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Hayleydrops

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  1. Hey again; a revival and an explanation.

    Please let me know how I'd be able to keep in contact or at least get this inbox back x
  2. Hey again; a revival and an explanation.

    Hey! I'm so proud of you that you no longer have depression! I've been trying to contact you but I've accidentally deleted my inbox haha and have no idea how to get the messages back so this is my last resort. I really am happy that your depression has gone now though as mine has as well, I really do hope you have the chance to go uni and don't give up looking for a job! Hope you had a nice day today x
  3. Hi I've disabled my private messages and while inbox thinking I was deleting the little mobile chat and can't get it back and need to as it's important, do you know how I can get it back please?

    1. KidSurvivor2011

      KidSurvivor2011

      Hi Hayley,

      It sounds like to me that you clicked or tapped on the "Disable my messenger" link on your inbox page by mistake.

      Check to see if it works now.

       

      - KS

  4. Guidance with girlfriend

    I'm in the same situation where you want to be alone but not lonely, when I feel like this my boyfriend simply says il leave you alone for aslong as you need but I know it's your depression so il be here for when you need me and just gives me a hug sometimes all it takes when I get like that is just for him to hold me and tell me he's there. X
  5. Hello

    Hey! Your defiantly welcome here as we're all going through similar things and are all here to help! :)
  6. Thank you. I'm just really struggling to cope without working with my boyfriend as he's always been my go too. Also because of his longer hours we're not seeing each other much which is seriously making me depressed I keep getting horrible anxiety when he's not around it's making me miserable because I constantly feel lonely. X
  7. Hey-oh

    I think work is quite a lot of people's factors when it comes to depression I know mine is and that's nice having your dog to cheer you up, I love coming home to my milkshake my cat :) x
  8. I tried posting this before but never got much of a response so I'm trying on here as I'm really struggling. Recently my boyfriend has gotten a new job, before that we worked together for two years, it's where we even met but, because of all the stress I get from work and the people there Iv found since he's gone im stuck. I have no idea what I'm doing, basically since he's gone a lot of people don't really talk to me and when theyvdo it's either to ask about my boyfriend or make fun that he's left. What's worse is 6 months ago me, my boyfriend and this girl had a big arguement because for some reason she randomly decided to slag off me and my boyfriend and our relationship, long story short she got reported by me etc 6 months on and for that while six months every single time I'm within her view she never, ever stops death staring me, from time to time she made comments, not often at all now but she did the other day and I know whenever I try telling people it's not often there like oh then don't complain but it adds up when it's been going on for six months, the few comments but constant staring, and whenever I'm near her or she's near me she makes it obvious. Ontop of this I have an extremely short temper but Iv managed to hold my tongue for this long for the pure reason Iv been able to find my boyfriend and he calms me down, helps me and is there when other people are being annoying but now that's all gone and it's like even typing this out now I feel like I'm panicking I just don't know what to do and because of how much she winds me up i honestly feel like il pose my job because I will end up just decking her. The person I reported her too is currently leaving so he's going through loads and I don't want to burden him with it, I also don't want to go to anyone else because it's like when your bullied at school, when you tell someone it makes things worse. I just don't know how to cope with the people in general, half of them only talked to me because of my boyfriend and now that's gone and I'm also around people who are associated with me and my boyfriend who I don't get along with, I feel like I can't tell you boyfriend any of this cause he's so happy with his new job he's just started and I know for a fact this will make him feel guilty for leaving and feel down and I can't do that to him. I keep crying cause it's stressing me out, I can't leave as I'm learning I drive so don't have a car to travel and Iv already failed one driving test. It's seriously making me panic and stress and making me cry right now.
  9. GF Depressed or Not that in to Me?

    I defiantly think you should stick to saying to her you'll support her no matter what, but whilst your doing that you could try and ask how she's really been feeling as you've noticed she's not been her happy self, if she asks how then you could tell her how you feel but add in that again whatever it is that your there for her support and if she wants any space which it seems like she does that you'll be waiting for her when she is ready and cleared her head x
  10. Freaking out!

    Haha! I wish that was the answer to my problems x
  11. Freaking out!

    I know this will sound stupid but here goes. Recently my boyfriend has gotten a new job, before that we worked together for two years, it's where we even met but, because of all the stress I get from work and the people there Iv found since he's gone im stuck. I have no idea *** I'm doing, basically since he's gone a lot of people don't really talk to me and when theyvdo it's either to ask about my boyfriend or make fun that he's left. What's worse is 6 months ago me, my boyfriend and this girl had a big arguement because for some reason she randomly decided to slag off me and my boyfriend and our relationship, long story short she got reported by me etc 6 months on and for that while six months every single time I'm within her view she never, ever stops death staring me, from time to time she made comments, not often at all now but she did the other day and I know whenever I try telling people it's not often there like oh then don't complain but it adds up when it's been going on for six months, the few comments but constant staring, and whenever I'm near her or she's near me she makes it obvious. Ontop of this I have an extremely short temper but Iv managed to hold my tongue for this long for the pure reason Iv been able to find my boyfriend and he calms me down, helps me and is there when other people are being annoying but now that's all gone and it's like even typing this out now I feel like I'm panicking I just don't know what to do and because of how much she winds me up i honestly feel like il pose my job because I will end up just decking her. The person I reported her too is currently leaving so he's going through loads and I don't want to burden him with it, I also don't want to go to anyone else because it's like when your bullied at school, when you tell someone it makes things worse. I just don't know how to cope with the people in general, half of them only talked to me because of my boyfriend and now that's gone and I'm also around people who are associated with me and my boyfriend who I don't get along with, I feel like I can't tell you boyfriend any of this cause he's so happy with his new job he's just started and I know for a fact this will make him feel guilty for leaving and feel down and I can't do that to him. I keep crying cause it's stressing me out, I can't leave as I'm learning I drive so don't have a car to travel and Iv already failed one driving test. It's seriously making me panic and stress and making me cry right now.
  12. Iv felt like this too where you get to the point where you don't even feel anything your just empty and you feel still while life is just moving around you. Iv tried to get more involved with my family and friends, trying to include myself in things to just try and help, sometimes it does which is why I carry on for the moments I do feel anything. X
  13. Lonely, join me for a cup of coffee?

    I feel like it'll only last for today though sadly haha x
  14. The aftermath and a new chapter.

    I love the part of you saying you are my peeps, that made me laugh and I'm so happy your feeling better! I love cooking all the time I absolutely love it! And if you do too I say go for it, it makes me happy when I'm cooking it occupies my mind and just generally makes me happy for a while I just love making things from scratch and actually making something edible at the end of it haha! If you ever want any ideas of what to cook just message me! Xx
  15. Lonely, join me for a cup of coffee?

    Well Iv just spent today getting my nails done, ordering new carpet and just painted my ceiling and I'm cream crackerd! And my auto correct on my phone is annoying me, I'm trying to keep myself occupied for my depression and cause I hate being lonely, my boyfriend just started a full time job so I'm starting to get really lonely so I occupy myself in the spare time but because of my paranoia I worry he'll meet someone or someone will get close to him on his new job and I get scared :/ x