next steps from people who’ve been through it.