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  1. I’m going to do as well as I can today, and I’m going to find blessings in this day. Try and try again.
  2. Can we truly be happy in this world? Can we ever be content? Can our desires really make us happy? What we have right now can easily be taken away from us. So why do we bother? I hate it when my mind starts asking what’s the point of all this. There is no point. None. Zero. Zilch. Stop thinking. Just stop. I can stare for hours into empty space just having these thoughts running in my head. Then end up hating myself and hating my life. As usual. Just stop.
  3. We are here for your @SailingSoul emotional support, you’re not alone. Just keep typing here and chatting with us when you’re sitting by yourself for your appointment or anything ok. Try to be happy for your baby. Things will be rough cos it’s a first time for you, but you can do this we believe in you 🙂
  4. Still having very low motivation and concentration to do anything. Pushing myself to just get up and bathe and maybe sweep and mop the floor or something.. a friend asked me out today but why do I still feel this way..
  5. It’s terrible when there are irresponsible leaders in the neighbourhood. People should be educated on responsibility and respect, Teachers should educate from young, government should advertise social courtesy on tv and social media. It’s sad when people are not educated. If I were there I’d be a shut in my whole life. Hope you get as much peace as possible.
  6. This too shall pass. I know. I know. I joined a meetup group recently and went for a meetup with strangers. They made a WhatsApp chat group (it’s a common chat app used by everyone in my country). And now they keep asking me to join them for meetups and I feel terrible to turn them down but I’m really don’t Want to meet them anymore. I just Want to spend my life at home alone. I hate this feeling really it makes me hate myself. I got another meetup I agreed to go for today after work and I really don’t look forward to it cos I actually have other plans but I’m only going cos I feel guilty that I’ve turned them down so many times. I’m a terrible person I don’t know what to do.
  7. Depressedgurl007

    Lifting myself up

    Got this online and want to put it somewhere: Think of the amazing things in your life. Think of your family / caring friends / or anything else you value. Be grateful. Think about what has upset you. Know that it could have been much worse. Visualise the worst case scenario and allow yourself to feel better. This is not that bad. Imagine this difficult situation happening to someone you love. If your best friend is going through the same thing, what advice would you give them? How would you make them feel better? Now apply that advice on yourself. Imagine yourself three years from now. Will this matter in three years? Will you remember what made you upset? Emotions may seem to fill your being in the moment, but they are fleeting and may soon fade into the distance. Visualise your pain or anger becoming smaller and fading over time until it disappears. Take time to be gentle with yourself. Allow yourself to feel gratitude because you can learn from this experience. You have done your best in each moment. You do not need to blame yourself or feel at fault. Think about the cause of this feeling. Does this define you? Think about the infinite experiences and feelings that make you who you are. This one issue has no lasting effect. You are strong and this feeling is small; don’t allow it to have power over you. Compartmentalise this feeling and keep it separate from your sense of self. Move on!
  8. I don’t know why we still expect people to take our side. So many people have betrayed us and yet we still have hope and our hopes are always crushed. Hope ur feeling better today.
  9. I feel horrible. I wish my Mother in law is dead. I hate being in the same house as her. I hate my husband for always supporting her. I hate being in this relationship. I hate myself for loving him so much. I wish I’m dead cos I hate having all these feelings. There is absolutely no point in living this life. None. Nothing to look forward to. Why in the world do I care so much
  10. Thanks everyone for your replies. I’ll look up this life coach guy on YouTube and try to listen to him. Thanks for the help I really appreciate it.
  11. Thanks @Devlinkyla @Extremebeginner @salparadise6132 @MarkintheDark @Tears_Always @Soarsie18 for all your replies that day I felt I had no reason to live anymore. Had to take alone time off and find myself. Still haven’t found myself and end up here again. Been dead tired busy not knowing why I’m doing what I’m doing, but I feel better to see your replies. It’s funny how I only get replies when I’m desperate.. but anyway I’ll still hold on to that small thread of hope u guys give me.
  12. Ignored but that’s ok cos I’m not important, I’m too pathetic to be important, I’m worthless, I’m horrible, I’m nothing, and I don’t know how to do anything. Everything is a mess. I don’t know how to move forward. I don’t look forward to today at all 😞 I should just give up trying. I really should just give up. There’s no point to this. Good bye everyone. I’m too much of a pain to this place. It hurts too much.
  13. Thank you @Epictetus your words are always so kind. I’m disappointed no one else replied to my post. Maybe it’s cos it’s not important. Maybe cos I myself never reply to other people’s post. If anyone have any ideas to help me to get over my phone addiction, please reply. It affects me cos I get distracted easily and my daily chores are not done and then I’ll hate myself end of the day for spending too much time on my phone just cos it helps me feel better. It’s not important, it does not add value to my day and I should be redirecting my free time elsewhere. Today is quite a bad start to my day. So I’ll just keep talking to myself here 😞
  14. Welcome @SeekingTruth36. Sorry that sometimes not many people come to the religion forums. But in Depression Central forums, the people here I find are quite supportive. It’s just that many of us have been hurt by religion, but there are many too who struggle while still hanging on to their faith. So we might not be able to assist you much, but you are still welcome to post how religion has a part in your depression. Just letting it out helps me clear my mind sometimes. You’re not a burden, your posts do help those who read and are not confident enough to speak up. I too am struggling in this area, but for me, music helps a lot. I switch on YouTube playlists on the songs of blessings that call to God for help and for peace. Been doing that and it helps for a few years cos lyrics of some music are very powerful. I’m personally not very good at philosophical discussion. But what I do know is life is essentially an endless series of problems. The solution of one problem is merely the creation of the next one. The sense of accomplishment comes from solving these problem and it could be that your spiritual journey is still ongoing before you find a place that agrees with your heart. I know it’s cliche but sometimes we need to experience the wrong things and learn lessons from the wrong people before we can get on the right path and appreciate it. It’s human nature. Like how as a baby we do not know the pot is hot until we touch it and it hurts our hands, and it’s a lesson for us. Pain and suffering is a call from God to go back to him. Cos without it, we might not call to God and forget his blessings. Trusting God and believing in his plan is one of the most difficult pills to swallow. Cos there is no such thing as a life without problems. In this world, you will never truly be happy. True happiness comes from the next world. Here, human nature need problems to help us grow. Anyway, I don’t know if I have answered your question I’m sorry it’s such a long post. I know that pain of hopelessness in our minds that keep spouting negative words that makes us so lost and confused. It hurts and I wish that we can get out of it but they keep coming back. It takes strength to pull through. I do hope you get God’s help in your search.
  15. Good night everyone! It’s been a tiring day and I’m afraid for tomorrow but I’m hoping to get four hours of sleep good night
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