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HeatherG last won the day on March 4 2018

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About HeatherG

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    Music, bookstores, peace & quiet. My nephew. Sometimes writing, reading. And being happy, not just content.

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  1. You're not a throwaway, and yes I know you mean society treats and considers you that. But, for me, others on here--like if I don't hear from you I worry and I get sad. You're so kind, thoughtful, I, we need people like YOU. Yes, please protect yourself, please stay safe. You matter to me, to us here on DF.
  2. Thanks Floor2017. Kind words are really needed right now.
  3. Lots of Netflix. If I watch the news I'll truly believe there is no tomorrow... which I'm already scared about.
  4. I hope you're okay 🙂

  5. Are you okay?  I hope so 🙂

  6. Yes there are reasons to be worried. I currently have the flu, and just going out to another doctor worries me. My main doctors are all spread out to other hospitals so I'm dealing with docs who--I'm not feeling cared for, ya know? People aren't taking this virus seriously, which means it's going to spread, the numbers are going to be ridiculous after awhile. Just everybody please be safe, cautious, and Epictetus good for you for storing masks due to your past flu's. That's smart! Yes when I can I'm going to stores super early too. Thanks for naming that mask which can be reusable.. Let's all hang in there.
  7. Yours is so funny!! Here's my fav: A Streetcar Named Desire Blanche DuBois: But some things are not forgivable. Deliberate cruelty is not forgivable! It is the one unforgivable thing, in my opinion, and the one thing of which I have never, never been guilty.
  8. I was scared I thought DF was gone--pg wouldn't load. I mean really scared.
  9. Wow that's a really big decision. My two cents is, the job gets you up and about? You said if you retire you'll be a "bum"? How about having a one on one with your manager--and explain that the last manager may have painted a picture of you that's not accurate. Ask her to give you a chance to show that picture isn't accurate. Your decision is really, really hard. And I get that stress, and I'm so sorry your job is so stressful. Or, maybe find that one hobby or thing you enjoy and retire and have that life. Life, I'm not sure what that is... But I so hope the decision (and afterwards) doesn't cause you more stress.
  10. Being honest with your primary doctor keeps you safe. You don't have to say he got you addicted--but maybe say "I feel I'm taking too many meds, and I want to get off some." My doctor tapered it for me. It was safe, and in no time I was off it. The withdrawls I'm still dealing with--and that "X" was mega hard on me when it left my system. But it was one less addictive med that I was on.
  11. Happy Holidays, and Have a Wonderful New Year's 🙂

  12. I have a sister who tells me to pray my "depression" away or that I'm doing this or that on purpose. My brother says depression doesn't exist, it's just weak people who need to "do something about it." Fix it, move on. People like this, family, are toxic. They'll make depression worse, they can be behind your depression and problems. My sister was a terrorizing bully, and my brother was physically abuse. I shrank, it was the strongest will survive in my house and I didn't. I ran at 19, from the South way up to the North into the hands of an abusive alcoholic aunt. Then, now, I'm back near this family, but our mom is gone and I'm dealing with them again. I have a new therapist, whew, so tired of going to treatment--but I can't stop. Also, learned a new word, "boundaries." 2020, it'll be interesting to say the least.
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