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  1. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    I also am a bit scared. My boyfriend says he wants to marry me. He says he KNOWS in his heart and soul that I am the one for him. He says he has been looking for me all his life. He is absolutely wonderful and a true gem of a person, but I am a little scared. The last time I got engaged, everything blew up and the person I was engaged to turned out to not be the person I thought he was. I told my boyfriend that he needs to calm down a little bit about marriage, that it's still early in our relationship and to give it a little more time We're moving in together and that's a huge step. So, I am excited, but nervous. I really hope this all works out, and I believe it will, but I still have feelings of wariness and being skeptical. My fear is that my boyfriend will one day grow devil's horns and will turn into someone else, like all others have. There is absolutely NO indication of that though, no red flags that I am aware of, he treats me like a total princess, and is very kind, honest, loving and sweet. I worry too much, but it's based on a history of bad, broken relationships. :/ Maybe this time WILL be different. I truly hope so!!!
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    My goodness. All streets should be cleared, always.
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    YIKES. That is not safe!!! That's NUTS she spent the night in her car!!!
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    Happy that no snow accumulated last night.
  5. The big so called 'Noreaster didn't happen last night! Hooray! No snow accumulation though it's still snowing lightly right now. I'm sooooo ready for Spring!!!
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    Take the time that you need, sweetheart. I understand you are battling through so much. You WILL be OK! You are strong and resilient. You can get through this. Just have faith in yourself!!! And YES, never stop believing in your own worth!!! And thanks so much for your kind, sweet words. Awwww, you are so sweet to say this. Happiness has come into my life only because I knew what I wanted and deserve in a relationship, and I found it, or really, it found me. Good things DO happen, especially when you least expect it! Take care, hon, and do come back here to say hello when you're ready! MUCH LOVE.
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    YW! Anytime, sweetheart! Setbacks DO happen, but we always can bounce back from them, and you do! Each and every time... so have faith that you will bounce back again! And yes, things are great here! I move in April with my boyfriend. And thanks so much! I wish you nothing but happiness and peace too!! Love ya girl!
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    Thank you Sober4life!!! I really am happy... it's been a long time coming! YES, winter SUCKS right about now. Our second big storm in a matter of a week. At this rate, the snow won't melt until May! lol.
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    I had an amazing night with my boyfriend and feel very much in love, happy and content. We're moving in a week and a half and I cannot wait. We bought the washer and dryer from the former tenants and got a huge deal on it. They were expensive originally but we got them for 1/3 the cost. Hooray!!! Now I just need to pack everything -- UGH. That part is not fun. And we have yet another snow storm coming today.... OK winter please end already. I am SO sick of winter cold, snow and weather. DONE. Spring can come now please!!! I want to see the flowers! And budding trees!!! But no, they're covered in snow. GRRRRRRR. This time of year is always hard on me..... on all of us here. Everyone is sick of it and grouchy. But I'm too happy to be grouchy, really.
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    Sorry, babyxgoth, I hope this turns around for you. You have to have hope in life to hold on... so hold onto the thought of better, brighter days ahead. It does take effort to create the life and mental attitude that you want..... it takes deliberate effort to turn negative thoughts and feelings around, but it CAN be done. I have hope for you. Hold onto all those who love, cherish and encourage you. Hold onto the moments when you DO feel happier and more hopeful. Those moments can help you through the darker ones. You CAN shine in this life and will. I do believe in you!!!
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    I'm so sorry! That is a terrible shock. Please do take care of yourself.
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    You know they are toxic when they are effecting your mental health negatively... when you have that feeling of sickness or when they drain you of all your energy and feel worse after leaving them. Or perhaps they make you feel bad about yourself often. That's when you know. I hope whatever the situation is, that you take care of your own needs and sever ties if this person truly is toxic for you!
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    You know, that's a really great distinction! We have just had too many bad experiences, but not all people are bad. SO TRUE!!!! I am definitely one who has had too many bad experiences, especially with men. It's like I expect this wonderful man to grow devil horns. He has done nothing to make me think this about him. Zero. He is a true gem. A true gentleman, very supportive and very loving. He's becoming my best friend in life. The fact that he says he wants to marry me makes me think he will change his mind in six months once he grows tired of me. But he claims he never will. I have to start believing that good people actually DO exist, and I believe that I found a really good one this time.. finally!
  15. I am happy and in love. :hearts::hearts:

    1. babyxgothxx


      So happy for you!!!! :hugs::flowers: :icon12:

    2. RiverLight


      Aww, thank you so much!!! It's so awesome!!! :wub: