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qwerty21, I think that was directed at me.  I'm sorry I seemed so harsh.  I logged on today to sort of apologize, and I see you removed the post I made a comment to.

If you post something on the internet, you have to expect that people are going to try to give you advice and seem to tell you they "know better".  Isn't that why we are all here on this site, to post and get advice from people who may know better? I'm sorry you feel the way you do.  I apologize, again.  This should be a safe place for people to express whatever they are feeling.  Please continue to do so and don't let anyone stop you.  I was only trying to help you.  I'm on your side.  Really.  

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On 6/17/2016 at 5:43 PM, thursdayschild said:

qwerty21, I think that was directed at me.  I'm sorry I seemed so harsh.  I logged on today to sort of apologize, and I see you removed the post I made a comment to.

If you post something on the internet, you have to expect that people are going to try to give you advice and seem to tell you they "know better".  Isn't that why we are all here on this site, to post and get advice from people who may know better? I'm sorry you feel the way you do.  I apologize, again.  This should be a safe place for people to express whatever they are feeling.  Please continue to do so and don't let anyone stop you.  I was only trying to help you.  I'm on your side.  Really.  

Okay thank you for being understanding and I kinda apologise too. My issue with the post was that all you have is the story I told. You have none of your five senses to use, and you made a statement like you know what the situation was like. And a part of my point was that even if there was a .1% chance of something happening, I should've just approached them and initiate conversation and it's okay if nothing happens.

But anyway, everything is okay and I agree that it's okay for people to give advice. I generally like getting comments.

Maybe part of my problem just inside my head is that I have maybe some weird defense mechanisms and I don't like when people try to break them. So largely this is just issues I have with myself and everything's okay.

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You are 100% right.  I think that's the problem with the entire Internet, people are so quick to judge when they only get part of the story.  I've had it happen to me, too, in fact I quit another forum because of it.  I know what you mean about the defense mechanisms too.

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