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  1. I really don't mean to be offensive here but I'm so frustrated that I don't know what to do. My girlfriend of a little over a year has crippling depression and even though we have had our rough spots, we've been happy. She's also an extreme introvert and that makes it hard because between the depression and the introversion and our conflicting schedules we see each other maybe twice a week on average, sometimes more sometimes less. Normally I can deal but the last two weeks have been hell. She's been ignoring my texts, not answering her door, and after a few days I finally just left her a voicemail and said "enough is enough, I don't know what's happening, but if you're done with me and you want me to come by and pick my stuff up then I will, I just need to know". She texted me back soon after and apologized for everything and it had nothing to do with me, and told me if I was sick of this then I could get my stuff. I went over and we talked and I told her if she doesn't want to be with me anymore then it's ok but that I needed to know. She said she did want to be with me but that she's broken. I forgave her and we went on. Again today just wants to be alone. I don't know what to do. She won't get help, absolutely refuses to go see a doctor. It's like she wants to be miserable and likes that she's different. She's the opposite of needy, she's totally withdrawn. I love her so much but I refuse to be treated like crap, or let her use her illness as an excuse for abusing me. I just have no idea what to do. Should I ignore her or just walk away? thanks everybody
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