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  1. Hi, ty it is truly great to have someone for support. All the best to you, too. :)
  2. Hi, Ty for your message. I haven't been here for a while, so just saw it, but still feel the same. ;(
  3. Hi Floor2017, Ty for warm words and your reply. So, what is the 'glass is half full' view you suggest?
  4. Hi, I totally get all what you are saying. My situation is the same, I get avoided all the time, rejected, looked down on and disliked, but I don't have any idea why, anybody has friends and someone to talk to, be with, love, hang out with, only I am always isolated and alone, very tired of it all. Sorry, don't have a magic solution for you, if I had it, I would use it for myself, too. I was so friendly, bubbly, but lost faith that things get better; my personality has changed because of this mistreatment from anybody I meet, just wanted to tell you that you aren't alone, if it is any help, all the best.
  5. I need a virtual shoulder to virtually cry on. Any takers?
  6. Life is a game, but nobody tells you the rules, you need to find them, and the winners win because they don't play by the rules. Any of you feel like life gave you a s***ty hand of cards, so whatever you do fails, you just can't get it right? The others take you for a ride, you get a short stick, it is so frustrating. If you look at some people, it looks like they always win, they are liked, always surrounded by friends, who will do all sorts of stuff to be with them, they can also do all sorts of sh*t, but are always looked up to. Act like a winner, so you will be considered one. So unfair, so tried of it, just want to fold, I don't want to play this game any longer, it's boring. Is it possible to get off this twilight zone spinning wheel to step into a more loving, kind and fair universe, if there is such a thing for me? It is out there for the winners, so what's their secret? Is it just your ummm lucky star? sorry, had to vent.
  7. Maryy, It is true that people are social beings. But the extent and intensity of human interaction we need is different for all of us, staying wt sb for a long time is challenging, I believe you need to be tolerant and love sb a lot to stay.
  8. It is just what you think. I was (I don't believe I am any more) very attractive, slim, fit but ALWAYS alone. I attracted the sort of guys I despise, players, so this is why I stayed alone. Normal guys I would like to be with don't see me. So, stop saying it is the way you look, it isn't. Some people are very unattractive, but always have love and friends around, it is luck and personality I believe.
  9. Hi Sober4life, it is a terrible feeling, I agree. You get up and it is like "I can't wait to get back in bed again".
  10. Hi Normalname, Sorry that u feel this way, but you're not alone, so I guess, I can say join the club (that no one wants to belong to). I can so relate to you saying it makes you feel like you don't exist, I often think why do people act as if I were invisible, so frustrating. It is a crazy world out there. But you can do st to help, I don't know what. I wish I did, I tried tonnes of stuff, but they worked only briefly, not in a long run. y does it have to be so hard for you and so smooth for someone else? hang in there
  11. Hi 20YearsandCounting, I've never been a morning person, so they are always hard for me, but lately it is getting worse, as I force myself to start another unfulfilling, lonely day without any prospect for st good to come my way. But, it is true, if you succeed to get stuff done first thing, it gives you a boost of confidence to go about your day. It may be the best thing that day, the little victories we forge that are in our control. Sometimes, I start with a cup of tea and I swear, it is the best part of my day. power to u, hugs
  12. Hi, Sorry it is like this for u. It is for me, 2. Is it our luck? I saw this, what do you think? To see a World in a Grain of Sand And a Heaven in a Wild Flower Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand And Eternity in an hour Every Night and every Morn Some to Misery are born. Every Morn and every Night Some are born to Sweet Delight, Some are born to Endless Night. ” William Blake all the best, maybe the sun will shine on u.
  13. Hi Jen, Ya, true, u said it girl. :) I forget what I did 2 days ago, bc all days are the same if some cra. isn't going on, I forgot last time st great come to me, but we must believe it will.
  14. Hi, ya, I sometimes just think about the time I'll get back to sleep. It gets me going. how sad is it
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