@Hermitic let's take your questions one at a time, though I am re-arranging them...you'll see why. It's interesting to me that your first impression of a girl seems very important to you. I am assuming this based upon parts of every question you have asked me..."upon first sight", "first time", "immediately". @Hermitic, how a girl looks should be one of the least important things of importance. It is much better to find a girl you can be friends with and get to know first. Girls are amazing, apart from what attracts us to them as males. Yes, sex is important in a relationship, but it is a very small part of a healthy relationship with a girl...there is soo much more to them than their bodies. Finding a girl that is interested in some of the same things you are is a good place to start. Relationships are about supporting each other, encouraging each other, learning from each other, sharing your thoughts, feelings, desires, frustrations with each other. And unconditionally loving each other. Each of us is imperfect, and a girl you like will not be perfect either. Don't be upset by this! This is life, and apart of being human. So on to your questions!
1. Were you interested upon first sight? Yes, she had very pretty eyes and a beautiful smile, and I was attracted to that. She was not at all like my "requirement" list thought she should look like. She wasn't blonde, tall, athletic with a face like a model...instead she was short, brunette, and a bit overweight.
2. Could you tell she was someone you would like shortly after meeting her for the first time? Well my initial impression was good, she seemed smart and funny...but no, I didn't really know much about her yet. She ended up being room-mates with one of my best friends. It was only when I started spending time with her and getting to know her that I started to figure out we had some of the same feelings about things. I became friends with her way before I started dating her. Our first date was actually quite a funny disaster!
3. Was your wife immediately interesting? Not really, she just transferred to the college I was attending, so she was trying to get settled in and figure out how everything worked. I only became interested in her after we became friends and I started to get to know more about her.
Hope that helps!