I don't want you being affectionate with your guy friends ever
You can't go out to dinner alone with your ex boyfriend, even though I'm invited to meet up with you afterwards
I want to meet every guy friend of yours before you go out with them alone
I want to chaperone you when you're out without me and show up unexpectedly to check up on you
He becomes controlling whenever he's upset or anxious:
Throws in what is completely irrelevant, or a past issue, into the current argument
Brings up irrelevant past issues in arguments:
When he's in the wrong, he needs to make it equal by bringing up my past mistakes or what I do wrong
Everything that is wrong has to be equal to him:
When confronted with his behavior he always turns the tables to say what I do wrong, or equally as wrong. He won't simply own up to it immediately and apologize for hurting me
He turns the tables & gets defensive:
You feed me all BS; you pick and choose what you want to tell me -- simply because I went to a bar by myself (I should not have broken the rules, but I told him the truth)... and because I had forgotten to tell him about an ex boyfriend contacting me, yet told him the truth when asked if anyone's contacted me lately.
You take me for granted (twice he's said this) --- simply because I didn't text for a few hours while in transition from a party
You're unstable --- simply because I confronted him about his behaviors and how they made me feel
I don't like the way you communicate --- when I wanted to go to bed in the middle of a conversation
Doesn't trust me, is overly anxious, and communicates very poorly when upset or anxious. Can't deal with this anymore. :/ Is this abuse?