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LoneSquirrel

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    Goodbye, guys!! I will miss you. <3

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  1. Bye, Guys!!  Thanks for making a squirrel feel special.  I'll miss you.  :icon12:

     

    1. hocico

      hocico

      Aww :sadwalk:I feel like crying now, I am going to miss you being on here sweet squirrel :console:

    2. samadhiSheol

      samadhiSheol

      Take care, @LoneSquirrel

      :console:

  2. LoneSquirrel

    What Are You Listening To Right Now?

    NIN -- Leaving Hope
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    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    I just want to say goodbye to everyone here. My posts are all being moderated, and it looks like I'm going to be banned soon. I love all of you and will miss posting with you. --LoneSquirrel
  4. LoneSquirrel

    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    I'm attacking you bitterly and relentlessly? I wrote a post in support of you, and you told me my thinking was "juvenile." "Naive" wouldn't have been much of an improvement. After I told you your post hurt me, you continued on with your arguments. So who is attacking who? How did you think I would react to you calling my thinking juvenile? Did you think I would say, "oh yes, I see what you mean. My thoughts are totally wrong in light of the fact that you have said they are juvenile." ??? If you believed that that would be my reaction, then you are in no position to call my thinking juvenile or naive. But I don't think you thought that at all; I think you knew I would perceive it as a jab, and that's why you said it. I've been on both sides of the fence on this issue: I've been the pretty one, and I've been the gross one. You can call me naive all you want, but you're mistaken about that. The fact that my experiences don't match up with yours doesn't make me naive. As far as moving this discussion to PM...recent events here have taught me that I will be painted as the bad guy if I cannot document what I've said, so no thank you to that. I'd rather have people see what I've said--and be able to stand by what I've said--than allow others to say things about me that I cannot refute.
  5. LoneSquirrel

    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    I want to thank all of you who have offered supportive words to me. It does help me feel less alienated to hear that people care. Thank you for your kind words.
  6. LoneSquirrel

    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    I feel similarly. Hugs to you, tryinghard.
  7. LoneSquirrel

    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    I'm not so sure we all do. I can't say I feel understood here at this point.
  8. LoneSquirrel

    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    I'm sorry, lady. Please don't give up yet though. There are still a few things you can try...when you're ready.
  9. LoneSquirrel

    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    Do you know what things you like to do? If I remember correctly, there seems to be confusion about what your diagnosis should be, but if you aren't enjoying anything, that can be linked to depression. And not liking anything can make a person feel like they don't know who they are.
  10. LoneSquirrel

    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    I hope you've been able to come down from that, Brian.
  11. LoneSquirrel

    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    I don't think that anyone here thinks that about you, KS.
  12. LoneSquirrel

    The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" (4)

    First of all, I don't lump in all of the people who liked me when I was thin...just most of them. Because they proved themselves to be a**holes. And I don't think it's fair for you to fault me for my opinions that are based on my experiences. The things that happened to me happened, and I have reasons to believe that many of the things that happened were directly related to my looks. And I disagree about your contention that not being conventionally beautiful or thin is a far cry from having features that are seen as ugly or off-putting. Unless you are talking about something really unusual, I don't think it's a far cry. If the person avoiding you based on your looks thinks that fat people are gross, but they don't have a problem with big noses, not being thin is what's going to cause them to avoid you. And I can tell you for a fact that there are plenty of people out there who see being fat as not just unattractive, but as a character flaw. They think that fat people are lazy and have no self-control. So those people may tend to exclude fat people while they are able to overlook other things that are often seen as unattractive. I was trying to be supportive of you, and you took it as a call to get offended. When you said that my thinking was "juvenile" I could not help but get offended. My experiences have been such that I do not see things the way you do. I don't think that's a reason to call my thinking "juvenile." Nothing I said to you was intended as criticism, but you've offended me and put me in a position where I feel like I have to defend myself, and it seems like you're doing it on purpose. I'm sorry I took the time to write something to you that I thought would be received as support and love. I now wish I had just posted " " instead, but at the time I thought that what I was writing would be seen as more meaningful, and that it would be more appreciated than simply posting an emoticon. You were someone I thought was a solid friend to me on here. Now I'm left questioning even being here, because I thought that you--of all people--wouldn't say something like that to me. You could've just disagreed with me, but instead, you felt the need to call my thinking "juvenile." You clearly aren't sorry for that, because you keep trying to beat me into submission so that I'll abandon my own thoughts and experiences to side with yours. Debating these things would've been fine if it had been approached that way, but it wasn't. You had to insult me instead. I'm not okay with that. I guess we're just going to have to agree to disagree. You can think that my experiences and opinions are worthless all you want to; there probably isn't a whole lot I can say to get you to see why I hold the opinions I do. So it seems pointless to try.
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