Hi everyone - I'm new to this site. I've been caring for my 55 yr old mom, who has been suffering from anxiety, depression and insomnia for the past 6 months. Poor mom has been quite a guinea-pig so far and is also really sensitive to meds to boot (apparently Asians metabolize these meds differently, who knew) so it's been somewhat of a nightmare journey so far. She just started Remeron at 22.5mg and 1mg of Xanax XR at night to help her sleep. I am really worried because from what I've read, Xanax is a short term solution and I want her to get off fast before dependency issues crop up. Thing is, she's been sleeping better than she has in months and her moods during the day are getting better - she's finally shaking off the debilitating fear she had and is making jokes and able to talk to strangers. I don't want her to go back. Any thoughts as to what she could do instead of the Xanax? We tried 0.5mg of Xanax two nights ago but she woke up a few hours later and couldn't fall back asleep. We've tried Ambien but it was awful so we can't go down that path again.