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Dear Brenshay 10/12/05

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I'm sorry to be so blunt, but your ex-husband does not love you anymore, not even a little bit, and he hasn't for a long time. He made up his mind to leave you long before he got the guts to do it. He was just waiting around for a backup (aka Pinkie) because he couldn't survive on his own. If he and Pinkie ever break up, he will not be coming back to you. He has moved on. You have tried everything possible to get his attention, but not one thing has worked. You got a tattoo. You cried. You yelled. You were sweet. You ignored him. You wrote him letters. You threatened divorce. You bought new clothes. You sold the house. You had a big party without him. You moved into a great townhouse without him. You swallowed a bunch of pills. You dated another man. Not one of those or any of the other things you did made him notice you or brought him back to you, and there is nothing you can do that will work because he's not in love with you anymore. He does not miss you. He does not think of you fondly. He does not wonder what you are doing. He does not think of you while he is with Pinkie. If he is nice to you, it is purely out of guilt. He does not ever call you just to say hello or ask how you are doing. He never shows up at your doorstep. He did not visit you in the hospital or call you when you got home. He did not even acknowledge the letters where you poured your heart out. He did not rush to stop the divorce hearing. He doesn't care. This is not the man you are going to grow old with and sit on the porch together in rocking chairs watching your grandchildren play. I know you have held on to this dream for a long time, but it will not happen with him. You will have to find another dream. It is time for you to let go of him and move on. Stop thinking your situation is temporary. Stop waiting for him to call you or show up in the middle of the night. He's not coming. You will not be getting re-married to him. He has fallen out of love with you. Somebody out there will love you the way you deserve, but if you have your head turned away how will you ever see him? You can't embrace a ghost. Take your love and adoration away from the person who doesn't want it and give it to somebody who matters--YOU! The rest will fall into place. Read me whenever you miss him, feel sad, feel angry or feel lonely. I will always remind you of the truth. You need to believe it. Love always,Brenshay

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I'm really proud of you for writing that. That's the most honest thing I've read in a long time. It took guys Bren. :taz:

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I'm really proud of you for writing that. That's the most honest thing I've read in a long time. It took guts Bren. :taz:

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