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  1. I’m truly sorry for what you’re going through. I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. There is always hope even in the most difficult moments of our lives. About your relationship, I would suggest to evaluate and see if you wish to continue. It’s understandable that external pressures as you mention can affect some relationships, however, he shouldn’t be discouraged from continuing the relationship. It’s never easy to want to breakup a relationship, but it seems that it may be best to move on, or at least, send one more message to see what happens. Perhaps have you thought of seeking counseling or therapy to help you to conquer the situation. Counseling or therapy works through things like this. You and your BF are valuable and worthy of fighting for. I hope this helps. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.
  2. I’m truly sorry for what you’re going through. I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. There is always hope even in the most difficult moments of our lives. Please do not give up. Have you thought of seeking counseling or therapy to help you change your life? Counseling or therapy works through things like this. You are valuable and worthy of fighting for. The media and TV shows always do those things with showing families and is indeed hurtful to many of us, please let me tell you that you’re not alone. But be encouraged and not let the pressure of media outlets affect you. Have you thought of for example, to seek social outlets such as charities organizations, habitat for humanity, church ministries or groups that get together for social gatherings, hobbies or interests? I hope this helps. Sending you hugs. I’ll keep you in my prayers, my friend. Keep us posted okay?
  3. I’m truly sorry for what you’re going through. I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. There is always hope even in the most difficult moments of our lives. Do not give up. Have you thought of seeking counseling or therapy to help you change your life? The media and TV shows always do those things with showing families and is indeed hurtful to many of us, you’re not alone. But be encouraged and not let the pressure of media outlets affect you. Have you thought of for example, to seek social outlets such as church ministries or groups that get together for social gatherings, hobbies or interests? I hope this helps. Sending you hugs. I’ll keep you in my prayers. Keep us posted okay?
  4. Welcome to DF trishhilton, thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I’m truly sorry that you are dealing with such difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. Let me tell you that you have a purpose in life. Maybe it can sound like a cliché however things happen for a reason. And I know from my experiences that sometimes we do not know how to handle suffering. Suffering is neither good nor bad. And if we embrace it we can allow our transformation into a better person. Is there someone, a friend or a relative that you can speak to when you are enduring crisis with depression and anxiety? In spite of this situation let me tell you that you are important and valuable person and you are a person of worth of dignity. Have you ever thought about being thankful for what you have in despite of your situation? I encourage you to give thanks everyday for what you have and discover the talents and the abilities that you have. Do not be discourage! Hang it there! Have you considered finding groups such as volunteering in charitable works, social groups that share hobbies or recreational events, adult groups from church, etc that helps you get your mind of your situation and help to the needy. So you are not alone! I hope this helps. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. -keep us posted, OK?
  5. Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I’m truly sorry that you are dealing with such difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. Have you thought to reconsider your doctor’s prescription orders? It might be best to follow his orders than to hurting yourself. If you need to talk with someone I’ll leave you this Hotline #s: 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255). Have you thought about forgiving your mother? Forgiveness means that you let the problem go. Forgiveness is the first step of healing and change. It will restore your peace and joy. I hope this helps. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend -keep us posted, OK?
  6. Welcome Ronron99 to DF, Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I’m truly sorry that you are dealing with such difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. Have you thought of considering counseling or therapy to help you diagnose what’s causing you to encounter these depressing thoughts? Counseling or therapy works through things like this. You are valuable and worth of fighting for. Therapy can help and lead you to treatment for this condition. In spite your struggles in life of your situation have you considered to give thanks for what you have? Maybe if you remember all the things that you have and being grateful for that can help you to overcome this way of view of the things. I hope this helps. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend -keep us posted, OK?
  7. Hello KCDPN, thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I’m truly sorry that you are dealing with such difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. Let me tell you that you have a purpose in life. Maybe it can sound like a cliché however things happen for a reason. And I know from my experiences that sometimes we do not know how to handle suffering. Suffering is neither good nor bad. And if we embrace it we can allow our transformation into a better person. In spite of this situation let me tell you that you are important and valuable person and you are a person of worth of dignity. Have you ever thought the ability and talents that you have? I encourage you to discover the talents and the abilities that you have. Love starts from within yourself. There will always be people that will like you and others won’t. It is part of our life. Do not be discourage! Hang it there! Have you considered finding groups such as volunteering in charitable works, social groups that share hobbies or recreational events, adult groups from church, etc that help you get your mind of your suffering and help to the needy. So you are not alone! I hope this helps. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.
  8. Dear bellerose, Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I’m truly sorry that you are dealing with. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. Let me tell you that you have a purpose in life. Nothing determines you even your condition. It’s natural in women the desire of being a mother. Hang it there! Have you considered seeking therapy to treat your depression? Counseling or therapy works through things like this. You are valuable and worth of fighting for. I encourage you that do not let the fears control you and are bigger that your dreams. Counseling is important for you because it will help you to discover what the root of your depression is. I have a friend who is married and has children and she can deal well nurturing her children. So you are not alone! I encourage you to find groups such as volunteering in charitable works, social groups that share hobbies or recreational events, adult groups from church, etc that help you get your mind of your own suffering and help to the needy. I hope this helps. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.
  9. Dear JessiesMom, thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I’m truly sorry that you are dealing with such difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. It is understandable the way you feel. Let me tell you that you are important, valuable and a person worth of dignity. It is understandable for the way that you express what emotions mean to us. However, have you given the thought that though we can express emotions, that we should not let emotions rule over us? Nothing is easy, everything that is worthy demands our efforts. Take courage and make the effort to seek for help through a therapy to control your emotions and not let your siblings that find friends discourage you. It can be true that you did not received the affirmation that you needed, the bonding and acceptance from your parents. However nothing of these things determine you nor your emotions. All of these things can be healed if you want to seek for help. We cannot change the past but we can learn from it. Counseling can work through things like this. You are worthy of fighting for. Have you ever thought of forgiving your parents, situations, others and yourself? Forgiveness does not mean that these things did not happen to you. Forgiveness means that you let the problem go. Forgiveness is the first step to heal and change. It will restore your joy and peace. Never is late to start again. I encourage you to think of this as a healing process. It will take time however it will be worthy to do it. I hope this helps. Hang in there! Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.
  10. Dear tracyistrying, Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I’m truly sorry that you are dealing with such difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. It is understandable the way that you feel because you want to settle down in one place. I’m glad to know that you found a job from home. Please hang it there! I encourage you to feel more confident and that you are going to succeed teaching students from abroad. Maybe you can take out good of this situation that you have to deal with. Counseling or therapy works through things like this. You are valuable and worthy of fighting for. No matter what is your age, we can always start again, make the things new and start a new chapter in our lives. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. – keep us posted, OK?
  11. I’m truly sorry for what you’re going through. I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. There is always hope even in the most difficult moments of our lives. You do have a purpose in life and it is important that you discover what are you here for? And I know from my experiences that sometimes we do not know how to handle suffering. Suffering is neither good nor bad. And if we embrace it we can allow our transformation into a better person. In spite of this situation please let me tell you that you are important and valuable person and you are a person worth of dignity. Please hang in there! Do not give up! Everyone makes mistakes but the most important is to learn from them. Maybe you can take out the good of this situation that you have to deal with. Have you ever thought seeking Counseling or therapy? Counseling or therapy works through things like this. You are valuable and worth of fighting for. Is there the possibility that a friend or colleague can refer you to another dentist and you make the commitment to attend to the appointment this time? Please let me tell you my friend that you are not alone in this battle. This list –ly is extremely important for what you are going through. Please can you open the attached below. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. Keep us posted, OK?.
  12. I am sorry for you are going through. Welcome to the group DF. Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I do not know about your particular situation(s). These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. Let me tell you that you have a purpose in life. Maybe it can sound like a cliché however things happen for a reason. And I know from my experiences that sometimes we do not know how to handle suffering. Suffering is neither good nor bad. And if we embrace it we can allow our transformation into a better person. In spite of this situation let me tell you that you are important and valuable person and you are a person of worth of dignity. Have you ever thought of seeking a higher being? Please hang in there! Do not give up! Maybe you can take out the good of this situation that you have to deal with. Have you considered seeking Christian counseling or therapy? Counseling or therapy works through things like this. You are valuable and worth of fighting for. Please let me tell you my friend that you are not alone in this battle. If you need to talk with someone I’ll leave you this Hotline #s: 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255). This list –ly is extremely important for you are going through. Please can you open the attached below. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. Keep us posted, OK?.
  13. Dear Sabiflitch, Thank you for sharing your thoughts and concerns with us. Have you ever thought that the true beauty is not the from the outside to inside but is from the inside to the outside? It is good like women we would like to be attractive for men. That is normal in us. But we cannot lose the perspective thinking if we made cosmetic surgeries in our bodies our self-esteem will improve and it is not true. There are some people who fall in to a lifetime of plastic surgeries and never are satisfied with the results. If you search in the internet of actors and actresses you will realize that they have ruined their themselves. Let me tell you that those actresses that you mentioned in your post look very good in the magazines because is the help of the Photoshop. It is false image of them. When they see their pictures in the magazine they realize that it is not their bodies. Photographers have to do for selling and making money. If the actresses’ bodies would not look perfect, they could not sell. It simple like that. I encourage you to be more objective towards the media said. Do not believe all that you see because at the end that does not guarantee the happiness in your life. It is true that everyone wants to be accepted and appreciated for others but it will not be necessarily for the way that look but for the way that you are. In spite of this situation let me tell you that you are important and valuable person and you are a person worth of dignity. Maybe you can take out the good of this situation that you have to deal with. . I encourage you not to consider to modify your body because the side effects. Have you ever thought seeking Counseling or therapy? Counseling or therapy works through things like this. You are valuable and worth of fighting for. Therapy is important because it can help you to discover what are the roots of your anxiety /depression and help you to improve your self-esteem. Please let me tell you my friend that you are not alone in this battle. This article is great and may be extremely important for you are going through: Please can you open the attached below. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. Keep us posted, OK?.
  14. Welcome SaraTheGreat to DF. Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the most difficult moments of our lives, there’s is always hope. Please let me tell you that you are important valuable and a person worth of dignity. I encourage you do not be concern too much for the future rather your present state of life. Fears are like ghosts are not real, we do not have the certain that is going happen in the way that we think. There’s a statement of St Clement of Alexandria, he said: Today is our treasure, because we do not know about tomorrow. Sometimes we can waste our time thinking too much of the future and living bad our present. I encourage you to focus in all the things that you can do now with your parents and siblings. I encourage you to be grateful for you have them as a family members. I encourage you to discover your dreams and aspirations. A person is alive when they want to pursue their dreams and make them come true. I encourage you do not worry about tomorrow for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of his own. Have you ever thought about a future career? Birth and death are part of life. All of us we will pass for this reality, it is in our nature. We are only here temporary. I encourage you to live your life at the fullest treasuring everything does matter to you in your heart. Sending you hugs and I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. .-keep us posted, OK?
  15. I’m truly sorry for your situation. It is understandable losing a love one, especially your father is definitively a tough experience for you. The passing of your father requires an adjustment to facing the reality that death is part of life. Have courage! From my experience I was raised by mother’s parents. When my grandfather passed away was very difficult for me to accept. He was like a father for me. However, I treasured all the time that we spent together and the gratitude in reciprocity for the love that he gave me when I was a child. I encourage you that death do not stop of loving him. Love for your father is able to transcend this life. It is understandable the way that you feel for the situation that you are experiencing with this great loss. There are no words that can ease the pain and sorrow, but I do know that in time the healing will take place. Life does not end with physical death. Have you ever thought of the body has an eternal soul? If you want to cry it's okay to do it. It is completely normal for us to cry and it is part of the healing process. Christian counseling or therapy can be helpful to work through things like this. You are valuable and worth fighting for.Perhaps have you thought of joining a group support that can help you connect with other persons for social events and fellowship? I will keep you and your family in my prayers, my friend.- Keep us posted, Ok?
  16. Dear Cosb4568, welcome to the DF. I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, venting, and asking for advice. In spite of this situation let me tell you that you are important and valuable person and you are a person worth of dignity and respect. You may be have a hard time believing this, but that doesn’t disqualify you from being love and valued for exactly who you are. Please let me tell you that we have been created for living in communion with others. We were not born to live alone but in a family with others and also to be happy having friendships. Have you thought of looking for a social outlet, like a group of other adults that want to get together for social events, such as a volunteer job, sewing craft making, church ministry group, etc. I am sure that in time you can overcome your depression and loneliness. Christian counseling or therapy can be helpful to work through things like this. You are valuable and worth fighting for. Therapy is important because you can discover the roots of your depression and loneliness. Have you considered to forgive your parents, situations and yourself? Forgiveness does not mean that these things did not happen to you. Forgiveness means that you let the problem go. It is the first step of healing and change. Maybe in due time you can take out the good of this situation that you have to deal with. Please let me tell you my friend that you are not alone in this battle. . Hang in there! Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. Keep us posted, Ok?
  17. Dear lucklaster, I am sorry for you are going through. I do not know about your particular situation (‘s). These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. You have a purpose in life. I encourage you to think, not why but what for. Things happen for a reason. And I know from my experiences that sometimes we do not know how to handle suffering. Suffering is neither good nor bad. And if we embrace it we can allow our transformation into a better person. In despise of this situation let me tell you that you are important and valuable person and you are a person of dignity. Please hang in there! Do not give up! Maybe you can take out good of this situation that you have to deal with. Have you ever thought seeking Counseling or therapy? Counseling or therapy works through things like this. You are valuable and worth of fighting for. Please let me tell you my friend that you are not alone in this battle. If you need to talk with someone I’ll leave you this Hotline #s: 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255). TI will keep you in my prayers. my friend .-keep us posted, OK?
  18. Dear thehope, I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, venting, and asking for advice. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. It is understandable that you want to have a life and being happy. Let me tell you that you write very well. I do not think that you have lost your skills of grammar and writing as you said. I know that you have a counseling deceptions in your area however, have you considered seeking particularly Christian counseling or therapy? Counseling works through things like this. You are worthy of fighting for. Therapy is very important that you can heal and reconcile all your wounds. Does the national or local government offer welfare for people like your situation? If they do it would be very good to seek the information that you can apply. I encourage you to check with “gofundme” to create your website telling your story and in that way you can raise money for your treatment and why not to live independently from your relatives. It would be very important that you discover your passion and you may be in the near future can do so manual work, or craft making for future employment. I hope this helps. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.
  19. Welcome to this forum, Dear fariefate. I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, venting, and asking for advice. I realize it is tough to live under anxiety and the feelings that accompany it. However counseling can be helpful through things like this. You are valuable of fighting for. Therapy is important because it can allow you to heal the roots of your anxiety and depression. In time, you will conquer your anxieties and you’ll overcome your depression. I don’t think it’s bad that you want to talk with your mother when you feel your anxiety and depression at an all-time high. Maybe you can negotiate when you can talk with her. But if she is not available for you may be if you like you can talk also with a therapist the things that make you feel depress or anxious. Are there reasons that your mother can’t be available for you? Have you thought of forgiving others, situations and yourself? Forgiveness does not mean that these things did not happen to you but means that you let the problem go. Forgiveness is the first step to change and heal. Forgiveness will restore your joy and peace. Have you considered volunteering to help others who are less fortunate, such as a charity organization, Habitat for Humanity or any church ministry for young adults? Helping others can give you another perspective of suffering and may be you will discover that there are persons who suffer more than us. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. Keep us posted, OK?.
  20. Dear grace16, I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. In spite of this difficulties let me tell you that you are important, valuable person and you are a person worth of dignity and respect. You may be have a hard time believing this, but that doesn’t disqualify you from being love and valued for exactly who you are. I encourage you do not think that you as a person are a failure. You have a purpose in life. I encourage you to discover what are you here for? Maybe you can take out the good of this situation that you have to deal with. Christian counseling or therapy can be helpful to work through things like this. You are valuable and worth fighting for. [link removed] Please let me tell you my friend that you are not alone in this battle. If you need to talk with someone I’ll leave you this Hotline #s: 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255). Sending you hugs and I will be praying for you my friend.-keep us posted, OK?
  21. Dear Nirah, I am so sorry for you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, venting, and asking for advice. In despite of this situation let me tell you that you are important, valuable person and you are a person worth of dignity and respect. You may be have a hard time believing this, but that doesn’t disqualify you from being love and valued for exactly who you are. Maybe you can take out good of this situation that you have to deal with. Please do not give up, there’s hope even in the darkest moments of our lives. For one hand I know from my experiences that sometimes we do not know how to handle suffering. Suffering is neither good nor bad. And if we embrace it we can allow our transformation into a better person. There was a time in my past that I used to feel like you. That made me to save a lot of anger and resentments for long time. I understand that it is very hard to accept things that make you feel sad or discourage. Have you thought of when you hear this thought that you hate yourself, you can say something like that: ‘That’s not true’ in despise of my illness, weaknesses and mistakes I love myself and forgive myself for everything that I do (3 times) and change the thought and walk outside and breathe normally. Have you consider to forgive situations, others and yourself? Forgiveness is the first step of healing and change. And for the other, in despise of this situation that you are living now, let me tell you that life is beautiful, no matter what difficult situations we have to deal with. Since the fact that you are alive, that you wake up every morning, that you can see a sunny day, that you have a job etc. These are gifts for you, so there’s always hope. Remember that no matter what is your age, we can always start again, make the things new and start a new chapter in our lives. No one is perfect that’s why we are able to learn from our mistakes. Please hang it there! Maybe you can take out good of this situation that you have to deal with.. Do you have a faith or believe system to help guide you through this?. [link removed] Please let me tell you my friend that you are not alone in this battle. If you need to talk with someone I’ll leave you this Hotline #s: 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255). Sending you hugs and praying for you my friend.-keep us posted, OK?
  22. Dear weirrwood, thank you for sharing this with us. I’d like to give you a warm welcome to this forum. I am so sorry that you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens and venting. It sounds that you have been through a lot recently. It is understandable the way that you feel for the situation that you are experiencing with your partner. Let me tell you that you are important, valuable and a person worth of dignity. You are a courageous person because you are facing your situation. That’s speak very well of you. However, even in the darkest moments in our lives, there is always hope. I’m glad to know that you are taking therapy to help you to overcome your situation. You are valuable and worth of fighting for. When we accept that we have something, forgiveness is the first step to change and healing. I want to mean that people bring their own wounds from their own families to the relationship. That’s why is very important to take a therapy that those wounds can be healed. Have you consider forgiving situations, and yourself? Forgiveness does not mean that these things did not happen to you, however means that you let the problems go. Forgiveness will return your peace and joy. Forgiveness is the first step of healing and change. Please do not give up! Hang in there! In that way you could start a new chapter in your life and you will see the difference and the impact that this will have in yourself. I know from my experiences that sometimes we do not know how to handle suffering. Suffering is neither good nor bad. And if we embrace it we can allow our transformation into a better person. Regards to your question I encourage you to giving him his space for now. May be in the future you can reunite and talk your experiences. Sometimes a person can make a decision that surprises us that it becomes difficult to understand. In addition, since your partner has moved to Hawaii and has not spoken to you, have you thought of it may be best to move on and look for new friends, especially in the community that have groups for social events or even maybe joining a group support that can help you connect with other people who suffer depression?. Let me tell you that you are not alone in this battle. [link removed] I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.
  23. I’d like to give a warm welcome to this forum, drb1290. I am truly so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens and venting. It sounds that you have been through a lot recently. It is good that you have admitted your thoughts and now you are willing to face the consequences. It may be best to focus on trying to regain employment and to seek therapy to help overcome your past. Christian counseling or therapy can be helpful to work through things like this. You are valuable and worth fighting for. I encourage you to focus in your strengths. No one is perfect but we can improve our weaknesses. It is ok to reflect about what am I doing well and wrong but it is not ok to torture yourself mentally. Everyone makes mistakes, but most important is to learn from them. I encourage you to think in all things that you can do well, focus on your strengths and seek for help. In despite of this situation as a Christian I believe God made you in His image and that you are important and valuable person and you are a person worth of dignity and respect. You may be have a hard time believing this, but that doesn’t disqualify you from being love and valued for exactly who you are. Maybe you can take out good of this situation that you have to deal with. On the other hand I think love starts within yourself and you can use this time to think, reflect and start again. Have you thought of trying to separate yourself from the XBox video game and seek socially events in the community that interest you: music, concerts, art and craft festivals, single group supports, local career source or equivalent, or maybe a church ministry that has a group for young adults. Please let me tell you my friend that you are not alone in this battle. [link removed] Do you have a faith or believe system to help guide you through this?. I do not know whether if you believe in God, I will keep you in my prayers my friend.-keep us posted, OK?
  24. Dear ellemak, I am truly sorry for what you are going through in your life. I admire you for the efforts you make to better yourself. But also, you have handled so much as you described. Christian counseling can be helpful to work through things like this, overcome obstacle in your life. You are valuable and worth fighting for. But let me tell you that you have a purpose in life. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. Please, let me tell you that you are not alone. Things happen for a reason. It is a hard situation that you are living now, but do not feel discourage. Hang in there!! Please do not give up!. When we accept that we have something, forgiveness is the first step to change and healing. Have you consider forgiving situations, and yourself? Forgiveness does not mean that these things did not happen to you, however means that you let the problems go. Forgiveness will return your peace and joy. Forgiveness is the first step of healing and change. Please do not give up! Hang in there! In that way you could start a new chapter in your life and you will see the difference and the impact that this will have in yourself. In counseling, you can find ways to help overcome and conquer how you handle things. Suffering is neither good or bad. In suffering, it can help you to become a stronger person. You’ve endured so much, but do not give up, there’s hope. Along with possible counseling, have you thought of seeking new friends in social group gatherings in your area? Such groups you may consider are groups that offer social activities (movies, bowling or some other recreational activities, volunteer work), hobbies or something that you like doing. Some churches may offer such groups that help individuals in their adult lives to meet new friends. Let me tell you please that you are not alone in this battle. If you need to talk with someone I’ll leave this Hotline #s: 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255). [link removed] Do you have a faith or believe system to help guide you through this? I do not know whether if you believe in God but I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. – keep us posted, OK?
  25. Dear Curly Dragon, thank you for sharing this with us. Congratulations! for the wedding. I’m sorry that the both of you have your issues to contend with. Let me tell you that you are both valuable, important and worthy of dignity. Your fiancée seems a very caring and trustworthy person and yet, despite the imperfections, he is there for you. I think that speaks very well of him. Counseling can be helpful to work through things like this. You are your fiancée are worth of fighting for. Therapy can help you both to discover and heal those wounds. Sometimes we bring wounds from our own families. We need to work on those wounds with a therapist to forgive, to reconcile them and to understand ourselves better and that will be helpful also in marriage because you will understand each other better. Do you have faith or belief system to go through things like this? I do not know whether it you believe in God but I will keep you in my prayer, my friend.
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