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RiverLight

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RiverLight last won the day on September 8 2018

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  1. I don't wish ill upon her beyond getting fired..... I just want justice to be served in this situation. And what happened with her so far has been very unjust and makes me already want to leave the company, when I was SO excited by this job offer and opportunity.
  2. I am at the end of my rope! I started my new job last week, over a week ago, and ALREADY I am being severely bullied by a more senior team member who is above me in position but who is not my boss. I can't even believe this.... that yet again, I am being bullied in yet another job, and within my first few days of work!!!!! I did address it with her directly -- what she had done to me that was HIGHLY unethical and WRONG - I mean, just plain WRONG - she usurped my position right off the bat! So I did confront it with her, and I informed my boss of what she had done. Then when I had to get on the phone with her to discuss what had happened (our conflict), she approached me with a very punitive, corrective, superior and negative tone!!!!!! I informed my boss of this as well. Since I am a channel and a medium, I asked my spirit guides/angels what will happen. They tell me she will be fired by the end of this week - and that there has been a litany of similar incidents with her and that this was the final straw. I hope and pray that this information is accurate and true. I will report back here on what happens. However, if this continues and if she remains employed there, I will have to leave. I am most upset.
  3. YIKES! That's rough!!! And thanks!!!!
  4. Thank you! I have legitimate early menopause symptoms and that's why I cannot sleep. It's not due to stress. I am working on negotiating how the divorce agreement is written - I had proposed to my husband that we file for divorce jointly. It's cheapest and fastest this way in the state where we live. As the agreement is written now, it appears as though my husband is the one filing for divorce, although this was never communicated to me. And it DOES matter because I am divorcing HIM - I left HIM, not the other way around. He just wants to be able to say to everyone that HE left ME and that HE divorced ME. That is NOT going to fly for me... unless he truly did file for divorce, then I have no say in the language on the paperwork. I will definitely focus on my job because I have to succeed. I will limit all communication with my husband because he is moved out now and it's now all between our lawyers. It IS stressful and emotional though. Divorce is VERY VERY DIFFICULT, TUMULTUOUS, LIFE CHANGING AND UPSETTING. There is no way around that fact.
  5. Thank you! My divorce is a huge nightmare - all of it. My new job started today and it's been very stressful so far.
  6. Yes. Now we're dealing with the divorce paperwork.
  7. Thank you! He and I have been at each other's throats, mixed with him pleading with me not to divorce. It's been very up and down, and very crazy making. I am so glad he is finally out!!! I cannot imagine living under the same roof as him, given our dynamic. At least you and your ex are on friendly terms. That helps!!
  8. Not all - only relationships with toxic people!
  9. I woke up at 3 AM this morning and couldn't go back to sleep. Granted, I was in bed very early last night, but I am going through peri-menopause and it's making me wake up all night long with night sweats and then I can't get back to sleep. I am beside myself over it because I start work again tomorrow and have NO idea how I will survive when I can't sleep! I was prescribed another anti-depressant that is supposed to help me sleep, but so far it isn't working. My divorce is also wearing on me incredibly. I fought with my husband on Friday for 5 hours over text. I had to meet with my new boss the same day on a phone call, and I was a total emotional wreck and wet puddle. The fight with my husband derailed my plans for the entire day. A silver lining? My husband is now finally moved out and handed over his key to me Friday afternoon. THANK GOD. It took TWO MONTHS for him to move out, which was sheer TORTURE for me because it forced us to consistently be in touch. And being in touch all the time created many fights between us over the last 2 months. We've basically been fighting for 2 months straight, and I cannot take it anymore. So, thankfully, he is moved out and now there is NO reason for us to communicate anymore except through our lawyers. And I am LIVID with him right now because the current divorce agreement reads as though my husband is the one filing for divorce, when that is NOT the case whatsoever. I had asked that we file jointly together, because it's cheapest and fastest. But no, his lawyer drafted an agreement whereby I am the Defendant and he is the Plaintiff. I went ballistic, so now I need to speak with my own lawyer to get this rewritten. I know that my husband did this on purpose because he wants everyone to think that HE filed for divorce and that HE left ME. I left HIM. So I am completely strung out and worn out from EVERYTHING. I am crying right now. I hate my husband so very much!!!!! He is a most despicable human being, and I cannot believe I married such a dirtbag. And how am I going to make it in my new job when I wake up at 4 AM every day???
  10. THANK YOU. It's been on thing after another. I got drunk and called everyone in my moment of despair. My father was disgusted with me when I called his house drunk. I don't even recall the conversations I had with various people. It was not worth it. A really stupid move, but I caved under all the stress. All I felt was pure shame the next day. I forgot to also mention COVID and the social isolation to boot. I do not do well being isolated from people. But thank you for breaking it all down for me. My new job starts a new chapter in my life. My divorce will happen soon enough, and he will be out of my life soon enough. I have to see him socially, which makes me cringe and worry, but I won't deal with that for a while still. And my friend has to go through chemo treatments. I don't have hopes that she will survive. It's like stage 3 or 4 cancer.
  11. I'm trying... but it's SO hard. I've dealt with far too much in the last several months. My husband's abuse towards me, him cheating on me, then more abuse from my husband over the last 2 months, a divorce, unemployment and job searching, then finding out about my ex fiance's suicide, and now I just found out a friend has terminal cancer and has 18 months to live. It's FAR too much for anyone to handle. I got completely wasted the other night as a result of everything.
  12. I start next Monday Feb 8th! This week I still have off. Thanks for asking, though!
  13. I am exasperated, angry, frustrated and fed up. I want my husband OUT of the apartment. It's been 2 months since our separation and he has taken TWO FULL MONTHS to move out all of his belongings, forcing me to deal with him and communicate with him all this time when I want NOTHING to do with him anymore. I want him OUT of my life already! It's been 2 full months of sheer torture. He is supposed to finish moving out this weekend. He almost bailed on me, which would have dragged this out far beyond my deadline, and I wanted to throttle him. I want to throttle him, regardless. He SUCKS. I need peace of mind... I need peace in my life, overall. Which means he needs to go..... now.
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