no good relationship

My ex-to be wife is abusing me through her attorney. Here's the deal she hasn't lived here for a year and 8 months we have no kids together going on the12 th year of marriage her mom is employed by a big law firm so her atty is her moms friend of 25 yrs and our judge she worked at the same law firm they are all friends. Here's the abuse my wife knows every trigger I have and pulls them at will. One of them is being rushed and so April 5th I get a call from my atty saying my wife wants to file a joint tax return. I had no income in 2016. I said no i don't have nothing to file. The judge issues me a court order to do it and have the info too my atty in 3 business days. So i do this. So I get a call Saturday 5-20-17 saying her mom who is doing the taxes she does it for a living hasn't got my tax information yet. We have a trial date in three weeks yep a trial for this divorce. Her attorney didn't give my info to her yet. This pi**es me off.

Well you know the old saying about helping someone helps you too. Expecting something in return ruins it. I enjoy helping people but don't seem to want to help my self. I know how hard we all try but when it's about you it's just not the same. If I have to clean my house I don't want too ask me to help clean your house I will be more than happy too.

Hello and relate to your situation. I've been taking psychiatric medication for 15 yrs now . I seem to build a very fast tolerance and have yet to actually feel good on them maybe for a few weeks then I level off at that point they usually up the dose and add things until it's a cocktail. I'm alive but not living .Then they want you to stop one to try another and so goes the cycle. Some people don't have this problem. It's unusual for the ssri's to effect you right away but like you I felt good after a couple of days. I hope you find something that works for along time.

I wake up everyday 2 or 3am take my adderal sit in the dark pet cooper 6 am still sitting doing nothing except draining this crap from my ear a white thick gew it never stops.this is my life the mucus runs so thick down my throat I don't think the meds work I can't even walk cooper anymore and still no divorce $3,500.00 for nothing no income for A year and a half my savings is down too $ 7,350.00 after that I have to cash in a IRA, SSD denied have too appeal my health slowly robs my strength, I get short of breathe very easily. The left ear keeps gushing into where my mastoid bone used to be my family tried to have me comitted becase i don't do anything and hardly take care of myself because I have to suck this nasty stuff or it turns hard. I can see assisted living coming my way but they had a better Idea get rid of him he is a embarrassment to us. my new psych is taking me through some med changes maybe it will help for how long?

I could see this coming but I'm paranoid why would I be parnoid because my family called my T and wanted me committed. My T wasn't very happy about this if he thought I should be locked up he would have done it they are unsupportive so my T said not too talk about it with anyone so I just can't forget it so I decided I had to detach from them so now I know the truth I can't take care of mom so now I'm a problem solution get rid of him

Well good to here keep moving and eating and don't forget to shower.not a easy thing some days

Oh yes I remember that name. How have you been? I hope okay

When I was a yong boy in grade school I never had any friends. When ever someone nes came to our school I would always talk to them and be there friend but after a while they fades away.

well it's pretty much done i will never recover from this depression and anxiety it has eaten away my soul and flesh

THANK YOU ALL FOR YOU KINDNESS LOVE AND SUPPORT BUT ITS TIME TO RAMBLE ON. GOOD LUCK LOVE SCOTT

I CAN'T GET OUT OF THIS FUNK I HAVE BEEN IN SINCE THE FIREWORKS WENT OFF INSIDE HEAD FROM THAT REDUCTION OF PAXIL I DON'T EVEN WANT TO WRITE

If i can just keep reminding my self I am free and it's over, no longer can she torment me with her passive aggressive narscist crap is over instead of being angry I seem to feel better

Cold fire I feel for you religious guilt tripping about a natural thought and the reaction physically has to be overcome I could say it's tormenting you. I am a Christian I read the BIBLE cover to cover you know what I learned I have done almost every sinful thing in there. I don't get into gotta do this and that preachers . I don't have to do anything it was already done for me . It's all prostitution whether your married or not Your going to pay money for it either way. Its all about faith { the hope for something you can't see.}

PARANOID BLACK SABBATH FINISHED WITH MY WOMEN CAUSE SHE COULDN'T HELP ME WITH MY MIND PEOPLE THINK I AM INSANE BECAUSE I'M FROWNING ALL THE TIME ALL DAY LONG I THINK OF THINGS BUT NOTHING SEEMS TO SATISFY THINK I'LL LOSE MY MIND IF I DON'T FIND SOMETHING TO PACIFY CAN YOU HELP ME, OCCUPY MY BRAIN OH YEAH I NEED SOMEONE TO SHOW ME THE THINGS IN LIFE THAT I CAN FIND I CAN'T SEE THE THING THAT MAKE TRUE HAPPINESS, I MUST BE BLIND MAKE A JOKE AND I WILL SIGH AND YOU WILL LAUGH AND I WILL CRY HAPPINESS I CANNOT FEEL AND LOVE TO ME IS SO UNREAL AND SO AS YOU HERE THESE WORDS TELLING YOU NOW OF MY STATE I TELL YOU TO ENJOY LIFE I WISH I COULD BUT IT'S TOO LATE

Hi and welcome Johney I don't know what type of work you do or your relationship with your company. I feel for you because work is supposed to be good. It helps to focus on our work and can give us a sense of accomplishment. You do not have to reveal your disability to go home just say your sick.Some workplaces can and will use it against you I don't no if your union or in a at will state. You never have to reveal your disability. Workers comp ins especially will give them bad advise. Since you have revealed it ask if they have an EAP rep and talk to them if they do. Sorry for your bad day is there .Hope it gets better for you