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Everything posted by HeatherG

  1. The heartbreak. I wish I could send comfort, to everyone on here who has lost a beloved family member-- because it goes beyond just a pet. Grief, take all the time you need. Mourn in the way you need to mourn. Let me know, or us, know how you're doing, and remind yourself that YOU loved, YOU cared, YOU gave your family member a home, you've been a blessing! I send virtual hugs.
  2. I'm going to be extra sensitive here. Being a female... Have you tried being friends with women? Whether their attractive or unattractive? And, since you made what you worded ugly comments that hurt her feelings.... Have you tried enjoying just being by yourself and getting to know yourself? And ask yourself why those words came out of your mouth to a woman you seemed to want to be with? I'm glad I've never been anxious to get in a relationship. Why do you seem to be? And as you stated meeting women in church -- being a Christian myself, my humble opinion-- maybe focus on being friends with women in church? Friends first? That emptiness inside of you, you should fill. That emptiness, God should fill. And then, maybe a woman you've befriended may become more. I hope I am being sensitive in my response. I do understand many people long for a loving deep relationship and connection. Going back to therapy, maybe? Learn to love yourself first. I wish you the very best.
  3. Congratulations on your new job! I hope it works out for you, and you're able to make some extra money. Check in with us and let us know how things are going.
  4. Hi, MikeJS, Welcome, welcome. My thoughts are, while doing your homework (always good) why not talk/speak with your doctor now about this? In fact, speak to him about your financial worries, that this medication is so helpful, are there alternatives, are there any offers of free supplies? Sounds like you have a good doctor, I hope he can ease your worries.
  5. Had my church service over the phone with my small fam. Didn't know it is Palm Sunday, but so nice one of my pastor's brought me a palm leaf. Nice to be thought of, ya know? Finishing up some writing. Got bad news in the mail on Friday-- I'm going to choose to not care, trying not to worry. I do pray every morning now, I'm scared not to. I send love to everyone. I remember when I first logged on, so many MANY kind people. Thank you for making me feel, know, I'm not alone.
  6. Hi Evalynn, Real good to see you I hope you feel better.
  7. Always like checking your page 🙂

    1. Hertz


      Hello Heather, I hope you are doing alright 🙂

    2. HeatherG


      I am.  Thank you, Hertz.  I hope you are doing well.  :flowers:

  8. I really need to find a way off this planet.  😁

  9. Up in the wee hours of the morning. I have an assignment I want to finish, but gotta go with my brother to the hospital this morning. He would never go with me or care about me if I was in his shoes. But he was really sick recently.. And I have that caretaker personality. Make sure my nephew gets safely to school. I could cry all day if I had the energy. So, that's how I feel right now. Wait, i did have some prayers answered. I'm just needing that extra oophmf. Now I"m rambling.
  10. It is a sad day. I send hugs to everyone on here.
  11. I walked from the car up to my front door steps. lol I'm so out of shape Right now I'm trying to just, survive moment by moment. Year did not start off too great. But as Scarlett O'Hara said, "Tomorrow is another day..."
  12. Sometimes I'd like to come on here and post some good news. I'm not there, yet. life sucks
  13. eggs w cheese, onions, tomatoes - ketchup on top.
  14. Your words leave me speechless, and smiling.  

  15. I'm always getting my feelings hurt.  Bummer.

  16. You said "butt-fudge nowhere" and I'm still laughing.  Thank you!!  😄

  17. Gandolf, It's just brutal right now. For people like us, if you don't mind me including you, me, and the people on here--the covid ripped that thin rug underneath us. it was already ripped and shredded. For me who can't stand going outside, not being a fan of people--but getting out even to go buy a book would give me just enough to get through a week or two. Then covid hit. Add in my fear of germs, oh my gosh I'm triggered just writing this. And my mom passed away in the middle of 2019. Months before covid hit. I could go on and on. Horrible fam. No friends, so on here--like reading your words, it gave me a boost. YOU gave me a boost. I felt so touched and moved by your words. You have a compassion heart. And for those like us, we endure a heavier burden in this world. I've been a fan of yours on here. I'm so sorry you're suffering and struggling. Gandolf we do turn those corners, but sometimes when we turn them, it's another corner waiting for us. I wish I could understand this. I hope you've heard this before on here, but please hang in there. I'm admitting to being selfish asking this (I'm sorry). But I ask anyway. ?
  18. You have every right to complain. Why call it that though? You are stating how you feel, and you have every right-- esp on here! I'll just speak for myself, I feel exactly how you do. In fact I think it's safe to say most of the world, particularly because of the pandemic, are feeling the same way you are. How do I cope? I have a therapist, and a pastor I can call/talk to. I really don't pay much attention to the news, I try to stay informed but it triggers me sooooo much! I try to pray for others, next moment I'm yelling at God, "Why'd you let that happen? What's the point!? Hello? Hello!" I come on here, great place to come on here. I rant here, to myself, to God, to the universe. "HELLO!?" LOL Then I read your post, and I definitely don't feel alone. Almha, thank YOU
  19. Are you ok?  I hope so.  ☺️

  20. I made tacos. Tasty food helps, yeah the scale is terrorizing me now, lol-- but idc. I feel better because of the tacos?
  21. I send snuggles to everyone. To those who have disturbing dreams and nightmare (me, both!) -- I send super hugs. Everyone, have a sweet goodnight. Thanks @Nightjar for bringing the goodnight thread to life!
  22. Oh my gosh! I am so sorry. I didn't know u were in the UK. I am so sorry. I hope the complaints department helps you. I don't even know what to say. I had no idea the UK was like that. The UK media makes it seems that everything is free ( w medical) and doctors come to your house.. I don't know anything about blood clots or vitamin K. Please let me know in the next few days if you were able to change doctors. Yes, PUSH to get help because you're right, the pandemic has made everything worse, even here in the US. Wow, the trains stop by 5 pm? Just wow. Please keep me updated. I'd like to hear you advocating for yourself is reaching people-- And they are responding to you. I wish you the best. Please take care. I send virtual hugs
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