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  1. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    I don't think anyone here ever thinks it is a joke, my friend! I hear you. I know. I have been there. In fact, given some hits that I have taken today socially, as well as some unforeseen med changes as well, I may be joining you in Downsville tomorrow. I hear you. I sincerely hope you wake up renewed and at peace, anxiousE. Please let us know how you're doing tomorrow!! Hugs!!! Brian
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    How do you know when a friend you love is actually toxic for you? I'm struggling right now. Sorry to be so cryptic, but, it's almost too difficult to explain.
  3. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    Hang in there buddy. It's all have to offer. That and, "I know." You're an amazing guy, my friend!!
  4. New Apartment, Amazing New Boyfriend, I'm In Love

    This was so nice to read, M!!! I am so happy for you. Handsome dude! LOL. Keep on keeping on, girl! And you're right to take it slow. I firmly believe that this is the only way to go to protect oneself. See how compatible you two are first. Hugs, Brian
  5. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    We're glad you're back, BG!!!!!
  6. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    Please don't be so hard on yourself for a down and idle day. Everyone has them! You are not a loser, lady! Hugs!!!!
  7. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    I second that!!!! Lovely, and true comment, Uncertain. @babyxgothxx is fantastic!
  8. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    OK, I went for my physical today. My weight (which I never take on my own) is ridiculous. Blood pressure is high. When she was listening to me chest, my doctor said, um, does heart disease run in your family (ans. yes). GEEZ - not a good show. I need to change bad. But I probably won't. I never have. O, and now my friends who are accusing me of changing and not doing much with them anymore (because I can't keep up to them re. spending) are ghosting me. WHOOT!
  9. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    That sounds great, JD, except the being back to work part! You sound like a great dad to me!!!
  10. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    Hugs WOTL I am hoping the new options you're pursuing are going to work!!
  11. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    Like!!! Thanks, Natasha!
  12. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    Thanks Nat! Big hugs singing, versifying, teaching, mountain climbing girl!!!! Perhaps if I explain it to them they will understand that I am not rejecting them, but am living my own life within my own means? They will either understand, or they won't. It is what it is, and what has to be.
  13. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    Frustrated! A couple of my oldest friends are accusing me off dropping out of their lives. Truth is, I text one of them all the time, and I stay in touch ever so often with the other guy - who only calls me to do something at the last minute when his wife is away (he's one of those people who can't bare to be alone). Both these guys live in mansions. They can't possibly empathize with my situation - how I am paycheck to paycheck and so I can't go travelling to Boston and New Orleans with them, or even go to see a concert downtown in Toronto, anymore. They have NO IDEA. **** NO IDEA what my life is like. And to make matters worse, I explained to one of them tonight that I am OK with not doing these things. I am OK with a simple life, on a budget. It is not a rejection of them. I am OK! I may as well have told him that I believed in the tooth fairy. Total incomprehension. I think all of my life I've just hoped to be understood. It hasn't happened yet.
  14. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    Happy birthday @sober4life!!!!!!!
  15. The "How Do You Feel Right Now?" Topic (5)

    You're on my mind, BG. Whether you know, or believe, it or not!!!! And, BTW - you are none of those things, at core. Your mind is telling you those things. And you are so much more than your mind.