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Americans living today will suffer from major depressive illness during their lives. Seasonal affective disorder is major depression that appears in the fall or winter and goes away in spring, thought to be caused by lack of sunlight. Postpartum depression occurs within four weeks of a women giving childbirth. Most new mothers suffer from some form of the �baby blues.� Postpartum depression, by contrast, is major depression, thought to be triggered by changes in hormonal flows associated with childbirth. Catatonic depression is a rare form of major depression characterized by (at least two): Stupor, excessive motor activity, extreme negativism, peculiarities in voluntary movement, and repetition of other people's words or actions. - mcmanweb.com Psychotic depression is a rare form of depression characterized by delusions or hallucinations, such as believing you are someone you are not and hearing voices. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, approximately 18.8 million American adults, or about 9.5 percent of the US population age 18 and older in a given year, have a depressive disorder. Depression is a chronic illness that exacts a significant toll on America's health and productivity. It affects more than 21 million American children and adults annually and is the leading cause of disability in the United States for individuals ages 15 to 44. Lost productive time among U.S. workers due to depression is estimated to be in excess of $31 billion per year. Depression frequently co-occurs with a variety of medical illnesses such as heart disease, cancer, and chronic pain and is associated with poorer health status and prognosis. It is also the principal cause of the 30,000 suicides in the U.S. each year. In 2004, suicide was the 11th leading cause of death in the United States, third among individuals 15-24. According to the World Health Organization, depression is presently on track to becoming the world's second-most disabling disease (after heart disease) by the year 2020. Depression is responsible for some $87 billion a year in lost productivity in the US (a conservative estimate), and according to Bank One, is responsible for most lost work days in its employees after pregnancy and childbirth. Additionally, one million people worldwide die by their own hand, most as a result of a mood disorder. Finally, the linkage between depression and a host of physical illnesses makes it arguably the world's greatest killer. Research presented at the 56th Annual Conference of the Canadian Psychiatric Association shows a marked link between bipolar disorder and migraines. The odds of migraine in persons with bipolar disorder were 40% higher than the general population. Data obtained from 36,984 people aged 15 and over, who screened positive for manic or depressive episodes with migraine, were compared against those who screened positive for mania but who didn�t suffer from migraines. Amongst males, 14.9% of those with manic episodes were also diagnosed with migraines compared with 5.8% of the general population. Amongst females, 34.7% had both migraines and bipolar disorder compared with 14.7% who only had migraines.unquote.gif While the research was skewed towards persons who were already diagnosed with bipolar disorders, what does it mean for people who suffer from migraines but who may have an undiagnosed bipolar disorder? Migraines and headaches aren�t fully understood but the manifestations are very real and debilitating for their sufferers: Throbbing pain Nausea Heightened sensitivity to light or sound Seeing dots, wavy lines, flashing lights, or blind spots Difficulty with speech, sensation, or movement An estimated 2.1 million American adolescents have experienced major depression within the last year, according to a new comprehensive government study. Researchers surveyed more than 67,000 young people ages 12 to 17 and found that one in 12 had suffered from serious depression in the previous year.Nearly 13 percent of girls had struggled with depression, compared to less than 5 percent of boys. Odds of depression increased with age -- just 4 percent of 12-year-olds experienced depression but that climbed to 11 percent for older teens. Advertisement
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I just wanted to say thank you. The past few days I have been so overwhelmed with such sadness, anger, hate, frustration, guilt, anxiety and panic ... and I don't know what I would do if I didn't have these forums to come to for support. Thank you so much.
♥ Taneil
(Taneil@ Sep 9 2009, 10:36 AM) QUOTE (Princessrolo @ Sep 8 2009, 07:26 PM) *
I used Google, I was intentionally looking for a Depression Forum and this one seemed the best.
When I have been depressed previously I had avoided forums etc for depression, my mindset was 'Yeah talking to other depressed people is going to make me worse' I couldnt have been more wrong!
I am so, so glad I found this forum, it is nice to feel that I am not alone with how I think and feel and I feel a wonderful sense of community on DF. My BF, friends, family can sympathize but they cannot empathize with how I am feeling, its lovely to be able to relate to people about it.
(Princessrolo) QUOTE (ssphs @ Aug 5 2009, 09:17 PM) *
I just read your post to Scarlett and DF. I found it while doing a search for toxic (family). People are so nice here to be struggling with depression themselves and still be so nice and supportive. I've had many alone and lonely birthdays. All the messages and your message to was heartwarming.
(ssphs) QUOTE (whitman77 @ Aug 8 2009, 10:25 PM) *
Hi Old Friend,
Thanks for your reply... I am still so moved by people taking the time to reply to others they don't know but who are in pain and who need help... its something quite amazing... a source of light for me in a world that has become increasingly dark...
(whitman77 ) QUOTE (anthony84 @ Sep 4 2009, 08:57 PM) *
HI. My name is anthony. I'm 24, single and a student. I've been dealing with depression and anxiety for about a year now. I've never taken any medications before only doing some CBT. My mood has greatly improved, but I'm still having some recurrences. I think this is a wonderful site and found a lot of useful information here, thanks. :). Anyway, first time posting just saying hi. lol :)
Cheers; anthony
(anthony84) QUOTE (Pantalaimon @ Jul 20 2009, 08:04 PM) *
I did some google-work on depression and medication and found this forum. I am very curious about other peoples feelings and experiences about this decease. But most of all I wanted to find a nice and welcoming atmosphere where to talk about this all. I have found some pages where to talk about this in Finnish (as I am from Finland) but still wanted to get more international with this. And this forum is more than I ever expected to find. this is awesome. :D
(Pantalaimo) QUOTE (kakurebasho @ Jul 30 2009, 11:00 AM) *
Hi! I already introduced myself on the main area, but I wanted to say hi here, too. I'm a lesbian, and I actually just came out about it to (most of) my family...about a month ago, actually. Maybe two. I don't really know if that's contributed to my depression per se, but I know it's been a big stress factor...and if I'm really honest with myself, stress has been a biiiiig problem in terms of, well...everything. It's great that this place (DF) has an area for the GLBT community. That's nice and comforting. :D
(kakurebasho) QUOTE (jen79 @ Jul 30 2009, 07:33 PM) *
I agree with scaredheart, the DF have helped me so much!
I feel safe here and knowing how supported people here can make me feel has really lessened my sense of isolation.
Somehow it makes my depression a lot easier to bear!
Today I finally got over 100 posts on the forums! yay.gif
I managed to write something down for people to see that I have never told a soul about. I feel safe here, I don't know if it is the anonymity or the support or both.
Thank you everybody.
With the posting of that fact I was finally able to admit that I feel supported and could let go of my sense of isolation.
So, quite a big day actually.
Be well everybody.
I love you all.
Jen
(jen79) QUOTE (lostsoul21 @ Aug 4 2009, 04:54 PM) *
I am so glad that i stummbeled across this website i really wasn't looking 4 a depression forum place i was tring to look up my new AD i started taking and somehow it led me here to this websitee and im thankful i found it because otherwise i would seriously have NO ONE to talk to at all! i thank everyone of you guys that have helped me out and given me advice!
(lostsoul21) QUOTE (eponine94 @ Aug 5 2009, 11:05 PM) *
Thank you. (: Yes, I'm very glad that I found the ED Forum. In fact, the whole forum's helping a lot. There's a different section for each part of my messed-up life!
Alice.
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(eponine94) QUOTE (Dee-26 @ Aug 8 2009, 05:47 PM) *
Hello everybody!
Thank you so much for your replies - it is so reassuring to know that I am not the only person struggling with this; mental illness can be so lonely, so this website is amazing....thanks! wub.gif
(Dee-26 ) QUOTE (stainedglass @ Aug 15 2009, 03:29 AM) *
hi. my name is angela and i have recognized depression since i was 14. i am now 22 and i have been diagnosed as bipolar II. this means that my manic episodes are not as drastic as the depression.
i am an artist, writer and musician. i am very creative and i know that with the right effort i can achieve greatness. but it is so hard to get started. it is so hard to organize my thoughts. this is why i often write to help separate the racing thoughts in my head. just knowing that i am writing with others who experience similar problems is somewhat comforting. depression is lonely.
i appreciate whoever came up with this forum. i appreciate all those who have posted because i know that these things are difficult to articulate.
thank you.
(stainedglass) QUOTE (sepultricpete @ Aug 18 2009, 02:07 AM) *
Hey/hello all, I've been here once before but left due to reasons I have long since forgotten,,ack.
Anyway, I have depression as well as PTSD, and self-harm sometimes.
Yesterday I visited my new doctors for the first time to up the dosage of my dep. meds. I needed to, as I
have recently been getting worse..
I have noticed that the site has grown (well done, admins!), a lot!!.
Well that's about all I will say for now, hopefully I will stay a while longer this time, I really really hope to make some friends this time around, I certainly need 1 or 2, life is errr.. pretty dire at the moment.
Take care.
(sepultricpete ) QUOTE (Musicafrica @ Aug 19 2009, 08:37 AM) *
I had exactly the same experience... My wife has had both heart disease and cancer, with both hitting us pretty suddenly. Those circumstances have gotten under control and I dont really have the bad anxiety attacks I used to have, but there is an overhang of depression that seems to have been the longer term result of this. Ruminating about my circumstances and the "dark cloud" of fear that everything will be "taken away" from me really saps me and keeps me low.
So, my anxiety is just one that is the starting point that morphs into longer term depression and obsessive thinking. Coming to this forum and just sharing it has proven to be a really good tonic.
(Musicafrica) QUOTE (karmic_serenade @ Aug 19 2009, 04:18 PM) *
You are all such lovely people.
It's so amazing that we can all still be so caring and compassionate in spite of all we've been through. I understand that our pasts shape us and mold us into who we are today, but you'd think things would've ended up sooo differently based on what we've seen and survived.
Thank you so much for caring.
My healing is possible because of people like you.
Hugs right back to ya!
(karmic_serenade) QUOTE (Lost My Way @ Aug 20 2009, 10:13 AM) *
Well, I finally decided to reach out for some help, I don't want to fee this way anymore.
I've been reading on here and you guys and gals make me feel like I'm not so alone. For that I thank you all.
For the first time in a while I'm almost ready to have hope. I'm scared, but at least I'm not totally alone anymore.
I'm going to beat this, and you beautiful people who have shared yourselves have helped empower me.
I know I'm not alone and I derive strength from that. Thank you all.
(Lost My Way ) QUOTE (was @ Jul 21 2006, 12:57 PM) *
HI all. Usual story - recurrent (now officially "treatment refractory") major depression with anxiety. I've been on the "medication mambo" - SSRIs, SNRIs
Before I forget (which I do all the time now!), I'd like to add my word of appreciation for the administrators and all the brave souls who participate in this forum. Thanks to all of you.
Bill
(was) QUOTE (Deepster @ Aug 21 2009, 04:51 PM) *
Extremely supportive, full of supportive members/posters in all aspects of MI/SA! I find very knowlegeable posters here who offer first hand advice and support. The mods/admins are extremely fair and straighforward when you make a mistake.....quick to advise, support, are non-adversarial when "pointing" you in the right direction, with the whys(some of us belong to so many forums, we simply forget the "rules" when going back and forth). You're never admonished, just given appropriate direction. And, honestly, they all seem to understand that we have our "altered states" and treat everyone with respect.
I particularly like this forum because it's almost like a team. We have our issues. We state them openly, and support is always at hand.
I have been on other forums where there seems to exist a "community" of posters/members/mods-admins that's inpenetrable. You won't find this here.
Obey the rules, learn from others, and it's a great experience.
HTH!
Deepster
(Deepster) QUOTE (AngelOfTheMoor @ Aug 22 2009, 06:17 AM) *
I like this forum a lot. The users are very friendly, and the forum is easy to become acclimated to. I feel comfortable sharing my thoughts and opinions here, and that's not usually the case for me at all. Everyone's supportive, and for me it's helpful to read about others' experiences because this forum is the one place where I can really see that there are others whose problems are like my own. I also like that I can freely discuss topics relating to depression here because I can't do so in real life. And the blog allows me to express thoughts that I need to get out of my system but can't elsewhere.
(AngelOfTheMoor) QUOTE (astralis @ Aug 24 2009, 05:37 AM) *
I love this place... wub.gif
Anything I need to know is here. And it's great to get to know people... there's a real sense of community here. I experienced a brief period of recovery, I guess, and didn't post for about a year, and I came back about a month ago, to the same caring and supportive environment that helped me so much the first time around. It's incredible to see how others will reach out to you when you're in need, and just to know that someone, somewhere is reading what you've written... someone who understands. Not someone who simply nods and says, "Ah, sorry to hear that." If someone asks how I'm feeling, I don't feel pressured to say "fine" and keep going, which is how I feel when people greet me face-to-face. Whether you need a willing ear, an experience, an answer, or simply a distraction, it's all here.
I hope you find the same comfort here that I have.
(astralis) QUOTE (Spiffyfirefly @ Aug 25 2009, 12:40 PM) *
I also wanted to say, I'm so glad I found this site. I really needed a place where others understand and don't *necessarily* get sick of my *whining*.
Thanks you all for being here!
spiffy
(Spiffyfirefly) QUOTE (eddie @ Aug 25 2009, 10:35 PM) *
Been a while since I’ve posted here, sooo… just wanted to check in and say hi.
I really wish I spent more time here. I think a lot of the time I’m in denial about my depression. Maybe that’s cuz my MD has diagnosed it as “mild depression”, but the fact of the matter is, some days it’s nonexistent, some days it’s mild, some days it’s medium, and some days it’s SEVERE.
And sometimes on the severe days (like today and yesterday) I’ll visit DF.org, and, even though I don’t post anything, I’ll read other peoples stories and then, inevitably, my lip starts quivering and then tears start streaming down my face. Almost as instantly and mechanically as if I’d just squeezed a saturated sponge. Not exactly tears of sadness, but tears of … what’t the right term ... basically, being reminded that I’m not alone. Being reminded that I’m not the only one who has layers upon layers of emotional problems to deal with.
I’m awed and overwhelmed by all the people on this site who, despite not being moderators or admins, seem to spend SO much time here, counseling those who live hundreds or even thousands of miles away, people who they’ll probably never meet. bow.gif I wish I had the time and energy to do that. Maybe some day, sooner or later, I will.
Sooo anyway, again.. just thought I’d stop by and say hi. Wishing all the best to all of you. hearts.gif
Your friend,
Eddie
(eddie ) QUOTE (budfox @ Jul 4 2009, 06:40 PM) *
I'm amazed and deeply grateful for all the support I have received on this forum.
B
(budfox ) QUOTE (PrettySad @ Jul 2 2009, 06:19 PM) *
Hello everyone. I am new here. You can call me PS. I am 30 yrs old and depressed right at the moment.
I am so happy that a forum like this exists.... :)
( PrettySad) QUOTE (Kaynicole @ Jul 1 2009, 04:24 AM) *
PRT,
Thanks so much for the welcoming! I have had a few side effects but nothing discouraging. I have my head held high and i know that nothing can break me, I have to let it run its course to know whether or not it is right for me. I cannot live inside my own head, and that is why I am here. Thanks for all of the support.
God bless everyone on this site for all of their insight and intellect!
(Kaynicole) QUOTE (well_now_what @ Jun 29 2009, 05:56 PM) *
After finding out Elizabeth had died I had no idea what the next step for me was. "Well, what now?" was the only thing I could think. Over and over again, "Well, what now? WHat am I supposed to do?" Thankfully DF helped me figure out how to move forward.
(well_now_what) QUOTE (lilyclementine @ Jun 27 2009, 08:27 PM) *
Thank you guys very much for your support and encouragement. Your advice really means a lot to me. I've never seen a therapist and don't really see that being a possibility right now, but your suggestions of talking to my family doctor or pastor seem like something worth doing.
Also, I found that just talking to my best friend and boyfriend about how I'm feeling really made me feel better. My best friend also has a history of depression, and she was quite able to relate to my feelings of guilt.
Anyway, knowing that there are people out there experiencing the same feelings as myself and dealing with them has been a real help all by itself. Thanks again for your support!
Clementine
(lilyclementine) QUOTE (SpaceKadet @ Jun 27 2009, 07:35 AM) *
You mean there was actually a time in my life that I was NOT a member????
How did I make it without DF???
Oh, now I remember! That was the time I was such a miserable, awful person to be around, and I was constantly in very, very, bad shape, and really bouncing off the walls!
(SpaceKadet) QUOTE (sledge1017 @ Jun 26 2009, 04:27 AM) *
I am so extremely thankful that I found this site, I havent had anyone to talk to or to open up to and this feels good.
Thank you so very much. tear2.gif these are good tears.
(sledge1017 ) QUOTE (Xoron @ Jun 25 2009, 09:02 PM) *
Wow, you guys are great... thank you all for all the support!
It's really a relief to know that my meds just might not be kicking in yet... All the paperwork that came with my meds said that they should start working within two weeks or so... but if it's possible that it's just taking longer with me, it helps a lot to know - at least there's hope.
(Xoron ) QUOTE (Moodymom @ Jun 17 2009, 08:51 PM) *
Hello everyone!
I just joined this site today! I really like it so far. I am impressed with the level of intellect displayed by the staff and the forum members. I have now just spent the last hour on here.
(Moodymom) QUOTE (POPI @ Jun 16 2009, 09:40 PM) *
Congratulations iowa!!! I never fail to be inspired or just simply calmed, whenever I read your posts..POPI
(POPI) QUOTE (ChrystalR @ Jun 16 2009, 04:30 PM) *
"Nothing to feel paranoid about!"
Lol.. Sorry, but that was a refreshing answer.. :D
I love this forum! If I say something like that at home, about suddenly feeling a little paranoid, mum will either get either tired or all appologetic about it. Both don`t go in too well with me.
So, a nice straight forward "Chill down, girl" really made me smile.
Like I said, love this forum, though I have perhaps gotten wee bit too addicted to it.
You people are awesome.. Deeply troubled (humor), but awesome.. :D
(ChrystalR) QUOTE (IncognitoC @ Jun 16 2009, 07:00 AM) *
Hey everyone.
First of all, I want to tell all of you that reading your stories that I am humbled and encouraged by your strength and courageousness. I feel like my problems are so difficult to deal with and impacting my life so negatively, but so many of you have had such incredibly heartbreaking and devastating experiences with this horrible disease, and it is a testimate to the resilience and beauty of the human spirit in general, and of each of yours in particular. So stay strong, never quit fighting, and stay hopeful.
Really guys thanks so much for the posts. This forum helps more than therapy I think.
(IncognitoC) QUOTE (budfox @ Jun 15 2009, 11:13 AM) *
Hi Allovertheplace,
Thanks for the message. I can't get over how good people on this forum are. Have you noticed that on EVERY other internet forum all people want to seem to do is abuse each other (well maybe that's an exaggeration but there is a lot of it). I love that this forum is so unconditionally supportive.
( budfox ) QUOTE (DarkMatterz @ Jun 13 2009, 11:50 AM) *
I'm still in shock that there's more people out there like me, I'm thankful but I lack words mostly because I still don't know what to do about my own condition, I'm pretty much giving up on treatment, anxiety and insomnia abound. I read alot here but it's still difficult for me to post for some reason, I still feel alone, but thank you all for this forum, Dark
(DarkMatterz @ Jun 13 2009, 11:50 AM) QUOTE (MEZooKeeper @ Jun 12 2009, 11:50 PM) *
I'm just really glad I found this site!!! I think Depression Forums was listed as #1 on the page when I did my search on Google over 2 years ago.
MEZ
(MEZooKeeper @ Jun 12 2009, 11:50 PM) QUOTE (mysterygal1 @ Jun 11 2009, 10:03 AM) *
thank you guys for replying, people here seem so caring. i tried to get some advise from other sites and because i wasent depressed they were kinda rude. one site even deleted my threads . you guys rock!!
(mysterygal1 @ Jun 11 2009, 10:03 AM) QUOTE (Bogie @ Jun 10 2009, 05:51 AM) *
Hi,
I'm pretty sure that I frequented this site during my last run-in with depression. It was very helpful and supportive, and I appreciate it very much.
Something which I notice has changed about this site is the addition of blogs. Good idea. One of the most effective tools for me is writing, I'm looking forward to doing a bit of blogging here.
Peace,
Bogie
(Bogie @ Jun 10 2009, 05:51 AM) QUOTE (theizzo88 @ Jun 6 2009, 03:46 PM) *
hi. My doctor put me on citalopram 5 days ago. I feel I have gotten every side effect in the book. I have a bad headache, I stay up all night, my ears are ringing, i have a cramp in my calf, i have chest pain, and i get severe anxiety at night that causes me to not sleep. I contacted my doctor and he said try it for a few days. It is now saturday and my doctor will not be in his office till monday.
BTW, when i first experienced this i browsed through these forums and it really made me feel better, you guys are awesome.
(theizzo88 @ Jun 6 2009, 03:46 PM) QUOTE (strawberri_star @ Jun 5 2009, 10:41 AM) *
That is really helpful!!!! Thankyou! That may be part of it!
Gosh you people are smart!!!
I'm new here as well and was amazed at all the people. I hope you find the website as helpful as I am.
(strawberri_star @ Jun 5 2009, 10:41 AM) QUOTE (marymary @ Jun 5 2009, 10:10 AM) *
Hey Schopenhauered,
I can relate to a lot of what you've written...hating being alone but feeling unable to relate to people at the same time and isolating yourself... i think its a common feeling amongst depression sufferers. You will find some friends on here im sure...it is a great forum, and hopefully you will feel less isolated.
Take care
M x
(marymary @ Jun 5 2009, 10:10 AM) QUOTE (Maxgear @ Jun 5 2009, 04:43 PM) *
I like you just posted for the first time.
They have helped me....It is nice knowing that you have people who understand what is happening to you.
Untill I joined I have had 10 long horrible months thinking that I am alone.
I can say from experience that posting dose help.
I have taken all the advice on board and for the first time see a light....Its very dim and a far far far far away....But its a light.
Its better than going through it alone....Sure there isn't the physical contact but this form can point you in the right direction.
I have gone from someone that had no hope to someone who on Tuesday is admitting himself into hospital...I don't know what will happen....I am scared to death and so down on myself that i have come to this...But I received advice that hopefully will help me.....For the first time in 10 months !
I cant guarantee that you will find help...But the forum is a start and better than not saying anything at all.
Its just nice to know there are people that understand.
Good Luck.
Max.
(Maxgear) QUOTE (jrn81 @ Jun 4 2009, 12:24 AM) *
Hi All.
I appreciate all of the support that you have shown towards me. I am pleasantly surprised to here of how common it is to feel this way especially when living with mental illness. Since this past weekend I have been slowly coming out of the despair that I was feeling. I still feel the anxiety in the background, but it is now managable and interfering less with my ability to function, which is so very important to me and my life. I am thinking clearer as well, with the realization that there are many possitive things in my life and that maybe I can get through this as well. Once again, thank you all for your generous comments. Your words are reflective of how I am thinking and feeling at this moment. Please keep helping yourself and others through your words.
(jrn81 ) QUOTE (Samma_Bear @ Jun 3 2009, 04:58 PM) *
All my life, my mother always told me to have a open mind. Ever since I was little I always knew I could feel certain things around me but I never knew what it was. When I was younger, I always believe in angels and spirits, I believe there's certain energies all around us and it's helped me in my long journey of Depression. Last year I started reading about Wicca, Yoga, Ghosts, Meditating and books that would help me. These interests grew and grew inside of me, I'm always reading and learning about different religions and cultures, but I mostly read about spirituality. I also own a great amount of Cd's that are very soothing, I no longer listen to the music I used to listen to a year ago. There's still a few Rock Classics here and there around my house, but now I love music that involves, flutes, harp and nature sounding type of music. I've been listening to the cd for a about a week now and it's helping me keep my feet on the ground and not sitting in that dark hole I used to always sit in. On some days I do get in that dark hole but I believe that it's trying to take over me once again cause I'm so used to feeling that pain. For once I want to feel peaceful and surrounded with loving people who make me laugh, I no longer want to be around people who make me feel bad about myself. Each day that I read my books and listen to the music I've been listening too, I've realized that I've been reaching out to people and doing whatever I can to put a smile on peoples face. I respect all people and it doesn't matter to me what race, sex or what type of religion they believe in. I just love seeing people happy and whenever I see someone sitting alone and looking sad I always smile at them and ask them if there okay. In my heart I know there's a lot of people out there suffering, I know I can't help every single person I come across with but I always let them know if they need a helping hand, I'll be there to help them out. I love helping people and I believe in my heart that what I've been reading has really helped me out. I still get my bad days and I know what the pain feels like, when it does come back however I always come here cause this place is like my second home. I feel so welcomed here and I'm glad I always have a place to come too. happy.gif
(Samma_Bear) QUOTE (Klimt @ Jun 2 2009, 07:46 PM) *
I joined this forum because I wanted to feel normal, needed to be with people who understood and who were going through the same difficulties. I wanted insight into this illness and not be judged by it. I joined to check out if it was worth me carrying on with life. I have learned I am not alone and that it is definatley worth living as my thoughts are irrational and are not really "me".
I will admit I was worried at first about joining here, just because I was having to admit my feelings, and wondering if I would feel worse about myself. But it hasn't been like that at all. It's been a revelation, an eye-opener, a learning tool and the positive support, kindness and respect everyone shows is quite amazing.
Joining here has been the best thing for my depression. Thank you for this forum. wub.gif
(Klimt ) QUOTE (Gemini @ Jun 1 2009, 02:09 PM) *
Welcome to all the newbies....I am new myself but wanted to give a warm welcome that I got as well :)
(Gemini ) QUOTE (Gemini @ May 30 2009, 08:12 PM) *
I came to DF a while back but got side tracked. I have since come back because I lost my other forum that I was co-admin with my therapist on and after much searching and critiques, I think DF is the closest to what I want and need. It seems to have valuable information, caring members, compassionate people, active people but most of all understanding people. People who understand and don't judge is key and that is why of all the forums I have been checking out I believe DF to be the best one!!!!
(Gemini ) QUOTE (darcness @ May 30 2009, 07:15 PM) *
I'd love to thank everyone that has helped me out.
Pearl, you're kind words and caring personality are second to none.
mmoose, you're one of a kind, truly a shoot from the hip individual. Thank you for telling me like it is.
Arbs, your blogs are always a source of inspiration to me. Thanks for giving me hope.
Sindy, you're almost always the first to respond to my posts. Thank you so much for all the support.
Trace, you took time to PM and explain your situation to me. You're my shining light and some day I will join you in recovery.
Elise, PRT, and grace, all 3 of you are wonderful. You're my blog buddies and I enjoy the lovely comments you leave me.
I hope I haven't forgot anyone. This whole place is amazing and it's helped me so much. All the wonderful support and advice I get here really helps me understand myself in ways I never could before. Thank you ALL.
(darcness) QUOTE (ConfusedHusband @ May 30 2009, 11:03 AM) *
I just wanted to thank everyone here...
As bad as i am currently... I know if i did not have this place I would be so much worse. Atleast now I have an out for the thoughts racing through my head.
(ConfusedHusband ) QUOTE (Gisele @ May 30 2009, 01:56 PM) *
When I first came here about a year ago, Lambvet said something to me that I haven't forgotten. It is quite possibly the most meaningful thing a virtual stranger has ever said to me. Very few would ever be that daring.
His words certainly stood out across the whole forum, but it is that single thing that makes me especially grateful.
Thanks Wayne!
(Gisele) QUOTE (floydfan04240 @ May 29 2009, 11:26 PM) *
OMG You all have NO idea how much this thread means to me! I feel right now...I feel validated and real for once in my life! I feel like I understand everything now! I feel like I've figured it all out! I knew I was neglected...but I never knew how badly. This all makes SO much sense!! I'm just trying to survive and prevent further abandonment!! OMG this is SO significant!! Now I have something to work on in therapy! YAY!
~Amy.
(floydfan04240 ) QUOTE (Cash100 @ May 29 2009, 07:03 AM) *
You guys are awesome, thanks for the love! And for your congratulations! Very kindred souls here.
I'll go check out that password-protected room for those with substance issues. Maybe that could shed light on that part of it. I was thinking to go to the gym, either that or jogging, which I've done in the past. I know I feel better if I do.
I have heard of a free class offered for depression... another good suggestion. I suppose it is a day at a time. I feel much more up today than yesterday, probably because I had to be at work. Maybe it's best to stay busy through the week. My concern is how manic I am! Either down and immobolized or up and at 'em... all depends if I hit the first domino (get out of bed and go to work). I don't know if that's common... anyway I'm good for today and thanks for the love!
C
(Cash100 ) QUOTE (Plastic @ May 28 2009, 05:06 PM) *
So....I've been registered a while, but have always been lurking around, reading through the wealth of information on this forum, including the experiences and stories of other people.
Lindsay (admin girl)- Thanks for motivating me to post something!
(Plastic ) QUOTE (bbrian123 @ May 28 2009, 06:59 PM) *
I find that using this site has more benefits than draw backs. It can get you ruminating a bit, but there are people who will eventually reply with some thoughtful wisdom.
(bbrian123) QUOTE (AimeeLou84 @ May 28 2009, 11:01 AM) *
I've took some advice from this forum and I've made myself small goals for today.It's helping me so far. Thank you again for replying.Having people to talk to today is really helping.
(AimeeLou84) QUOTE (Bitterroot @ May 28 2009, 07:05 AM) *
I wanted to find people I could relate to. That had the same problems, fears, thoughts, experiences, stigmas . . .
I wanted company that didn't judge. I wanted understanding.
I think that here I have found those beautiful people.
(Bitterroot ) QUOTE (benderman @ May 28 2009, 09:49 AM) *
Thankyou PRT, everything has turned out really well and am happy again. Now that I have a somewhat positive attitude again, I can only hope and try harder not to let things go bad.
Thankyou everyone, all your support and help really made things alot more bearable knowing there is someone to help that will not judge me for what i say and ask.
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(benderman) QUOTE (bluecoyote @ May 28 2009, 04:10 AM) *
This forum is already proving to be a blessing for me.
(bluecoyote) QUOTE (benderman @ May 27 2009, 06:02 PM) *
Thank God for DF. I dont think I will be leaving anytime soon...
(benderman ) QUOTE (KatieCraig @ May 27 2009, 12:21 AM) *
Thankyou, I hope the college course will help to rebuild my confidence if nothing else. I feel so much better for having posted on here today, I know the problems don't go away magically but I feel less alone now.
(KatieCraig) QUOTE (sojo @ May 24 2009, 06:51 AM) *
found this place when I was researching antidepressants.
I'm glad I found this place, there is a lot of useful information.
(sojo) QUOTE (SECRETMIST @ May 26 2009, 03:02 AM) *
thank you all for your support and replies. this is a wonderful website and i think it helps a lot of people. you are all good people.
(SECRETMIST) QUOTE (teller10 @ May 25 2009, 07:31 PM) *
Hello All I am new to this forum and I have already read so much about all of you, I feel it is only fair I tell my story. I have been battling depression for the past 6 years now and have recently in the past month been diagnosed with major depression. I was referred to a psychologist and my first apt. is on Wednesday, ( and by the way I am so anxious about that). I am just coming off my first really bad experience with an AD pristiq. It was the worst three weeks I have had in a long time. I was agitated and weepy, sleepy and anxious, I had no concept of what a complete thought was. It was as if I was not taking any meds at all. So I finally talked myself into calling the doctor and letting her know that this just was not working out. See I always feel as if I am being a burden like everyone at the doctors is talking about me, like oh my gosh I can't believe she is calling again. So it took me a week and a half to even get the nerve to call but after freaking out on my husband for saying your crazy in a joking manner. I mean total freak out screaming crying all the works I figured I should call.
So here I am day 7 on cymbalta 30mg. I feel like I am making progress but definitely a slow one. I am waking up a lot during the night. I do have a different symptom I haven't heard anyone else speak of so Id really like to hear from some one if they do have this. Shortly after I take my pill my hands are tingly for a couple hours... anyone else???
I do want to thank everyone for this place of great information and experience!!!!!
(teller10 ) QUOTE (geerock @ May 25 2009, 07:52 PM) *
Hi, my name is geerock. This website has been such a huge help to me. Thank you to each and everyone of you. You are all so special!!!!
(geerock) QUOTE (sojo @ May 24 2009, 07:51 AM) *
found this place when I was researching antidepressants.
I'm glad I found this place, there is a lot of useful information.
(sojo) QUOTE (skeglegs11 @ May 22 2009, 09:21 AM) *
Hi, a very good friend sent me a link to this site and I can't believe how great this looks.
(skeglegs11) QUOTE (Animal Friend @ May 22 2009, 12:13 PM) *
All day yesterday I kept feeling like I did something wrong, just kind of worrying but not sure what that was about then I realized it was from my posting on here. I guess I never talk to anyone about what I'm going through and since I did open up some I felt like I did something that I wished I could take back (kinda like when you say something mean to someone then regret it later). But very late it the day I started to feel better about it. I'm still in a bad place but don't feel as hopeless. I do feel like it help me some to open up with my feelings on here. So thank you all for being here.
Thank you all again for your responses.
(Animal Friend) QUOTE (nixonpca @ May 22 2009, 06:46 AM) *
Thanks to everyone for your warm welcome and your sage advice. I look forward to the dialogue.
God bless,
Peter
(nixonpca) QUOTE (KateHopes @ May 20 2009, 09:28 PM) *
Thanks everyone,
I was quite beside myself when I wrote that post and your kind messages meant so much. After reading them I left immediately and took a night bus to my nearest hospital. After a couple of hours wait (bad but enough time for me to calm down) I spoke to a professional. The questions she asked were a little frustrating ("tell me about your family" etc) especially as I had calmed down and felt a little foolish but it was worth it to know I had support if I needed it and my outing was a welcome distraction.
So thank you again, whenever I feel low I'll check what you said.
As for the amateur psychology... sounds quite plausible. It definitely makes sense -there might be a potential career for you!
xxx
(KateHopes) QUOTE (~Helen~ @ May 20 2009, 02:48 PM) *
Thanks Elise.
Can I just thank you all again for your posts. I'm really touched that total strangers will jump in to support me like this. I can't tell you how grateful I am.
xxx
(~Helen~) QUOTE (jellybean27 @ May 20 2009, 03:59 AM) *
Thank You prt & sindy for responding big hugs to u 2!!!! I am doing better my dr didnt quite know what to say which was incredibly stressful but i took a xanix to calm myself down it helped but im still extremly anxious today very shaky & very moody which i hate & thats not me. Again thank you 2 for writting back this place is very calming for me Big Hugs!!!!XOXO console.gif hearthrob.gif
(jellybean27) QUOTE (cckp72 @ May 19 2009, 11:37 AM) *
I am new to registering here, but I have been lurking and reading all of the great wealth of information here.
(cckp72) QUOTE (Gareth @ May 16 2009, 08:38 PM) *
Since coming to this forum I now know what real friendship means. It is, however, unfortunate that it took me nearly a half a century to find out. People actually care how I'm doing. I hear from them. They write to me.
(Gareth) QUOTE (Liam_L @ May 16 2009, 03:38 PM) *
I was googling for information on Borderline Personality Disorder and DF came up in the results. I checked it out and i am so glad i did.
(Liam_L) QUOTE (Liam_L @ May 16 2009, 12:31 AM) *
I felt alone and like i was the the only person in my situation. But here i have found understanding, support and information. Thank you guys.
(Liam_L) QUOTE (depressed_guy86 @ May 15 2009, 01:03 AM) *
i stumbled on this site one day when i was feeling so down i could just call it quits, and i was just looking for some information on depression symptoms that were spelled out verbatum(SP) cause everything i found on the internet were long studies you had to read all the way through just to get what you needed, but when i started reading some of the posts it put me into a better mood and so far everyone on here has just been so nice and helpful when you need them i want to thank everyone in advance for all the advice i have recived and will recive thanks guy
hang in there
(depressed_guy86) QUOTE (InferiorZone @ May 13 2009, 10:26 PM) *
Thank you so much, I will take your advice. wub.gif
I like the way you were able to put things, it really did make me feel better.
I will be sure to come back and update!
Thank you everyone else for all your quick answers, I really didn't know people had gone through something similar to me.. I thought this was just some horrible problem I had. It makes me feel alot less alone.
Thank you everyone smile.gif
(InferiorZone ) QUOTE (Deepster @ May 13 2009, 07:19 PM) *
Glad you are here, too! This is a great forum, great members, great supporters, great Mods, and Great Admins. Took me a while to figure it all out....find my comfort zone here, and distinquish the rules that apply here that don't apply elsewhere(I get confused as to where I am easily...LOL).
I left a forum that became totally unruly, full of egos, closed community thinking, members bashing members, and Mods/Admins who declared open season on anyone declared "different", "questioning" beyond their ability to answer, and just a site of controversy. This DF suits me to a "T". Glad you've had the same experience here as me. I love this community!
Deepster
(Deepster) QUOTE (SpaceKadet @ May 13 2009, 11:36 AM) *
I think you are a fabulous husband - this is one of the most positive posts imaginable!
Living in Africa is fabulous for depression - we are only a few of us here from Africa! LOL
The sun is also very strong here, and some people reckon that light therapy is very good! LOL
OK, enough joking now.
If I can personally recommend any one action, which has helped me through the worst of my depressions, it has been to join an on-line support forum such as DF. There are many others, but in particular, DF is the best, with the widest variety of subjects and very knowledgable, caring people, who have all been through exactly what she is going through.
In a very similar way, where other recovering alcoholics understand exactly what it is all about, other depression sufferers understand what it is all about.
What I, personally like about an on-line forum is that it is anonymous, and I can really pour out my deepest feelings without having to look anyone in the eye. I am also not forced to attend a meeting, I can talk at any time. Further, in helping others, I also make myself feel better.
I sincerely hope to see your wife on line here with us in the introductions very, very soon - and a few of us invite her to South Africa as well! LOL
I shall forever tease you for that one!!!
Space
(SpaceKadet) QUOTE (tiredofthisfeeling1989 @ May 10 2009, 03:41 AM) *
Thanks, I'm glad to see that people care enough to keep replying :)
You guys are really encouraging. This is so hard, anxiety/depression is without a doubt the worst thing I've ever had to struggle through. You all give me hope of improvement :)
(tiredofthisfeeling1989) QUOTE (Samma_Bear @ May 9 2009, 04:39 PM) *
Thank you all for your posts. I feel very welcomed at this forum, thats why I continue to keep coming back.
(Samma_Bear) QUOTE (POPI @ May 8 2009, 07:25 PM) *
Hi Everyone,
I found this wonderful place while I was looking for information on Remeron. The support that is given here has made a huge difference in my understanding of my own situation, Thank you everyone!
(POPI @ May 8 2009, 07:25 PM) QUOTE (Alaris @ May 9 2009, 12:42 PM) *
About two years ago I discovered these forums in hopes that my cries for help would not fall on deaf ears, they didn't. And because of that, I was probably able to make it this far in life. Once while being apart of these forums I attempted suicide. I've attempted it a total of three times. Only once was I close to actually achieving my objective, but my life was saved. I discussed a lot of the pain I suffered to the DF community. I went back into the archives and read all my earlier posts on here and I was amazed. I almost completely forgot how much pain and suffering I went through. The scares in my mind remind me how real the past really is. I cried and I laughed at my posts. I'm not the same person anymore and some of the things I said then, I would never say now, like "wanting to bash my mother's head on the floor" or something and after reading similar posts, I moved on to the more depressing ones. And I remembered exactly how I felt when writing the things I did and I remembered why I wrote those things in the first place. I was just a young kid, I'm still pretty young, but still, it's so D*** heart breaking that someone had to go through that. I really was alone and helpless, but I soldiered on and tried so hard to put food on the table and just be the best that I can, despite my mother's efforts to hinder everything I do (Probably not maliciously, but at the time I wouldn't think so). The feelings I've expressed here were exclusive. I've never shared the things that have happened to me or how I've felt to anyone in my life, except for you guys (even to this day, you guys know more about my hardships then my closest friends). I'm not sure how or why that is, but it just is. This site gave me the strength to freely open myself and get the help and support that I needed, and because of that my life was probably saved. All I really needed was to have someone listen to me, because nobody listened to me at the time. I was just a stupid punk kid and nothing I did mattered and "I'd be fine".
So you're probably wondering where I stand now after more then two years have passed by. I won't bore you with many details, but in a nutshell my mother quit abusing drugs, I graduated high school, I live alone now in a beautiful home, my mother moved in with her BF of two years, they're both happy together, I got a new car and most importantly I'm so close to fulfilling one dream I've had since I was a little child. I've always wanted to make movies and I'm writing a screenplay (it's close to being finished) and when it's done, I'm going to pitch it to production companies or directors in L.A. maybe this month, or next. I'm also happier then ever and healthier then ever. My physique is great and my attitude in life is a thousand times more positive. As a matter of fact, it's the complete opposite of 2007.
Although things are great now, the road to happiness was a rough one. I was paralyzed at one point, I also got into a horrible accident last year, flipping my car twice, and all sorts of issues with my father (I've always had daddy issues, even to this day I still do, but that's another thread), but I still carried on. Sometimes I think how different things would be if I never would have discovered DF. I honestly think things would be worse or no better if it wasn't for you guys. The amount of love that you guys bestow upon guests and current members is just too lovely to describe. And because of that love, I just wanted to say thank you. The human heart has the capacity to do such great things and this site is a testament to that statement. I really do love you guys for the wonderful things you've said to help me. And I know it's been more then two years, but I swear to god the DF community has never been far from my thoughts. Some of the posts I've responded too are still engraved in my mind. Every night I'd always pray that we'd all find happiness, love, acceptance, peace, and anything else. And probably a few years from now, other members will resurface to tell their tale of triumph and victory over life's brutal obstacles. And you new members, I hope you find solace in life the way I have, but it takes time for things to get better. Even now, I'm not 100%. I'm still healing and restitching the wounds in my heart.
(Alaris @ May 9 2009, 12:42 PM) QUOTE (solaceseeker @ May 7 2009, 02:07 PM) *
I noticed how expanded your site is. It's truly wonderful-so many topics and that's helpful.
I was looking for a depression forum to find some comfort and just relax and gain some
much needed support. The deaths of some friends, general relationship stuff, and not
knowing which way to turn next off and on is really why I was looking for a place of
support. It's good to know these places online exist and there are people around who
may have similar issues that can maybe relate to how your feeling.
(solaceseeker ) QUOTE (Anxious Annie @ May 5 2009, 08:20 PM) *
Thanks for all the well wishes. If Karma is true...may the good luck and hope you all gave me come right back to you all. smile.gif
(Anxious Annie) QUOTE (SummersOblivion @ May 5 2009, 04:59 PM) *
Thank you for the support.
I'm glad I did write that
I honestly thought no one cared.
Thanks for proving me wrong.
Any advice on how to
tell
my
parents?
(I'm 15)
(SummersOblivion ) QUOTE (KayteeRay128 @ May 5 2009, 04:28 AM) *
I appreciate it too. Although this is only my second day here; I do thank you for the support and thoughts. For the longest time I've been trying to understand what I'm going through and none of my friends are dealing anything like I am - so its been a relief for me to see that I am not alone in this battle. Thank you!!!!!
(KayteeRay128 ) QUOTE (hope65 @ May 4 2009, 12:30 PM) *
My intention today is to focus on what I do accomplish and what is positive and not what will still take another year or two. I love this forum and these posts. They have really helped me. smile.gif
(hope65) QUOTE (notnowjane @ May 3 2009, 05:49 PM) *
I just wanted to thank you both for your kind and thoughtful comments. I know that I am not alone in my grief and that is a great comfort. What is so sad about losing a baby is losing all of the hopes and dreams you had for the little one that will never be realized. It's only been a month and a couple of days since this happened and right now my whole world is upside down. I am glad to know there are caring people who are willing to listen. Thank you.
(notnowjane) QUOTE (no_joke @ May 1 2009, 07:18 AM) *
Hi Fellow bloggers
It's been a while. The one thing I like about DF is that even if you can't blog your opinion on CNN, you can vent here!! That's an awesome feat if you ask me. I've had a frustrating and trying day today. But what is sobering, is reading blogs from other DF bloggers that are having a difficult time and some are experiencing suicidal tendecies. Whenever I hear news stories about youngster resorting to suicide after being bullied and harrassed, I'm reminded that life is still worth living. Even though it is rarely fair, it's still precious and if we "check out" imagine what we'd miss. I'd miss seeing my daughter get married. Seeimg her have kids and make me a "nana". Being there if life drops a bomb and she has to find the strength to go on. The media was making such a stir about Michell Obama's fashion sense. I'd rather see them comment on how she and Barack inspire us to make a difference in another person's life!! Isn't that a lot more important???? It is to me. I'm doing charity work through my church and am making quilts to give to the poor. I can't afford J Crew coordinates, but I can do for the less fortunate. I'm not in the limelight by any means. But I'm working deligently in the wings for those that are counting on me to do the right thing. Thanks for lifting me up when those around me are losing their heads......
(no_joke) QUOTE (Zip @ May 1 2009, 02:10 AM) *
I found DF because I was lonely, depressed, and needed someone to talk to- someone who wouldn't make snap-judgements on me. I enjoy that I'm able to talk to others who are in the same situation I'm in; it's nice to be able to relate to others and to talk about my emotions, instead of keeping them all bottled up inside. DF helps me do that.
(Zip) QUOTE (chasing_shadows @ Apr 29 2009, 05:37 PM) *
Thank you all for replying. I no longer feel like I am the only one out there. Also you have posed a few questions which are options that I have not thought about.
Thank you. :-)
(chasing_shadows ) QUOTE (LandonJames @ Apr 29 2009, 08:48 AM) *
Hi everyone! My name is Landon! Obviously! I'm 20 years old and am on the uphill climb of beating depression! I can see the top! I am here for support and advice because at this point in my life I feel very alone and de-friended. I lost my first love of 4 years and pretty much haven't been the same since. I've suffered depression since I was 15 but this is w hen it all really became detrimental to my health. I am trying Wellbutrin XL and it seems to really be helping. I went out of my house tonight for the first time in weeks and saw a play i wanted to see. can't tell you how good that felt! Well, I hope to get to know all of you and I love there's a GLBT part of this Forum it really makes me feel comfortable!
Thanks in advance for all the love and support I believe I can get from this and reciprocate back to my community.
(LandonJames ) QUOTE (gaugreg1x @ Apr 28 2009, 07:07 PM) *
taz.gif
I am on several mental health websites. This (depression forums.org) site is by far has the most traffic and forum postings. The layout--subject categories-- here are the most extensive and logical . The postings here are also not littered with inappropriate language as they are on some sites .
No, I do not own any part of DepressionForums .
Greg
( gaugreg1x ) QUOTE (redrose @ Apr 29 2009, 01:24 AM) *
Ive been looking for a support group for 3mnths because my anxiety symtoms were scaring me!!! I wanted to relate and hear somebody say I feel the same way u do...It just scares me to know so many younger generation are depressed..I have sons who i pray do not experience my d/anx..Thak-god for this site
(redrose) QUOTE (NinjaSwan @ Apr 27 2009, 11:14 PM) *
Thank you all so much for the replies. The fact that their are people out there supportive as you all seems to make the battle a lot easier- I felt like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders today laugh.gif
(NinjaSwan) QUOTE (Xephon @ Apr 26 2009, 08:28 PM) *
Dear Depression Forum Friends,
I'm writing this to let you know what I've been up to, and to Thank you for your support when I've been down. I feel like I am letting DF down by not being around as much as I once was. I'd like any DF members to feel free to PM me if you need to share or someone to talk to.
Once things settle down in my life I will be able to spend more time here. Hopefully soon.
Thanks for reading. Thanks for all your support. I wish you the best in your struggles. Feel free to PM me always. I will be back more regularly soon.
This forum has given me hope in some of my darkest moments. A profound Thank you to you all.
Best,
Xephon
(Xephon ) QUOTE (Skooter27 @ Apr 25 2009, 01:53 AM) *
Thanks everyone for your input, that makes a whole lot of sense. I have already recommended this forum. I know you all have been helpful to me, so I know you will help him out. Well, I guess I will talk to you all later. PEACE OUT!
Skooter
(Skooter27 ) QUOTE (darcness @ Apr 25 2009, 11:18 PM) *
This thread right here is what makes DF so great. Amazing people and such great information. I love it here.
Kudos to all for a wonderful, inspiring thread.
OP: I hope you're feeling a bit better now. Sometimes just talking things out, even on the internet, can do wonders to calm a hostile mind.
(darcness) QUOTE (gaugreg1x @ Apr 25 2009, 11:11 PM) *
welcomeani.gif Hello Jay. Fellow GADer here (no panic though) This is a great community and definitely not anti-meds . Lots of traffic at this site, far more than any of the other sites I have been to. There is a GAD topic in the Anxiety Area.
Greg
(gaugreg1x ) QUOTE (bbrian123 @ Apr 25 2009, 01:04 AM) *
This is a great forum. I haven't been on for over a year and I've been feeling lost/down/confused as I haven't been for a while. I read some of my posts from 2 years ago and I AM DOING THE SAME THINGS as I always did. This is not good in my opinion. Everyone here is great and this is a great site to get a little perspective. I should have logged on long ago.
(bbrian123 ) QUOTE (saibhakt @ Apr 24 2009, 05:18 PM) *
Hello all,
Im new to the group, and let me just say what a fantastic idea it is and congrats to all the people who made it. thankyou
(saibhakt ) QUOTE (trupolew @ Apr 23 2009, 01:31 PM) *
I truly appreciate the founders of this site. I wish I had known about you a lot earlier.
(trupolew @ Apr 23 2009, 01:31 PM) QUOTE (jamesp @ Apr 23 2009, 12:05 AM) *
Hello All,
Just thought I would share my story since I already read a lot of yours. This forum is very inspirational!
(jamesp @ Apr 23 2009, 12:05 AM) QUOTE (spouse @ Apr 22 2009, 08:12 AM) *
I myself am a newbie in this forum, and frankly very naive about depression. However I am making leaps and bounds learning by being involved in this forum and getting support from all the wonderful people here. My wife and son took off on a springbreak trip when I first joined this forum last week. They are coming back tonight. However this break gave me time to learn about depression, reflect on my own self as well as face some sadness (trigger is not knowing if my family will get back together) . I had not been sad like this for 20 years, and now I remember how it feels. Regarding my relationship with my family, I look forward to deal with it when they get back. I feel more at peace than before I discovered this forum. There is a lot of help here and I hope you can find support here as well. Feel free to write me as well if you think this helps. My new journey is about to start.
S.
(spouse @ Apr 22 2009, 08:12 AM) QUOTE (Sylar @ Apr 21 2009, 05:46 PM) *
I'm here because I needed to know I am not the only one. So far in my few days of being around I feel safe and that I'm surrounded by understanding people, unlike most I encounter in real life.
(Sylar @ Apr 21 2009, 05:46 PM) QUOTE (Sylar @ Apr 21 2009, 05:46 PM) *
I'm here because I needed to know I am not the only one. So far in my few days of being around I feel safe and that I'm surrounded by understanding people, unlike most I encounter in real life.
(Sylar @ Apr 21 2009, 05:46 PM) QUOTE (cinderbelle @ Apr 18 2009, 08:08 PM) *
hi everyone,
i just wanted to take the time and thank everyone that helped me a couple of weeks ago before i went into hospital. u took the time to talk to me and listen to what i had to say, i think use got me thru those dreadfull days.
so thank you i dont think i would be here if it wasnt for use,
also the spell in hospital and new meds have made a little bit of a differance.
how r u all?
steph
x
(cinderbelle @ Apr 18 2009, 08:08 PM) (Pat1138 @ Apr 18 2009, 11:10 PM) *
I was all freaked out about Zoloft side effects. I've never taken a pill like Zoloft before, so I had a lot of questions and I was looking for people who were going through, or went through, the same thing as me. I did a bunch of searches online and came across this forum, and I'm so happy that I did. smile.gif
(Pat1138 @ Apr 18 2009, 11:10 PM) QUOTE (ASP @ Apr 17 2009, 04:34 AM) *
Which brings me to why I'm here. Besides feeling like the admins are genuinely caring and knowledgeable, I want to also give something, maybe make a difference in someone else's life who has been convinced that a better life is not possible. I like to give more of my attention to the solution than the problem. I know what it's like to be completely alone and desperate, with nothing to grab at. But I also know it's possible to face the absurdity with courage, and to create a ladder for yourself where none exists; ex nihilo. Don't ever give up. Thanks for reading.
(ASP @ Apr 17 2009, 04:34 AM) QUOTE (darcness @ Apr 16 2009, 03:06 AM) *
So many people with such a great attitude despite the problems they may have. Thank you. Thank you so much. I really needed that right now.
I love this place.
(darcness @ Apr 16 2009, 03:06 AM) (lonleysindy @ Apr 14 2009, 10:55 PM) *
hearts.gif I just want to thank Lindsay for this site, all the Mod's and everyone else on here. If it wasn' for DF I probably would be in the hospital, or worse. Thanks everyone and (((hugs))) hearts.gif
((lonleysindy @ Apr 14 2009, 10:55 PM) QUOTE (darcness @ Apr 15 2009, 04:21 AM) *
Well, how to start...
I'm sure some of you have read my stories here on the forums. I'm a rather new member, but I feel extremely grateful that I found this wonderful place. I've found people who share experiences, lend support, or just listen to me rant all in the short couple weeks since I joined.
(darcness @ Apr 15 2009, 04:21 AM) (gerbil @ Apr 13 2009, 11:26 AM) *
DFs has been a comfort. Knowing its here, a community that understands what the Glum can be like. I joined so that I would have somewhere to turn when I became aware a Glum was on the way. Unfortunately, often by the time I realise its coming on I've left it too late. Silly boy. And I just hunker down and ride it out best I can.
(gerbil @ Apr 13 2009, 11:26 AM) QUOTE (VonKant @ Apr 11 2009, 09:43 PM) *
thanky for your kind words and support. yesterday, after joining this forum, i was reading other posts and comments and i really felt that im not alone. for the first time after months, i felt that there's HOPE!
(VonKant @ Apr 11 2009, 09:43 PM) QUOTE (Samma_Bear @ Apr 8 2009, 06:21 PM) *
Thank you all for your support. This has been the friendliest forum I came about and each time I post here I always get a lot of support from people who know how I feel. It makes me feel good cause on days where I'm bad, I post here and by the end up the day I'm happy cause I don't feel quite as alone anymore. Before I used to think I was the only one who felt like this, but now I know how there's so many people out there in the world who also suffer... which makes me sad. I'm just glad I found a place that I can go too whenever I'm feeling very low.
(Samma_Bear @ Apr 8 2009, 06:21 PM) QUOTE (old friend @ Apr 8 2009, 06:16 AM) *
Thank you! I'm lost for words, so many kind people here at DF, it is really a nice forum to be part of! Although people are physically a long way apart, there is the sense of family closeness.
(old friend @ Apr 8 2009, 06:16 AM) QUOTE (Caamora @ Apr 7 2009, 05:47 PM) *
I appreciate all the responses. It has given me a lot to think about - thanks for being welcoming and supporting.
(Caamora @ Apr 7 2009, 05:47 PM) QUOTE (Blue Crescent Moon @ Apr 6 2009, 01:51 AM) *
Thank you all so, so, so, so, so much!
I feel so much better after getting that all out.
I am in therapy, but my therapist can only talk to me once a week. A one-week-session can't help me all the time, although it's always nice to have someone listen. I'm so grateful to everyone at this site.
Thank you again.
(Blue Crescent Moon @ Apr 6 2009, 01:51 AM) QUOTE (Blue Crescent Moon @ Apr 6 2009, 01:51 AM) *
Thank you all so, so, so, so, so much!
I feel so much better after getting that all out.
I am in therapy, but my therapist can only talk to me once a week. A one-week-session can't help me all the time, although it's always nice to have someone listen. I'm so grateful to everyone at this site.
Thank you again.
(Blue Crescent Moon @ Apr 6 2009, 01:51 AM) QUOTE (whimpy2 @ Apr 5 2009, 09:57 PM) *
Great posts here just wanted to say I am glad you are here and a hello. This forum has helped me out many times.
(whimpy2 @ Apr 5 2009, 09:57 PM) QUOTE (rue flower @ Apr 5 2009, 04:52 PM) *
Hello. I'm here because a friend of mine mentioned this place. It's huge! I'm a member of several other boards that are no-where near this big! It's going to take some time to look around.
Anyway, hello all. roll2.gif
(rue flower @ Apr 5 2009, 04:52 PM) QUOTE (Violet0371 @ Apr 4 2009, 11:47 AM) *
This seems like a very supportive and informative forum and hope to check out a few other topic areas as well. Hugs!
(Violet0371 @ Apr 4 2009, 11:47 AM) QUOTE (Blue Crescent Moon @ Apr 4 2009, 03:43 AM) *
Hello. I want to let you know that I appreciate everything you stand for here, and although I'm unsure how long my stay will be, I hope to make some new friends along the way.
Thanks.
(Blue Crescent Moon @ Apr 4 2009, 03:43 AM) QUOTE (chels_barb @ Apr 3 2009, 06:03 PM) *
Thanks for all your support, this forum is such a life saver (literally)
(chels_barb @ Apr 3 2009, 06:03 PM) QUOTE (no_joke @ Apr 3 2009, 09:49 AM) *
Thank God there's a place to go where we can chat and be listened to. Thx DF. What would we do without you???
no_joke
(no_joke @ Apr 3 2009, 09:49 AM) QUOTE (Wilson @ Apr 3 2009, 02:15 AM) *
Thanks guys, i'm calling my dad and going to ask him if he can take me to someone. This really helps.
(Wilson @ Apr 3 2009, 02:15 AM) QUOTE (faerie @ Apr 2 2009, 04:31 PM) *
today Im thankful for........
My hubba as always
my friend james who shaves my head for free and makes me laugh
This place, this forum and all the amazing brave people that come on here and open their hearts and are ready with help and support. Hugs to all..............* Faerie heads to the bakery to get cup cakes for all!!!!!!*
(aerie @ Apr 2 2009, 04:31 PM) QUOTE (faerie @ Apr 1 2009, 10:42 PM) *
I tell you something sweetheart, being on here has helped me more than words can say.
(faerie @ Apr 1 2009, 10:42 PM) QUOTE (Senbillshere @ Apr 1 2009, 05:18 AM) *
Yeah, same here. I wanna thank you guys for helping me out through this. It's been hard, very hard and may continue to be hard. But at least there are some good times to be had once and awhile.
(Senbillshere @ Apr 1 2009, 05:18 AM) QUOTE (lonleysindy @ Apr 1 2009, 06:32 PM) *
I am thankful that i made it through yesterday and today is a new day.
I am thankful i got my cheque today and bought some food yay.gif
mostly i am thankful i found this site and all the wonderful helpful people here
(lonleysindy @ Apr 1 2009, 06:32 PM) QUOTE (loves tattoos @ Mar 31 2009, 05:11 AM) *
hay yall i feel alot better right now dont know why but i just do but this forum has helped me alot so thanks to you all and i will be coming back here when ever i need some help
(loves tattoos @ Mar 31 2009, 05:11 AM) QUOTE (MACKAZ @ Mar 30 2009, 10:15 AM) *
Googled dysthymia and you popped up. Excellent forum and a great way to vent....
(MACKAZ @ Mar 30 2009, 10:15 AM) QUOTE (157757 @ Mar 28 2009, 03:09 PM) *
thanks
it's cool that there are supportive people here
it means a lot to me
(157757 @ Mar 28 2009, 03:09 PM) QUOTE (Melrudin @ Mar 28 2009, 09:53 AM) *
Yeah, I'd really love to thank everyone who made this forum! ^_^ I haven't been on it for long (only joined a couple days ago and was lurking for about a week), but it's been really helpful for me in the past week. It's really nice being able to join a forum (and an active one at that!) with people who understand what each other are going through and can help each other through it. It's a really great community to be a part of!
(Melrudin @ Mar 28 2009, 09:53 AM) QUOTE (matt85 @ Mar 28 2009, 05:59 AM) *
i found this place by searching for forums where i can be myself and let out my not so good emotions. Sometimes just knowing that some1 else is going through the same s*** can make me feel better. Everyone in here seems to be there for each other so i really appreciate this site.
(matt85 @ Mar 28 2009, 05:59 AM) QUOTE (hoolio1978 @ Mar 26 2009, 03:02 PM) *
I wasn't actually looking for a "depression forum". I was using google to find information on the meds I had been prescribed by my doctor for depression and insomnia. My search brought up one of the discussion boards. I found that board (and others on here) so useful that I signed up.
Love this site and glad I found it! It helps to know that others share the same feelings, fears, experiences etc. and to know that you are not alone and that it is ok to talk about it! Thanks for a great site!
(hoolio1978 @ Mar 26 2009, 03:02 PM) QUOTE (hoolio1978 @ Mar 25 2009, 06:25 AM) *
ooops. Posted a few replies elsewhere already. Didn't realize I was supposed to start here. Either way, glad I found this site, have already found some very useful information! Thanks!
(hoolio1978 @ Mar 25 2009, 06:25 AM) Okay I realise I'm now about to sound like teacher's pet here but I want to say this publicly. DF is a great resource and a lot of that is down to fact that it's very well run. The longer I'm here the more I'm grasping that the rules and guidelines aren't arbitary, they're there for a good reason. It's to make DF a safe place for all of us and some of us are very vulnerable. We need protecting.
I think the mods and admins sometimes have a tough job to do. It can't be easy being the 'bad guy' sometimes. But I really appreciate the fact that they do that, they put the work in, keep an eye on things, make sure DF stays safe for us all.
So public acknowledgement for the people who run DF!!!
Elise
(QUOTE (Elise @ Mar 22 2009, 01:14 PM) *) QUOTE (Ide1023 @ Mar 16 2009, 04:56 PM) *
I just wanted to take a moment and thank all of you for your suggestions and kind words of support. As you've read above, I am married to a miraculous man, and I will do whatever I can to make things better for him, and for me, for the rest of our lives. I have no illusions that it will be easy, but I have every hope that it will be okay.
Thank you all, again. I'm so glad this forum is here
(Ide1023 @ Mar 16 2009, 04:56 PM) QUOTE (Sul @ Mar 14 2009, 04:50 AM) *
thanks, everyone! input like this really seems to help sooth me and calm my frantic alwaysover thinking head!
(Sul @ Mar 14 2009, 04:50 AM) QUOTE (anglcsprt @ Mar 13 2009, 09:26 PM) *
I am very thankful to the individuals who are responsible for creating this forum and those that help to keep it going. That includes the moderator, administrators, and all the wonderful individuals for their postings and sharing their stories. This forum is very special, because it addresses so many avenues of what people are going through, have been through, or are experiencing due to someone close to them. Thank you to all for making this a place of safety, knowledge, and love through sharing!! (warm smile)
Hugs ~ Angel innocent.gif
(anglcsprt @ Mar 13 2009, 09:26 PM) Hi, I am new to this site, but not at all new to forums. I have been on a few depression forums in the past and it seems that unfortunately the sites do not last, so I pretty much gave up on this type of forum. When I found this site via Google, I was impressed with both what I saw in content on the site as well as the age of the site, so I feel my fears in letting it all out in time will not just end up out there in cyberspace somewhere like it has in the past. I have a good feeling about the site in general as well as the members. Good to meet you and I look forward to getting to know you.
(Traci @ Mar 11 2009, 10:06 PM) Thank you sooo much. I happened upon this forum by accident........ I just googled depression. I really need these kind words. You have no idea how much this means to me. If if this comes from a forum.........this is sooo helpful. I'm so sad right now.
(Lonely713 @ Mar 11 2009, 05:07 AM) i want to say thank you to everybody on here for the help and support. This place is my bible, though at times incredibly upsetting, it really has given me strength, and along with the support of the staff at this hospital and family and friends, for the first time in years i don't want to die and want to fight for my sanity! I'm quite depressed as i write this, i have a bad ear infection(i'm always ill) and physical illness always depresses me. But i still see light at the end of tunnel. Long way to go and set backs will be a many, but life isn't so bleak. Thank you so much everybody, you've restored my faith in humanity.
(razzorx @ Mar 9 2009, 12:37 PM) I think this webite is wonderful and the people are wonderful. It takes alot to talk to strangers about our weakness. I have read many of the postings from everyone and I guess I always felt I was in this alone. Thank You for letting me know I'm not.
Thank You all so very much. Simon512
(Simon512 @ Mar 8 2009, 08:15 PM) It makes one realise when viewing forums such as these just how many people are suffering psychologically and emotionally. Are these people just the tip of the iceberg? I often wonder as I walk around a city and look at the faces of people as they pass what is going on behind the mask we call a face. It is such a shame that although we are surrounded by people, so many of us feel alone. When I am feeling disillusioned about life I remind myself that people do care as evidenced by this forum. Many thanks.
(griffonite @ Mar 6 2009, 09:14 PM) felt good to admit to the doc , she has told me to make an appointment at the drug clinic again which i did on friday . they dont have any body there at present that deals with stimulent abuse so im not sure who i will be seeing . my app. is wed 2pm my friend who also suffers from addiction is going to meet me after my session i think i will need a a shoulder if its anything like last time , thanks for your support bow.gif
(aisha @ Mar 1 2009, 09:48 PM) QUOTE (nvf1978 @ Feb 26 2009, 03:05 AM) *
thank you this site helps me to know that i am not alone.
(nvf1978 @ Feb 26 2009, 03:05 AM) QUOTE (Jay4444 @ Feb 22 2009, 09:45 PM) *
Yeah me too. :) This board has helped a TON in only the 2 days I've been on, and it's just the very simple, but powerful, "you're not alone" that does it. I've also learned a lot too.
Lately I've learned that violent thoughts in my head don't make me a psycho, I'm not the only one who feels like a fraud at work, and my deteriorating focus and short-term memory are more than likely attributed to my depression and not a sign that my brain is going stale or something.
This board is going to make a big difference in my life.
(Jay4444 @ Feb 22 2009, 09:45 PM) QUOTE (concernedmommy @ Feb 23 2009, 07:22 AM) *
I'm hoping that putting everybody's thoughts, opinions and advice together will help me to help my daughter. It certainly helps me consider all angles, and helps me open my mind to ideas I wouldn't have otherwise considered.
Thank you, everyone, for your support! It means the world to me.
(concernedmommy @ Feb 23 2009, 07:22 AM) Dear Trace,
Thanks for your your speedy assistance. I appreciate it greatly. It has been a profound help to me to be a part of this forum. I wish I could help the other forum members as much as so many of them, you included have helped me. I find this to be such a great resource and a refuge for when no one else can understand.
Best,
Xephon
(Xephon @ Feb 20 2009, 05:42 AM ) QUOTE (shio @ Feb 20 2009, 09:53 PM) *
I wanted to go to a place where someone would listen to me indiscriminately. A place where i could let it all out without facing/hearing any judgement. Trying to make my mother understand was near impossible, her answer was always,"take your pills."
Finding this website the DF was like a prayer that was answered. The moderators and members are very supportive, understanding and most of all... caring.
It's a great place!!, everyone's like a best friend smile.gif
(shio @ Feb 20 2009, 09:53 PM) QUOTE (freeatlast2 @ Feb 20 2009, 11:55 AM) *
I've read alot already and like the general tone of this board. Years ago I was not as fortunate when I tried another board. You couldn't "really" say what you thought....and "God" was off limits!
Thank you.
(freeatlast2 @ Feb 20 2009, 11:55 AM) QUOTE (rolltide332 @ Feb 20 2009, 11:26 AM) *
This a really good forum, thanks for the help in advance. Keep it up guys
(rolltide332 @ Feb 20 2009, 11:26 AM) QUOTE (S&D @ Feb 20 2009, 02:34 AM) *
Thank you guys for the advice! I'm going to make an appointment with a psychiatrist to get some of my meds worked out, hopefully get something for my anxiety too. I love this forum smile.gif
(S&D @ Feb 20 2009, 02:34 AM) UOTE (cs0227145 @ Feb 20 2009, 12:17 AM) *
thank you so much for your kind words, it feels very nice to find a common ground....:) you really have helped me more than you will ever understand...and for that...god bless you...
(cs0227145 @ Feb 20 2009, 12:17 AM) QUOTE (pixma1912 @ Feb 19 2009, 06:24 AM) *
Hi,
Thanks for all your kind words & encouragement, I'm deeply touched.
(pixma1912 @ Feb 19 2009, 06:24 AM) QUOTE
Nice site just what i've been looking for!
(tiki_tiki @ Feb 19 2009,1:01 AM) QUOTE (dazdnconfuzd29 @ Feb 17 2009, 08:02 PM) *
hello my fellows :) i've never posted in a forum before so i'm sorry if this is the wrong place :/
i'm 16 years old/female and i have severe depression, several anxiety disorders and an eating disorder :/ and i severely need support right now, i feel as if i don't find it there won't be much hope for me left. i have this need for someone to just understand these problems... and i have these weird fears and thoughts and i'm terrified of having anxiety episodes. and my depression is intensely resisting treatment. :/ its awful. but i feel like this is a great place to be and eveyone seems incredibly sweet and kind here. i hope that i can find help here and be a help to anyone who may need me as well. i love you all already. i hope everyone gets through another day. i have faith in you all :)
-Kate
(dazdnconfuzd29 @ Feb 17 2009, 08:02 PM) QUOTE (jon_doe @ Feb 17 2009, 05:03 AM) *
just to let everyone know, i'm doing a lot better than this morning. i called a crisis hotline and chatted with them for a while, plus i called my last psychiatrist and told him how i was feeling. he said i should go to the hospital and try to get my meds changed. i think i'm doing okay for now but if the feelings get worse i will go. thanks for all the advice, i greatly appreciate it.
(jon_doe @ Feb 17 2009, 05:03 AM) QUOTE (Amso @ Feb 14 2009, 05:04 AM) *
I'm hoping this forum does me some good. Thanks to the creators for making it.
(Amso @ Feb 14 2009, 05:04 AM) QUOTE (mjk5309 @ Feb 13 2009, 09:15 AM) *
everyone is so supportive and intuitive, that is so helpful when you have the coping skills to get through things they jsut needs reinforced sometimes by an outside source. like this right here, so thanks again wub.gif
megan
(mjk5309 @ Feb 13 2009, 09:15 AM) QUOTE (Lady Mozzer @ Feb 13 2009, 12:24 PM) *
Thank You Burgy,livingwithBPD,Trace and Mercury and gentle sun.Thank you very much for all of your support.I really needed it.Thank you again.
Lady Mozzer
(Lady Mozzer @ Feb 13 2009, 12:24 PM) QUOTE (InferiorZone @ Feb 13 2009, 01:25 AM) *
Thank you everyone for all the kind words and advice. I promise to be sure to come back and update.
I'm starting to feel alot more welcome in this community each day.
THANK YOU EVERYONE, once again. wub.gif
(InferiorZone @ Feb 13 2009, 01:25 AM) QUOTE (MelancholicGuy @ Feb 12 2009, 09:35 PM) *
I'd like to thank the people on this forum from the bottom of my heart, you guys gave me courage, you showed me there is hope, and that I am not alone. I'm finally coming out of the closet about my depression and seeking help. I wouldnt have made this step without all the awesome people on here.
(MelancholicGuy @ Feb 12 2009, 09:35 PM) QUOTE (jodieandvee @ Feb 11 2009, 05:52 AM) *
Hello Everyone. My name is Jodie and this is my first time here. I suffer from depression, anxiety attacks as well as panic attacks. This website was heaven sent because it kind of just popped up on me. I'm hoping that here I can get help and also help others. Even when I do get better, I will continue to post here and help all of you. One thing I want to say is that we WILL get better! It may take some time but we will succeed! Stay strong and do whatever is neccissary to helpyourself. We Can do it
(jodieandvee @ Feb 11 2009, 05:52 AM) QUOTE (randomfish @ Feb 9 2009, 06:45 PM) *
i had never realised what the portal was, my favourites were set to take me straight to the forums. but now that i have seen the good stuff at the portal i will change my settings i think so that i will visit there first. i also just love the word 'portal' it sounds so futuristic.
(randomfish @ Feb 9 2009, 06:45 PM) QUOTE (Berserker13 @ Feb 7 2009, 04:17 PM) *
Thanks everyone! I'm glad I stumbled across this forum.
(Berserker13 @ Feb 7 2009, 04:17 PM) QUOTE (timebomb3210 @ Feb 6 2009, 09:15 AM) *
I am glad to be a part of this program and value the people who started the site. I hope that everyone will receive the support and truth that you deserve. I want to greatly contribute to helping others and also being helped.
(timebomb3210 @ Feb 6 2009, 09:15 AM) QUOTE (JJ67 @ Feb 5 2009, 11:11 PM) *
Thank you for this forum as well. I am learning so much about meds and things. It's nice to have a place to voice concerns with people who truly understand. Thank you again!!!
(JJ67 @ Feb 5 2009, 11:11 PM) QUOTE (Pompous @ Feb 6 2009, 03:42 AM) *
Thanks for the help/support, Trace, much appreciated.
(Pompous @ Feb 6 2009, 03:42 AM) QUOTE (randomfish @ Feb 4 2009, 03:34 PM) *
i love this place and i have found so much help, love and support that it has really helped me get through some very difficult times recently.
whenever you want to talk there are always people here ready to listen.
(randomfish @ Feb 4 2009, 03:34 PM) QUOTE (coltsfan1218 @ Feb 3 2009, 08:08 PM) *
Wow, that is amazing in itself that I already had people reply to my post. This is so all new to me and I'm excited about this site!
(coltsfan1218 @ Feb 3 2009, 08:08 PM) QUOTE (coltsfan1218 @ Feb 3 2009, 07:50 PM) *
I am amazed at this site! Not so sure I am ready to talk about all my problems at this point in time but I can really feel the love and devotion people have on this site.
(coltsfan1218 @ Feb 3 2009, 07:50 PM) QUOTE (sinead05 @ Feb 2 2009, 03:10 PM) *
I am grateful for:
-God: my faith plays an integral role in my life. His unconditional love keeps me strong.
-That my dad is still alive: Every moment we have together is treasured.
-My family
-My close friends.
-The ability to love & give love.
-My friends-both online & in real life.
-This beautiful place we all call DF!
-the opportunities to experience life.
-Financial security.
-having shelter to live under, food to eat.
-music.
(sinead05 @ Feb 2 2009, 03:10 PM) QUOTE (shio @ Jan 31 2009, 06:39 PM) *
So many famous people who have accomplished many great things despite depression.
It's very inspiring!
Thank you Lindsay smile.gif
(shio @ Jan 31 2009, 06:39 PM) QUOTE (SECRETMIST @ Jan 30 2009, 09:07 PM) *
thank you wren and burgy, yes it is clear to see and very appreciative to see that people care and support. it's nice to be able to come to a site like this and to truly know that people understand without a doubt what we go through with depression. i am grateful.
(SECRETMIST @ Jan 30 2009, 09:07 PM) QUOTE (SECRETMIST @ Jan 30 2009, 05:44 PM) *
thank you all very much for your support. i did want to thank you all for the support through the roughest times. it's great to have a place to come and be supported without questioned.
(SECRETMIST @ Jan 30 2009, 05:44 PM) QUOTE (GBK @ Jan 30 2009, 12:01 AM) *
Thank you ....all of you!!! more than words could tell!!!
(GBK @ Jan 30 2009, 12:01 AM) QUOTE (inktree @ Jan 29 2009, 08:27 PM) *
Thanks for your help, these forums are super.
(inktree @ Jan 29 2009, 08:27 PM) QUOTE (primula @ Jan 27 2009, 10:00 PM) *
I'm really glad to be one of ur members.I've first to thank you for such amazin site I learnt so many things from you ppl and i wanna to get the honor to share and care with you that's why I decided to be a member of this awesome community smile.gif
what I've read so far in ur community enrich me with information I've never thoght i'll get even if I spend my life studyin in uni book.gif
(primula @ Jan 27 2009, 10:00 PM)) QUOTE (pearlseeker @ Jan 25 2009, 03:01 AM) *
(((((((((LINDSEY))))))))) wub.gif Thank you and everyone so much for being here! It means so much to not be so alone!! wub.gif
(pearlseeker @ Jan 25 2009, 03:01 AM) QUOTE (matt85 @ Jan 25 2009, 02:22 AM) *
beautiful post, and i totally agree. Thank you to the creators of this forum may you be blessed. I'm only new here but already I feel the warmth and support for people who suffer from similar conditions as I.
(matt85 @ Jan 25 2009, 02:22 AM) QUOTE (blackhawk08 @ Jan 23 2009, 11:36 PM) *
thanks for the support guys. I'm happy i found these forums.
(blackhawk08 @ Jan 23 2009, 11:36 PM) QUOTE (Shud @ Dec 26 2008, 05:49 AM) *
Hiya all :)
First off, its always awesome to see a supportive bunch of people that are willing to provide assistance and a shoulder for those who are roughing it out. Top work on a great forum!
(Shud @ Dec 26 2008, 05:49 AM) QUOTE (purplesihb @ Jan 21 2009, 09:38 PM) *
i thought this would be a fun post to add to.. and to see a list of positive things..
1. Being with my boyfriend. I'm always happy to spend time with him
2. My two dogs, civic and hatch. They're always there to put a smile on my face when i am feeling down. Its nice to come home to them wagging their tails
3. Money... money buys my happiness.. whenever i dont have it.. im depressed
4. Family.. my parents. they are wonderful people
5. Friends. only tho i have a few.. im glad they are there for me
6. exercising.. i always feel my best when im done.. feel like i accomplished something.. whoohoo! i lost 3 lbs doing my wii fit!!
7. music.. i find when i listen to music.. it totally changes my attitude and the way i think
8. sleep.. a good nights sleep always makes me feel better and more motivated for the day
9. good hair day... a good hair day always makes me happy.. lately i have had few.. but i notice if i cant do anything with my hair.. my whole day is crap
10. the last thing would probably have to be the DF.. i dont have many things that make me happy, but when i come on here for support and advice.. all the kind comments always make me smile... sometimes teary eyed too cry.gif it just makes me happy seeing how much complete strangers are willing to help out and the wonderful advice given. i am so glad i found this site flowers.gif
(purplesihb @ Jan 21 2009, 09:38 PM) QUOTE (toemos @ Jan 21 2009, 03:40 PM) *
Thanks guys, seems like a choice place.
(toemos @ Jan 21 2009, 03:40 PM) QUOTE (ophelia123 @ Jan 19 2009, 01:08 PM) *
Thanks to everyone who replied. I'm really glad I joined this group :)
(ophelia123 @ Jan 19 2009, 01:08 PM) QUOTE
Hi there and thanks for the welcome. Very kind!
I'm just checking it all out at the moment. I'd like to post an intro, but as I'm at work (but on my lunch!), I don't really want to break down in tears, again, in public!! I'm going to have to try to get on here at home pretty soon! Great forum and lots of info to get through!
(Diva66) QUOTE (Charleysmom @ Jan 15 2009, 05:38 PM) *
Greetings all,
Here to introduce myself--I joined DF immediately after a call to the suicide hotline, and I thank the counselor on the phone who suggested it. I feel it is almost like journaling, but I know that someone will see it, so I am not quite in the void.
(Charleysmom @ Jan 15 2009, 05:38 PM) QUOTE (livingwithBPD @ Jan 15 2009, 10:30 AM) *
Thanks Trace, it goes like wise when you need someone there for you. That why I like this forum since no one here judges me like other forums.
(livingwithBPD @ Jan 15 2009, 10:30 AM) QUOTE (risk02 @ Jan 14 2009, 01:14 AM) *
Wow, I really appreciate all ur replies!! I didnt expect so many so soon : ) This is an awesome site with great people. Thank you, I will take everything u all said to heart. My thoughts go out to all of you! --Krissy
(risk02 @ Jan 14 2009, 01:14 AM) QUOTE (crnacc @ Jan 14 2009, 04:57 AM) *
I just wanted to give everyone an update. I am doing extremely well! I am getting the best sleep I have had in I don't know how long with the Trazodone. I have noticed a huge difference in my outlook, am positive, confident, have self esteem, which I have never had in my life! I am just glad I have finally reached this point in my life. Thanks to everyone on this forum for the continued support!!!
(crnacc @ Jan 14 2009, 04:57 AM) QUOTE (r_kage @ Jan 13 2009, 10:02 PM) *
I half-heartedly googled 'depression forum' not expecting much. I found this site and am so glad I did!
(r_kage @ Jan 13 2009, 10:02 PM) QUOTE (danger_maus @ Jan 12 2009, 07:41 PM) *
I used Google. I forget exactly what I searched for, but something along the line of depression forum. I'm glad I did, it's nice to have people out there that actually understand what I'm going through instead of just nodding sympathetically.
(danger_maus @ Jan 12 2009, 07:41 PM) QUOTE (pearlseeker @ Jan 9 2009, 02:43 AM) *
I Googled Depression. I'm so glad I did!!! wub.gif
(pearlseeker @ Jan 9 2009, 02:43 AM) QUOTE (nealy @ Jan 12 2009, 10:58 AM) *
THANK YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE FOR ALL OF YOUR SWEET REPLIES! YOU ARE ALL SO WONDERFUL! wub.gif
Thanks to all of you, I have a little more self esteem, and I actually walked around today with a smile on my face, and it was REAL, and I laughed, and just had a great day. It felt good.
I am currently working on my list and it might take me awhile, but thanks to all of you I know that I have good qualities ... I just need to realize that, and start thinking more positively about myself.
THANK YOU hearts.gif
(nealy @ Jan 12 2009, 10:58 AM) QUOTE (Mercury @ Jan 11 2009, 12:09 PM) *
Hello everybody, thanks to Coop for getting my registration okayed.
Well I've written a book and didn't mean to. I look forward to making new friends here! smile.gif
(Mercury @ Jan 11 2009, 12:09 PM) QUOTE (mjk5309 @ Jan 11 2009, 04:08 AM) *
i really like these forums, i just joined this past week and it has really helped me feel a sense of validation to have answers to some people while seeking answers from others. yay.gif
(mjk5309 @ Jan 11 2009, 04:08 AM) Hi Everyone.
I figured now is the time to explain my story. I've been a lurker around for the last year or so. This is a great site. I am very thankful for it.
(jbi@ Jan 9 2009, 010:12 PM) QUOTE (shannabanana @ Jan 9 2009, 05:55 PM) *
Thank you Burgy and Rhonda, Elise and Ann too - for your support today. It was a bit of a rough patch for me. I have to tell you guys that it means soooo much to me to see you guys' responses. Really ya'll - to have you guys behind me is so comforting. I love this forum. hearthrob.gif It kind of makes me feel like I'm a part of something - a part of a group of people that genuinely care for one another. Hugs. Shanban
(shannabanana @ Jan 9 2009, 05:55 PM) QUOTE (clockwork @ Jan 2 2009, 12:16 PM) *
This forum is a godsend. Every time I'm about to give up, somebody posts a story that makes me think I shouldn't.
(clockwork @ Jan 2 2009, 12:16 PM) This is a post from the husband of a woman with depression. Very inspiring!
QUOTE (jack_99 @ Dec 15 2008, 03:21 AM) *
Hi everyone. I'd just like to say what a wonderful place this is. Bizarre statement I know but there is a reason.
As a non-sufferer I can't imagine what you all go through and I guess I should count my lucky stars in that regard.
My wife was diagnosed with severe depression today after probably the most horrible week of our lives.
The main reason for introducing myself on here is to offer thanks to those who provided support in my own personal darkest hours as a non sufferer. Also to thank all of you for sharing your thoughts and providing such a vast insight into the illness. Whilst I can never fully understand at least now I can relate to what my love is going though. I read and read and read everything I could lay my hands on over the last week and there has been no better insight than what I have found in these pages. An insight into the emotional rollercoaster, an insight to the medications, and insight into personal experiences and an insight into how others in my situation offer the greatest support to their partners. They are the people I aspire to be and there are plenty of you out there that set a great example to others in my situation.
Thank you one and all. You've made me realise the benefit in talking. I've not been a great talker, and have not been a great listener. You've taught me that both are good.
Cheers again.
Jack.
P.S. I saw this in someone's sig. and it made me really smile today. "Only Robinson Crusoe can get things done by Friday" . Love it.
Hope everyone gets a good nights sleep and wakes up to a beautiful morning. smile.gif
(jack_99 ) QUOTE (Susanna @ Dec 13 2008, 07:31 PM) *
Thanks everybody for the support... this is a great site.
(Susanna)
QUOTE (Virgo831 @ Dec 9 2008, 03:37 PM) *
This thought has crossed my mind a few times of late and I felt I had to finally put into words how I really feel. I love you guys. wub.gif Is that a bad thing to say that you have warm fuzzies for a place and people who have accepted you into their community and shown you love, compassion and support? No, I don't think so. no.gif
I think you guys, are awesome!! Coopclapping.gif Coopyahoo.gif Despite you're own pain you are willing to put yourselves out there to help another fellow human being. I think that's pretty amazing and I think that shows that not all people are cruel and uncaring in this scary world.
Many of you have reached out to me of late when I was totally freaking out over my sudden financial problems. You guys, talked me thru and calmed me down and helped me make some hard decisions that I didn't even know I could make under the circumstances. For that I will always be grateful to everyone. hugs.gif inlove.gif
I am grateful that such a forum exists. That such people that are members here exist. This place has become my home and my support. Knowing that you're all here helps so much even when things for me seem so dark and not worth living anymore.
It's good to have a place like this. I wish that certain groups or organizations could be convinced that for people like us on this forum that the internet isn't just a luxury it's our lifeline. That having a place like this to go to is just as important as having a therapist or a hospital emergency room to go to in our hour of need and should be funded under somekind of mental health law. So that none of us who are depressed would ever be without the internet and the depression forums we choose to go to.
Wishful thinking on my part. But I just wanted everyone to know that I'm grateful for all that you have done for me and all that you will do for me in the future and that I'm glad that forums like this one exist. I'd be lost right now if it weren't for a place like this to go to.
hearts.gif hugs.gif flowers.gif THANK YOU!!!!!! flowers.gif hugs.gif hearts.gif
(Virgo831) QUOTE (sinead05 @ Dec 9 2008, 05:54 AM) *
I am thankful for my family, my faith, my friends. I am thankful that there is hope out there & I am thankful that i came across this website. You guys are all awesome.
(sinead05 ) QUOTE (gaugreg1x @ Dec 7 2008, 09:33 PM) *
welcomeani.gif Fellow compulsive worrier and high anxiety person here also ! This is a great community here. Greg
(gaugreg1x ) QUOTE (chiantilove @ Nov 25 2008, 11:05 AM) *
I've been browsing the forums all day and finally have gathered up the courage to post a topic here - you all seem so wise and helpful.
(chiantilove ) QUOTE (Looking Up @ Nov 23 2008, 12:19 PM) *
Hello mark and welcome to DF! I'm glad you found this forum.. its full of wonderful and supportive people.
(Looking Up) QUOTE (Mark1976 @ Nov 23 2008, 11:46 AM) *
First I just wanted to say I am new here, and it's been really inspirational reading everyone's stories today and seeing how much suport there is out there.
(Mark1976) QUOTE (frangipani @ Nov 22 2008, 06:52 PM) *
You know, this is why I love this board. People get it.
(frangipani ) QUOTE (Ares @ Nov 21 2008, 03:07 AM) *
Wow.
Thanks...I would love to say that I'm responsible but I cannot seem to turn homework in half the time wwww.gif
Seriously though, thank you, that's quite touching. As someone else said recently on this topic, I found this place by googling "depression forums", but I am sure as heck glad I did. Writing about anything makes me feel better, as a general rule. Talking to people on forums has also always been a little habit of mine, but most perceive me as a truly happy person. I am sure I seem this way towards most people, but I have never been able to openly write to other people about my depression, so this is a sort of oasis for me.
(Ares ) QUOTE (dragon baby @ Nov 20 2008, 07:44 PM) *
Everytime I write something here, i feel better, and then i read what other people have said to my post, and i feel even better! people here are amazing, and it's helped me feel better. (even though i dont get on it very often and i'm a newb =P)
(dragon baby) QUOTE (sinead05 @ Nov 20 2008, 11:09 AM) *
I honestly feel so grateful that i have come across your website. I already feel initiated into a great family! Thank you. It's organizations/people like you who are my heroes. You guys deserve to be commended for all your efforts in striving to make the world a better place to live in.
I am quite interested to learn more about the forums which deal with other illnesses and how they relate to depression.
And again, thank you. I truly do appreciate what you guys are doing.
(sinead05 ) QUOTE (Threnody @ Nov 20 2008, 08:30 AM) *
Hello to the forum. I'm a 30 year old guy with bi polar/schizo affective disorder. I've been battling mental illness my whole life. I've been reading through some of the topics the last couple of days, and decided to join tonight.
I'm glad I found this place, it looks pretty active and full of insight. My thanks to the creators of the website for helping people with mental have a voice.
(Threnody) QUOTE (worried_husband @ Nov 19 2008, 09:29 AM) *
BTW, this forum so far has been a good place for me to express some of my frustrations anonymously as I'd never want to air any of the "dirty laundry" of my marriage to my friends because that seems very inappropriate.. Thanks to all of you.
(worried_husband) QUOTE (Kahlan @ Nov 19 2008, 03:26 PM) *
I came to this site only a few days ago myself and so far have found it's a wonderful place to come. Just knowing there are so many others like me, makes me feel not so alone!!! We can all get through this together! That's something great to look forward too!
(Kahlan ) QUOTE (Guru @ Nov 19 2008, 10:24 AM) *
Hello All,
Great Forum! I've been reading posts for a few weeks now, and finally decided to add my two cents smile.gif
In the meantime, this forum is a great way to keep hope alive wub.gif
I wish everyone well in their struggle to beat whatever illness brought them to this forum! It's great that we can all take that ride together.
Guru
(Guru ) QUOTE (vicky1409 @ Nov 18 2008, 09:07 PM) *
Its amazing to find out how many people feel the same way. I feel like i've went for years feeling like this and no one has understood. Thank you all for your comments re my post.
I was on a real down day when I started that post. Its good to know if I feel like that or happy or whatever I can write down whatever I feel I want to on here and not be judged. Thank you all for a safe haven.
( vicky1409 ) QUOTE (sadman101 @ Nov 19 2008, 03:02 AM) *
you really are a clever person lizzy
and i can only say i admire you
i really do
you are an inspiration to us all
and i love you to bits
please keep up the good work that you do
love and peace to you
(sadman101 ) QUOTE (jadie @ Nov 18 2008, 12:38 PM) *
^^ thank you and everyone here alot, I am happy that someone cares enough to listen and actually cares about a total stranger, that is so very wonderful and means alot to me. I feel very welcome here already. ^__^
( jadie ) QUOTE (tauragem @ Nov 14 2008, 10:11 PM) *
Thank you all for all those nice thoughts..It is nice to see so many people sharing and solving their problems with mutual suggestions and help..
(tauragem) QUOTE (tauragem @ Nov 14 2008, 09:58 PM) *
Thanks a lot for your suggestion.It is a nice platform to share ones feelings without any inhibitions..
(tauragem) QUOTE (crnacc @ Nov 14 2008, 02:15 PM) *
I am so grateful to have found this forum so I can talk to others that have experienced depression. A lot of people I know dont understand it. Thanks for the support!
crnacc
(crnacc ) QUOTE (thedarknesswithin89 @ Nov 16 2008, 11:58 AM) *
I never thought I'd find a discussion board where I could say anything without fear of being critisized or made fun of.
(thedarknesswithin89) QUOTE (aisha @ Nov 13 2008, 09:10 PM) *
I will call doc tomorrow , thanks for you encouragment and support its really helped me these last couple of days flowers.gif
(aisha) QUOTE (HarryE @ Nov 13 2008, 10:14 PM) *
Hey guys,
Thank you all for your support, I read every post several times during the night and drew strength from them.
That was really rough guys and I couldn't have done it alone. Words aren't enough to express my gratitude.
Harryxxxxxx
(HarryE) QUOTE (hedgehog @ Nov 13 2008, 06:42 PM) *
Hi,
It is some time since I've made a proper coherent post here , so here goes .
This forum , the members , moderators and administrators have shown me extra ordinary kindness and consideration in the past ,during times of distress , I have not forgotten and will not forget this extraordinary support and understanding from strangers from all over the world ..
I hope for you all that your lives become more serene and are filled with increasing frequency with moments of true and deep well being and a sense of your own worth and uniqueness . Each life and individual is precious and should ,in the best of worlds, be cherished and respected . Here I found that respect .
I send my love and very best wishes to all and every one of you .
Hedge flowers.gif
(hedgehog) QUOTE (OceanBreeze9721 @ Nov 11 2008, 09:02 AM) *
Hello,
I wanted to thank the forums for being a place to go to when I needed it. Thank you for your support.
Ocean
(OceanBreeze9721) QUOTE (Meh @ Nov 6 2008, 08:29 PM) *
i would like to take a moment to say that this site is great cos i always manage to find people with the same worries as me, which is definately a help when i dont know what to do about something.
(Meh) QUOTE (cookiecrumbs @ Nov 1 2008, 11:30 AM) *
Thank you to whoever is responsible for frequently updating the wreath on the top of the page. I always enjoy watching it change. It's a pleasant and thoughtful touch that makes this site feel a bit more like home. hearts.gif
((cookiecrumbs) QUOTE (LoneWolf89 @ Oct 30 2008, 11:55 AM) *
Thanks for your help Trace. Appreciate it... I think this DF is a really great idea for support. Especially to people like me. I'm not someone that shares my problems with others easily... computer.gif
(LoneWolf89) QUOTE (nealy @ Oct 29 2008, 08:07 PM) *
hugs.gif Lookingup, Burgy, Sheepwoman, Spiralingmind, bigblackdog, daisychain, moonlightress, Trace82, Nickylynn, Webkangaroo hugs.gif
I don't know what I would do without you guys and all of your wonderful support. All of you have been absolutely amazing, and I can't thank you enough. hearts.gif
(nealy) QUOTE (jabberjaws @ Oct 28 2008, 10:43 PM) *
Iv'e been a member of DF for 2 years next month. I am online alot and at least once a day i'm on here. I don't say much but I read the posts and the support people give really helps me through many tough days. The people are just great. I'll be here for sometime. I just wish I could be more invovled but that's just not me. Thank You all for the advise and articles.
Jabberjaws
(jabberjaws) QUOTE (chica @ Oct 27 2008, 09:06 AM) *
I´ve only been on this forum for a week or so and have found great solace in the support provided by everyone here and some members in particular have taken interest and their empathy is very welcome when going through a bout of depression. We all have our bad days and posting on here helps me deal with it. Thanks to everyone this is a great place!
(chica) QUOTE (Anne Louise @ Oct 26 2008, 09:16 PM) *
Hello everyone. It's nice to find people with the same thoughts and feelings that I have. Thank you for letting me join. smile.gif
(Anne Louise) QUOTE (silverdawn @ Oct 24 2008, 04:58 AM) *
Trace82,
Thank you for all the suggestions you've offered. You really are nice by taking the time to respond and give advice about my situation. I appreciate it because I noticed that you offer a lot of support through words over here on the member needing extra support board. smile.gif
Thanks again,
silverdawn
(silverdawn) QUOTE (chica @ Oct 27 2008, 09:06 AM) *
I´ve only been on this forum for a week or so and have found great solace in the support provided by everyone here and some members in particular have taken interest and their empathy is very welcome when going through a bout of depression. We all have our bad days and posting on here helps me deal with it. Thanks to everyone this is a great place!
(chica ) QUOTE (Anne Louise @ Oct 26 2008, 09:16 PM) *
Hello everyone. It's nice to find people with the same thoughts and feelings that I have. Thank you for letting me join. smile.gif
(Anne Louise) QUOTE (silverdawn @ Oct 24 2008, 04:58 AM) *
Trace82,
Thank you for all the suggestions you've offered. You really are nice by taking the time to respond and give advice about my situation. I appreciate it because I noticed that you offer a lot of support through words over here on the member needing extra support board. smile.gif
Thanks again,
silverdawn
(silverdawn) QUOTE (chica @ Oct 27 2008, 09:06 AM) *
I´ve only been on this forum for a week or so and have found great solace in the support provided by everyone here and some members in particular have taken interest and their empathy is very welcome when going through a bout of depression. We all have our bad days and posting on here helps me deal with it. Thanks to everyone this is a great place!
(chica ) QUOTE (Anne Louise @ Oct 26 2008, 09:16 PM) *
Hello everyone. It's nice to find people with the same thoughts and feelings that I have. Thank you for letting me join. smile.gif
(Anne Louise) QUOTE (silverdawn @ Oct 24 2008, 04:58 AM) *
Trace82,
Thank you for all the suggestions you've offered. You really are nice by taking the time to respond and give advice about my situation. I appreciate it because I noticed that you offer a lot of support through words over here on the member needing extra support board. smile.gif
Thanks again,
silverdawn
(silverdawn ) QUOTE (webkangaroo @ Oct 26 2008, 06:37 PM) *
Burgy:
I also just wanted to thank you very much for creating this thread. It’s helped me so much dealing with the initial ups & downs of WB.
(webkangaroo) QUOTE (AJKK @ Oct 25 2008, 07:57 PM) *
Hi, firstly just like to say the admins and people who made this site, props to you for doing it, everyone needs help like this and thank God there are people like you guys to help people out.
(AJKK) QUOTE (moonlightress @ Oct 23 2008, 05:39 AM) *
Hi to everyone who reads this. It's the following morning, I slept a good night (7-8 hrs) and feel calm now - no more manic melt-down. (I'm going to phone my Pdoc today just to tell him what happened, in case I need med adjustment.) I can't tell you how grateful I am for the responses I got. I know this isn't a crisis line and would have phoned the doc if things got any worse, which fortunately didn't happen.
Malysmom and Sheepwoman, thank you, thank you, thankyou. SW: I didn't understand "Don't what he gives you as a "knock-out" - can you clarify, please? Thanks for just getting to me so fast with suggestions.
Giz and RSmith, I think I said this before (did I??) but you guys just plain ROCK Coopclapping.gif for EVERYTHING and for coming to LiveChat with me while the prn's were kicking in, keeping me breathing deeply and reminding me to eat (silly me forgot to eat the whole day, except for an apple). At least half of my crying was sheer gratitude to you both for being there so supportively, and making me laugh which also helped. I lost the plot, forgot the words of my song and you both sang it back to me...
Lindsay, Coop, the Forum Team and Moderating crew: thanks for making all this available - it has made a major difference in my life, so Lindsay you can know that yesterday and today you WERE "of value to someone today" and DID "make a difference now."
I'm getting tearfully sentimental again now, so going to end off, but will come back to this thread to tell of what specific things helped, in case it helps others, until they can get hold of a doctor...
(moonlightress ) QUOTE (susannah @ Oct 22 2008, 12:48 PM) *
wow - I'm pretty overwhelmed by the fact that people are still replying to this! Thank you sooooooo much for your messages of support everyone, they really mean a lot and I wish everyone luck on their own journeys towards healing
( susannah) QUOTE (Break_The_Pattern @ Oct 21 2008, 11:56 AM) *
I was contemplating joining a site a couple of years back but found one member used to be really quite nasty to certain other members and it really put me off!
Was so nice to find this site, where people genuinely look out for each other and make people feel welcome!
(Break_The_Pattern) QUOTE (Break_The_Pattern @ Oct 20 2008, 02:37 PM) *
Trace, hello!
And thank you so much for your warm welcome. Your comments are really appreciated. I am really so very glad that this site exists.
( Break_The_Pattern) QUOTE (justforfun_10 @ Oct 19 2008, 07:15 PM) *
Thanks Graycoyote and sheepwoman for your inspiring replies. You guys are the best.. You put a smile on my face this morning while reading your replies...
Rod
(justforfun_10 @ Oct 19 2008, 07:15 PM) QUOTE (webkangaroo @ Oct 19 2008, 05:18 PM) *
Discussion forums are a dime a dozen on the web. Not this site. It stands alone above the rest. It has precious information I need to move forward with my life. As a small business owner, I understand the costs associated with providing a service. I have chosen to help with the website’s operational costs with your 6-month membership, & will continue my support as long as I’m able.
(webkangaroo) QUOTE (NickyLynn @ Oct 18 2008, 06:22 PM) *
Thank you, Burgy. You come across as this amazing person who has overcome so much - it's amazing to hear you say you suffer from self-loathing. You seem so positive and helpful and you're doing this wonderful thing helping people who are depressed.
Thank you so much for your support.
(NickyLynn @ Oct 18 2008, 06:22 PM) QUOTE (rainbowgirl @ Oct 18 2008, 01:50 PM) *
I tend to leave for long periods of time but what I have found in 3 years (of belonging to DF) is that this site is a constant.
A bright star in the sky that is always twinkling, even when I am not. So it's easy to find my way back 'home' and there's always warmth and people hurting here, just like me.
(rainbowgirl @ Oct 18 2008, 01:50 PM) QUOTE (Used To Be Me @ Oct 15 2008, 11:30 PM) *
I have made a few posts, and thank you mods for responding.
(Used To Be Me @ Oct 15 2008, 11:30 PM) QUOTE (floydfan04240 @ Oct 14 2008, 06:08 AM) *
I'm Amy. I'm new here. I googled "depression forums" and this was the first to come up. I joined after reading some on the web site, it seems to be a great resource with very caring people at the helm. I've had depression all my life pretty much.
Anyhow, I'm glad to finally find a place I can be supported and not judged. Thanks for being here :)
(floydfan04240 @ Oct 14 2008, 06:08 AM) QUOTE (asummers78 @ Oct 12 2008, 08:12 PM) *
I'm really excited to find a place that I can openly talk about not only being a lesbian but my depression.
(asummers78 @ Oct 12 2008, 08:12 PM) QUOTE (tilly @ Oct 11 2008, 05:59 PM) *
Thank you, all of you, for posting here. I don't feel so alone. I don't feel so crazy. I can't believe I've never seen this forum before!
(tilly @ Oct 11 2008, 05:59 PM) QUOTE (Angeldoggies @ Oct 10 2008, 07:01 AM) *
You all cannot imagine how much your posts mean to me-you all are doing a great service.
(Angeldoggies @ Oct 10 2008, 07:01 AM) QUOTE (darkshadow @ Oct 7 2008, 05:49 AM) *
Thanks so much everyone, I really mean it. Your comments have really helped... I'm so grateful for the love and support I get here on this forum from you great people! I couldn't ask for a better group of friends. darkshadow.
(darkshadow @ Oct 7 2008, 05:49 AM) QUOTE (justbeingme @ Oct 7 2008, 04:16 AM) *
I found this site! Coopyahoo.gif
(justbeingme @ Oct 7 2008, 04:16 AM) QUOTE (azncollegegurl21 @ Oct 6 2008, 06:30 AM) *
I am grateful for the wonderful people here on DF that always give me support and encouragement =)
(azncollegegurl21 @ Oct 6 2008, 06:30 AM) QUOTE (happy days 08 @ Oct 3 2008, 04:16 PM) *
I also wanted to thank Jkm for responding to my anxiety questions. These are some very hard things to deal with, and I truly appreciate the support you have given me. Thank you for making a difference for me!
(happy days 08 @ Oct 3 2008, 04:16 PM) QUOTE (nealy57 @ Oct 5 2008, 05:06 PM) *
Thank you to Lindsay for starting this site, and thank you to everyone else for being there. It's the greatest feeling in the world to know that there is a place to go where you know you have friends, and people who are going to be there for you and support you, and not be judgmental. I couldn't thank you all enough hearts.gif
(nealy57 @ Oct 5 2008, 05:06 PM) QUOTE (randomfish @ Oct 5 2008, 03:11 PM) *
thank you so much every one involved, you have been my saviours
(randomfish @ Oct 5 2008, 03:11 PM) QUOTE (uk1988 @ Oct 5 2008, 05:23 PM) *
Hi everyone new here i would first just like to say what an awesome this place is. I have had problems and have felt like i have had no one to talk to, reading through things here makes me confident i can talk about my issues here!
(uk1988 @ Oct 5 2008, 05:23 PM) QUOTE (nealy57 @ Oct 2 2008, 04:40 PM) *
You know what I was just thinking? That I am on this forum way too much haha. It's OK though because the DF rocks buttrock.gif thumbs-up.gif
(nealy57 @ Oct 2 2008, 04:40 PM) QUOTE (knutsford @ Oct 1 2008, 11:35 PM) *
Thank you Trace and Sheepwoman.
I just started therapy with a doctor who specializes in this particular sort of depression.
You guys are extremely helpful. My close friends, while supportive, don't really know what to say when I drop things like this on them and I hate bringing them down with things like this. This website is a great tool and I really appreciate those who contribute to and maintain these forums. Again, thanks to all who have replied or read.
(knutsford @ Oct 1 2008, 11:35 PM) QUOTE (THX183 @ Oct 1 2008, 06:10 PM) *
I’ve written more ugly truth to this forum in two posts than my ‘friends’ could endure (in small doses) over the 2 year period it took to loose them all. And YOU endured it all at once. I’m overwhelmed. I haven’t felt anything positive in so long it’s all just …….. no words fit.
...thank you. ..
(THX183 @ Oct 1 2008, 06:10 PM) QUOTE (Danish @ Oct 1 2008, 06:52 AM) *
thanks for the replies guys. It means a lot just to know others feel the same sometimes.
I have to say finding this forum has made me very happy. First time in quite a while
(Danish @ Oct 1 2008, 06:52 AM) QUOTE (DigitalS @ Oct 1 2008, 10:29 AM) *
thanks for all the kind replies everyone, i feel like a weight has been lifted off of me just by telling how i feel. thank you
(DigitalS @ Oct 1 2008, 10:29 AM) QUOTE (azncollegegurl21 @ Sep 29 2008, 12:34 AM) *
1. What surprised me today?
My dad offered to get me breakfast
2. What touched me today?
Lindsay, because she's an awesome person! =)
3. What inspired me today?
People here on DF.. hearts.gif
(azncollegegurl21 @ Sep 29 2008, 12:34 AM) QUOTE (azncollegegurl21 @ Sep 27 2008, 01:58 AM) *
I love this topic, Happy Days =)
hearts.gif Trace has given me great advice and has really been supportive, especially through the whole insurance crisis(that was a long ordeal!) Whitelilly has been there and helped me feel like I wasn't as alone as I thought I was. Sheepwoman has always given me great feekback on any medication questions and that has been a big help. I haven't seen dante and broken around but they have helped me too with their replies. And of course, Lindsay! She's been a tremendous help and is always so caring and supportive. hearts.gif You're all awesome! =)
(azncollegegurl21 @ Sep 27 2008, 01:58 AM) QUOTE (catfl @ Sep 27 2008, 08:43 AM) *
I can't even tell you how grateful I am that you guys have responded to my request for help. I have been reading the "Mens Thread" and have gotten to know some of you a bit by doing so. I have so much admiration for all of you. I've ordered some of the books mentioned in that thread and will be reading them in the next week.
Since he is pushing me away, I have been trying to enlist some of his close friends to help and show them that there is a problem. He can not "snap out of it" and it will not be fixed with a few rounds at the gym and a trip to the bar . It was excerpts from the Mens Thread that finally enabled me to do that, explain things in a "guy" way and stop them from thinking he was just lazy, stupid, selfish, irresponsible, etc. To be honest, as soon as I mentioned Terry Bradshaw all the sudden they were ready to listen! I would have never even thought to research male role models with depression had it not been for you guys.
Thanks so much for your offers to help me one on one via PM's. I will organize my thoughts, questions, etc. and take you up on your kindness.
Please know that I am here for you also. I'm kind of new at this but would be happy to help in any way I can.
(catfl @ Sep 27 2008, 08:43 AM) QUOTE (Sdubyadubya @ Sep 25 2008, 02:05 PM) *
Thanks for the Welcome everyone seems really nice here
(Sdubyadubya @ Sep 25 2008, 02:05 PM) QUOTE (Bowtech @ Sep 23 2008, 01:18 PM) *
Also joining the forum is beneficial to you as well. I sure can tell you, it has helped me a lot, and I am new as well.
(Bowtech @ Sep 23 2008, 01:18 PM) QUOTE (Maedhros @ Sep 23 2008, 05:11 PM) *
This forum has been great. I understand myself better now and realize I'm not alone.
(Maedhros @ Sep 23 2008, 05:11 PM) QUOTE (msmariahd @ Sep 23 2008, 02:30 PM) *
Thanks for making a board on depression. It makes me think that I am not alone.
(msmariahd @ Sep 23 2008, 02:30 PM) QUOTE (ScaredandLonely @ Sep 13 2008, 03:33 PM) *
Hello everyone, I am new here and extremely happy I finally found somewhere I can feel at home with people who understand what I am going through. I am a 23/M who was diagnosed with depression 8 years ago. I hope that I can find comfort in this what I can see to be a caring and helpful community.
I look forward to becoming an active member of this wonderful website, and I thank everyone involved in creating such a helpful tool.
(ScaredandLonely @ Sep 13 2008, 03:33 PM) QUOTE (NickyLynn @ Sep 10 2008, 03:27 PM) *
This forum has allowed me to work through a lot.
(NickyLynn @ Sep 10 2008, 03:27 PM) QUOTE (broken4957 @ Sep 5 2008, 06:39 AM) *
I want to thank everyone for their support, when it seems like there's no hope it's amazing what a few words of encouragement can do to brighten a bad day, lastly I would like to thank DF for being here, had I not found this place in cyber space I very likely would be setting in the dark and hungry which my depressed side doesn't seem to mine, but the side fighting to get my life back doesn't care for at all.
Take Care
(broken4957 @ Sep 5 2008, 06:39 AM) QUOTE (azncollegegurl21 @ Sep 3 2008, 06:00 AM) *
Your simple acts of kindness
Have brightened up my entire day
You turned the frown on my face into a smile
And swept the tears away
You reminded me of the simple pleasures in life
That are so rarely brought to me
I never take them for granted--
Because I never know when another will come
But when it does,
I'll be ready to smile...
To let you know how much they're loved
QUOTE (azncollegegurl21 @ Sep 3 2008, 05:17 PM) *
Aww, thanks everyone! You really made me happy with your kind words!(I always feel like my poems really sux) smile.gif The 2nd poem makes me think of the people on these forums hearts.gif You're the best!
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Faith is the true belief we have in hope and hope is the thing that keeps us going to have faith
(azncollegegurl21 @ Sep 3 2008, 05:17 PM) QUOTE (xdarksongx @ Sep 2 2008, 05:35 AM) *
Hi i've been reading the forums for some time now and just joined yesterday.
Had i know such an avenue for help existed i would've come here a long time ago.
Its good that such a community exists and we can all help support and care for each other because no one else really understands.
Sometimes we just need someone to relate to.. someone to listen to us..
Im suffering from depression and have crazy mood swings from time to time.
Its tiring - but i can still bear it.
I just feel it unjust that my partner has to go through this because of me. Im so afraid of losing her eventually..
Still im glad to have found this place and know guys/girls like you.
(xdarksongx @ Sep 2 2008, 05:35 AM) QUOTE (marybon @ Aug 21 2008, 07:44 AM) *
I asked for help two weeks or so ago. As usual the other members were a great help to me. This forum has helped me so much! You are all great. I had meant to answer sooner. It just happened my daughter and family were moving. She has 19 month old twins and is expecting anther in October. How nice to be needed!!
Thanks
(marybon @ Aug 21 2008, 07:44 AM) QUOTE (horatio @ Aug 20 2008, 06:11 PM) *
Hi there,
I just found this forum and been lurking for the past few days. I must say that the people on this forum are the nicest and most supportive group that I've come across on all the internet. I hope I can be as supportive and helpful as others have been.
(horatio @ Aug 20 2008, 06:11 PM) QUOTE (Scorpiogirl @ Aug 16 2008, 05:05 PM) *
Hi everyone. I'm 22 years old, from Australia and i suffer from anxiety and until i see my doctor again, most probably depression . A few stories on these boards have struck a cord with me and they have made me feel so much better....knowing that i'm not alone with this disorder.
anyway i'm so glad that there is a community such as these forums. As heart breaking as these stories are...it feels good to know that people can share these experiences without judging.
love xxScorpiogirlxx
(Scorpiogirl @ Aug 16 2008, 05:05 PM) QUOTE (AsILayDying @ Aug 15 2008, 10:03 AM) *
Thank you all so much.
Your words have really helped me..
it's amazing to have people who don't know me care like this..
I am honestly unaware of this feeling...thank you
(AsILayDying @ Aug 15 2008, 10:03 AM) QUOTE (nippy93 @ Aug 14 2008, 01:57 AM) *
Hello all.
My name is Jacob and im 15 and suffer from depression. I do not take medication as my father used to and it changed him in ways i didn't like. So i cope using DSH. Not good i know but for the mean time its all i can do. I'm currently seeing a counselor due to the recent break up of my parents and slipping school grades. I hope to become a part of this forum and want to thank everyone who helps mantain it.
Thanks again.
Jacob.
(nippy93 @ Aug 14 2008, 01:57 AM) QUOTE (happy days 08 @ Aug 13 2008, 11:52 PM) *
Thanks for any input, and thanks for running such a helpful website.
(happy days 08 @ Aug 13 2008, 11:52 PM) QUOTE (Optimistic @ Aug 12 2008, 11:59 AM) *
I want to thank you so much for your support. Finding people who understand is so hard, even with therapists. Because if you haven't ever felt what it feels like to be on the bottom of the world with what feels like a million people's feet upon your chest, then you truly don't know how to respond to someone's pain. It's truly a situation where you have to have walked a mile in someone's shoes or least a pair just like them to know where someone is coming from. I have been fighting for years... and it has not been until I joined this forum that I have ever felt truly understood... thank you...thank you...thank you a million times over...
(Optimistic @ Aug 12 2008, 11:59 AM) QUOTE (Xephon @ Aug 11 2008, 05:13 PM) *
Agreed. Thanks to those who maintain this site and all its participants.
I wish you patience, strength, and happiness.
(Xephon @ Aug 11 2008, 05:13 PM) QUOTE (Klaybird @ Aug 11 2008, 01:25 PM) *
Hi,
I'm from Australia, I have anxiety and have just begun to get help. I'd just like to say that I think this forum is great. Having a mental illness is, unfortunately, such a off-limits topic in the real world. And that this forum is somewhere that people know they won't be judged for their mental illnesses is fantastic.
(Klaybird @ Aug 11 2008, 01:25 PM) QUOTE (nealy57 @ Aug 9 2008, 08:59 AM) *
I simply googled depression forums and it took me straight to this site.... I am very happy to have found this website too... it has been SO helpful and I have only been a member for a week yay.gif
(nealy57 @ Aug 9 2008, 08:59 AM) *) QUOTE (TFTexas @ Aug 8 2008, 03:10 AM) *
Hello...found these forums, and decided to take a leap of faith here. I have been in a battle with anxiety/depression for 11 years and am totally baffled and confused. The M.D.'s don't seem to "really" know whats going on, many don't seem to care...just toss prescription's at me and boot me out the door. Those around me, don't seem to understand what it is like to experience what it all feels like and it is great to find a place like this to interact with people who DO understand what it's really like.
Thank-you
(TFTexas)
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azncollegegurl21
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It's perfectly okay with me if you use my story... I just hope it can help somehow. Thanks for trying to help the cause, I wish more people cared. Thank you also for having these forums, it's proven to be a real life saver at times. For the longest time I just knew I was depressed but didn't have a diagnoses until recently so DF has helped me through a lot!
( azncollegegurl21 ) QUOTE (goodthings @ Jul 29 2008, 12:49 PM) *
This forum is wonderful. Soooo much good information and great folks. It's really helped to get me thru the "dark days
(goodthings) QUOTE (Maggie4713 @ Jul 30 2008, 01:27 AM) *
Wow!
Thanks everyone.
This site is AWESOME.
Mags.
(Maggie4713) QUOTE (kirkwuk @ Jul 28 2008, 07:27 PM) *
I agree that this forum has been the most helpful and supportive of all. That is why, as well as others here do, continue to donate to keep it running at the standard it is today.
-kirkwuk
(kirkwuk) QUOTE (FLIPFLOPS @ Jul 27 2008, 05:51 AM) *
Hi Jrah--I feel quite sure you will never find anyone like what you have experienced on here. I am new myself and reading other peoples posts do help quite a bit; in that they are so much worse off than I am. Everyone always tries to suggest and help and you can get a lot from their experiences either with doctors, meds, family, other posters. It seems to be a domino effect--everyone gets positive feed and some constructive feed off one another and on and on and on. This has been my feeling about this forum. They are genuine. Keep up your spirits and read all the categories you are interested in and please comment yourself about your experiences to us. The more info we have of other s experiences and trials of this illness the better off and more informed we will be. Thanks for giving us a chance to welcome you and to learn too--Flipflops
(FLIPFLOPS) QUOTE (JoySeeker @ Jul 22 2008, 07:32 AM) *
Hello -
I'd been looking to expand my network of support when I found this site; I've been going through an especially difficult time and due to various circumstances, the friends/family that I usually turn to have not been as able to be there for me as in the past.
I appreciate the support that I'm already beginning to find here. Sometimes people that haven't experienced chronic depression just don't GET IT, and think that I should just try harder to 'be positive'. I did that for years and it just doesn't work. I finally was able to ease up on myself once I realized that it wasn't always something that I could just snap out of.
I also like that there are a number of topics that cover a number of disorders and that's helpful too since there are times when I'll be struggling with one or the other, or a few all at once. I feel that these will be really helpful. I know that these are no substitute for "face-to-face" interactions but from someone like me who has a hard enough time reaching out as it is, sometimes this is the only way I do that.
Thanks everyone for being so hospitable hugs.gif
Thank you for letting me share.
JS
Me
(JoySeeker) QUOTE (Dr_Bunsen_Honeydew @ Jul 6 2008, 12:56 PM) *
Hello. I'm a new member to this site but have been 'researching' here for quite awhile. I just want to say I'm happy i found this website. Like everyone else here I'm looking for answers. I decided to join because maybe some of my experiences can help other people in the same way i was helped by so many posters. Just think it's a great community and really look forward to being a part of it! Thanks
(Dr_Bunsen_Honeydew) QUOTE (moonlightress @ Jul 18 2008, 10:54 AM) *
I blinked and blinked again when I saw this room appear on my screen, that was never there before. What a wonderful idea.
My immediate feeling was gratitude, so I want to say THANK YOU to Lindsay, Coop and all the other people who set up the forum, keep it running and make it work. I feel quite honoured to have found this room and I hope I can make a contribution too. Also thanks to the folks I have got to know here, Always Trying, Burgy, lambvet and many others, whose names I'm sorry, but have forgotten right now. I'm so glad and so proud to know you fine folks!
(moonlightress ) QUOTE (bluefinger @ Jul 13 2008, 03:22 AM) *
numbers six on seven on that list are great and are quite easy ti achieve on this site. i'd urge everyone to look through the forums and find someone that they can offer support or advice to. it will hopefully make the recipient feel better and helping someone (even someone you don't know) can lift your spirit.
Great list Lindsay
(bluefinger) QUOTE (Dysthymic @ Jul 16 2008, 05:33 AM) *
OMG! You said that right. Thank you so much for your supportive response. I was so darned upset that I couldn't even sleep. I'm glad that I have this place to post my thoughts. I journal a lot, but there are no responses from journaling... just my thoughts laid out on paper. Whoever came up with this forum, THANK YOU!
(Dysthymic ) QUOTE (odyssey @ Jul 13 2008, 12:28 PM) *
Hi LEELABIRD, Isabeau and nopawn
Thank you so much for your kind words of support, I cannot tell you how much they mean to me. hugs.gif hugs.gif hugs.gif hugs.gif hugs.gif
I feel like I have finally found the support I need through this board. The irony of finding support from complete strangers is not lost on me, however that certainly doesnt mean it isnt as real or helpful, I think it is more so because everyone here knows what you are going through. Unfortunately mental illness is the sort of thing, that unless you have gone through, you have no comprehension of what its like and how truely debilitating and horrible it can be.
Thank god for the internet hey! I think this form of support is so valuable to sufferers, offering a way for people who are in your situation and know what you are going through, all over the world to come together. Whilst being an avid net user I have never used forums or chat rooms etc, so I was never aware you get this sort of support online. Thank god for that random link I found on, god I cant even remember which site it was. I told my psychiatrist and she was very happy about my new involvement here and thought it was a very positive step. She even took down the name of the site to suggest to other patients, so we may well have some new Australian members soon.
(odyssey ) QUOTE (sunfire @ Jul 11 2008, 12:26 AM) *
BLESSED-To have this web site and to know I am not alone
(sunfire ) QUOTE (goodthings @ Jul 7 2008, 09:41 AM) *
At any rate, this forum is a wonderful resource. And it's good to know that there are so many folks in the same boat as me.
Thanks for the support.
(goodthings ) QUOTE (darkshadow @ Jul 6 2008, 05:10 AM) *
Thanks colourless butterfly, I already like the people here. Your all so nice and supportive not to mention friendly. Thanks again. darkshadow.
(darkshadow) QUOTE (colourless butterfly @ Jul 6 2008, 08:37 AM) *
I joined this forum few months ago and I felt welcomed from the beginning. Peolpe are so supportive, they always have some nice things to say or some good advice. I'm very happy I found the DF.
And I'm sure you'll feel the same way soon.
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(colourless butterfly ) QUOTE (moonlightress @ Jul 6 2008, 03:03 PM) *
OK, so now I am all weepy and sentimental and the thread has got long and I won't blame you if you just skipped it - but I just want to say a HUGE THANKS to everyone who keeps this forum running. It has been a BIG part of my therapy and I can't begin to tell you how much it has meant to me. To all those who I've spoken (written) with over the last few months that I've been here - thank you for being who you are. Every story makes me think some, sometimes cry some and sometimes realise some... and renews the feeling that I must keep going and fight the good fight...
(and I can be sure the psychologist is going to fry me about the failure thing.. in his own kind, but insistent, way.)
(moonlightress) QUOTE (mynah @ Jul 4 2008, 09:41 PM) *
it's great that the chat is reopened! :)
i hope it will work well and not much trouble.
thank you Lindsay and Coop! wub.gif
(mynah) QUOTE (Clark236 @ Jul 4 2008, 05:12 AM) *
Thank you so much dear Trace for all of your wonderful comments!!! smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif
I can tell just from reading your reply that you are one of the most wonderful people on the planet!!!
(Clark236 ) QUOTE (rileyeye @ Jul 3 2008, 08:39 AM) *
Thank you so much for the replies. I cannot tellyou how much it means to me!!
(rileyeye) QUOTE (Sweetdream Angel @ Jul 1 2008, 04:29 AM) *
These things always bring a smile....
1. my husband laughing
2. my daughter telling me a story
3. Seeing my friends name show up on the sign in board....
4. Chatting and talking with friends i have made here
5. Burgy !!!!!
(Sweetdream Angel) QUOTE (headbang8 @ Jul 2 2008, 06:04 PM) *
It's great to have a forum where important issues can be discussed with candour and goodwill, and where mental illness earns no stigma. Thanks for being here.
(headbang8) QUOTE (wanderer82 @ Jun 27 2008, 06:45 AM) *
Hey everybody, thanks for your replies; your caring thoughts & understanding make a world of difference.
I guess the only thing I can find the slightest of comfort in is that I can come here & people actually understand.
(wanderer82 ) QUOTE (Heavens_wept @ Jun 25 2008, 10:31 AM) *
Hey all ^_^
Names Adam, im a 16 year old male from South Wales, Uk.
i found this site through reaserching my medication i have been on for about a year now. Floroxitine (aka prozac), and i browsed around the website, i really like what you guys have going on here, its hard to find support anywhere.
Kudos to the person / people who run this site ^_^
Hope to see you all soon!
Take care
&
Blessings be.
~Adam
(Heavens_wept ) QUOTE (Magicseaweed @ Jun 23 2008, 08:24 PM) *
I haven't posted on here in awhile, so I was really suprised to wake up this morning to birthday wishes. I got wished happy b-day by Trace and other admins on Df. Thanks again guys.
(Magicseaweed ) QUOTE (Darson @ Jun 21 2008, 08:05 PM) *
I'm feeling rather happy today BTW. Seeing these kind of messages is enough to put anyone in a good mood. Ta.
(Darson) QUOTE (sunandmoon @ Jun 21 2008, 03:35 PM) *
I have gotten great support from this forum thank you!
(sunandmoon ) QUOTE (Infidel @ Jun 20 2008, 05:15 AM) *
These forums have been absolutely invaluable in being able to help my Pdoc direct my care. Reading people's experiences here gives me the info I need to suggest possible solutions to my Pdoc, and fortunately he is willing to do whatever I want until we find the solution.
(Infidel ) QUOTE (benacre @ Jun 19 2008, 10:35 PM) *
Just to say you are not alone. I joined this forum because I needed the support cos my family would not give it. You have been brave enough to tell us your feelings so we will help you get through this. I love this forum cos the support is always here.I hope things improve for you.
Ben
(benacre) QUOTE (firefighter1 @ Jun 19 2008, 07:29 AM) *
I would first like to say that I'm a first time poster. I would also like to thank the creator for such a great community of people and knowledge.
(firefighter1) QUOTE (nop1 @ Jun 15 2008, 07:32 PM) *
Hey,
I'm kind of new here and I think this site is great; I would like thank the creator.
(nop1 ) QUOTE (pibbish @ Jun 15 2008, 10:46 PM) *
Its nice to see a forum with decent people for once, so its nice to meet everyone!
(pibbish) QUOTE (dooger @ Jun 13 2008, 12:30 PM) *
Thanks for all your help. I know I'm all over the place now. I'm so scared, as I have been many times over the past 6 months, and this board has been helpful.
(dooger ) QUOTE (livingwithBPD @ Jun 13 2008, 09:11 AM) *
I haven't tried much to help with my depression. I find this DF does help me since there always someone online that willing to listen and give me some sort support. So far my medication isn't helping nor is my pdoc.
(livingwithBPD) QUOTE (sunandmoon @ Jun 12 2008, 10:41 PM) *
Thank you to eveyone who posted, it is so helpful to have some sort of support. I really have no one else to talk to about this regularly.
This forum reallly helps, I wish I had known about it last year.
(sunandmoon) QUOTE (IowaGuy @ Jun 12 2008, 03:20 PM) *
Isa thank you so much for your kind words! Our relationship is REALLY blossoming. My meds are actualy starting to work (my pdoc is the best). Its one day at a time still, but overall things are going alright. It helps that EVERYTHING is out on the table with her and she totaly understands how I feel.
Thank you all so much for your support. This forum is such a saving grace!
(IowaGuy ) QUOTE (ouch @ Jun 9 2008, 07:27 AM) *
Hello all - It seems like you have a really nice community here. It seems really comforting to have a place to go where you won't be judged and you can be really straight-forward with people who have had some of the same negative feelings.
For anyone who gives up some of their time to help someone else, you deserve a big fat THANK YOU!
(ouch) QUOTE (BlueJim @ Jun 8 2008, 07:14 PM) *
Thank you both kindly for the replies. It's a wonderfully helpful site with great members, I'm happy I stumbled across it.
Thanks again.
Jim
(BlueJim) QUOTE (derlyn @ Jun 5 2008, 08:31 PM) *
so what does this sound like? just depression? or something more?
btw, thanks for taking me seriously. this is a wonderful site :)
(derlyn ) QUOTE (Always Trying @ Jun 24 2008, 02:06 PM) *
Hello to all,
I was just daydreaming and found myself focusing on that one thread that binds all of us here in the DF together.
Everyone of us came here for the same reason, seeking compassion and understanding and maybe some education
and even a friend or three. And whether we meet each other in some way or not, we are still connected.
It's almost as if we are a profession of our own. Beauticians, lawyers, waitress's, computer whizzes, all of the typical and even atypical
professions bind themselves together by the use of forums, and weekly newsletters and meetings and such.
And here all of us are, bound for the same reasons, in a selected meeting place. We come in and we go, looking for an old
friend or maybe a new one. Our 'magnetism' is at work within. Aren't we all lucky to have each other?
Aren't we all lucky to have this meeting place?
Despite our afflictions, we still have the capacity to find others in common and share our feelings. Whether we simply commiserate
or offer true words of hope, someone is always here for the other.
We are lucky for this.
Maybe it's time we thank the people who are directly responsible for creating this haven, as they suffer the same as the rest
of us do. But they went an extra step to make a place that is open to all. Thank heavens for the strong. May their weaknesses
lessen and their wisdom grow.
And thank you - for being here for me.
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(Always Trying) QUOTE (JohnDoe @ May 29 2008, 08:55 AM) *
i feel much less over all depressed since i last posted here......i think it just helped me to know that i am not alone and to get all that off my chest
(JohnDoe) QUOTE (DustyRoad @ May 22 2008, 06:55 PM) *
Our home here at Depression Forum is truely a long standing place to seek support and stability. That is a worthy mission statement to uphold. My roots have strongly grabbed on to it's foundations. I like the members, mods and admins. I am not sure but would guess this has more traffic in and out with people than any other similar site.
Like the New York City of Mental Forums with lots of opinions, ideas and resources to help people in need.
I am not the best with words, lucky sometimes . I feel lucky today. Anyone else?
Dusty
(DustyRoad ) QUOTE (figtoaster @ May 15 2008, 03:58 AM) *
Hi, new to these forums but they have already given me so much invaluable information - thank you all!
(figtoaster ) QUOTE (infractus @ May 16 2008, 10:29 AM) *
hello hello hello
I have found my people. I see so many people with similar stories and issues. How very sad that there are so many but thank God Im not alone.
Having only reciently been diagnosed, I am looking for answers. I have already absorbed so much information that can explain so many events in my life. Thank you for that.
Thanks for being here. I am incredibly excited to have found this forum and I am looking forward to posting.
Infractus (its latin)
(infractus ) QUOTE (docpit @ May 13 2008, 04:14 PM) *
THANK YOU so much for the support, sometimes you just need a hug and I really appreciate the forum for that support. Thank you again
(docpit ) QUOTE (Karr @ May 7 2008, 09:55 PM) *
Thanks EVER SO MUCH....
oh, this site is the best.
I needed this.
(Karr) QUOTE (SCIROCCO @ May 1 2008, 12:14 PM) *
I also found this site one night when I was trying to come up with an "accident". This feeling has got to be the worst there is. I read all of the stuff about calling help lines and going to the er and whatnot. I actually considered calling the number but couldn't bring myself to do it. What really helped me was telling a friend. It was probably one of the hardest things I ever did. And I bawled like a baby. I never do that... at least not when people can see me. And it really really helped. It literally felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. And now that I think about it, it turned what was the worst possible feeling into a good feeling. Strange...???
The other thing that really helps me is this forum. I'm a bipolar guy that spends most of the time depressed. I pretty frequently end up thinking of ways to have an "accident". It really really helps me to come on here and just read other people's posts and comments and replies. I felt like I was the only person in the world like myself until I found this place. Now I guess I feel pretty "normal". Because there really is no normal.
The advice up there is good. I'd definitely do something. If you tell someone they won't take it lightly and won't be judgmental. Family and friends, doctors, crisis centers all care about helping you.
(SCIROCCO) QUOTE (heartbroken @ May 6 2008, 08:24 AM) *
Hi Everyone!
I just found this forum last night, I wish I had thought about searching for it sooner!
Anyway, I really find it so comforting.. Thank you!
See ya around the boards!
(heartbroken) QUOTE (Whitelily @ May 4 2008, 03:18 PM) *
Thanks forum administrator for a place where we can share in this misunderstood illness...thanks for the opportunity that is safe, communicative, and supportive.
(Whitelily ) QUOTE (sila @ Apr 24 2008, 10:18 AM) *
Hey there!
My name's Stephen, I'm a 29 year old single father of 1 from New Zealand and I suffer from social anxiety and depression. I've had a pretty bad week and am about as down as I have ever been so I decided to try and find others like myself online...which is what brings me here. In the short time I've been here I have come to see that this is a wonderful place full of awesome people.
I hope to get to know many of you better.
Much love,
Stephen
(sila ) QUOTE (Scarlet Rose @ Apr 22 2008, 07:30 PM) *
And I really love it here. I registered during a very difficult situation today, and already I am feeling the benefits of having joined!
(Scarlet Rose ) QUOTE (Sweetdream Angel @ Apr 20 2008, 03:39 PM) *
P.S. Recently people here on DF have become people kinda role models. People I look to for advice and guidance.
(Sweetdream Angel ) QUOTE (DreamingRecovery @ Apr 20 2008, 01:30 PM) *
This site looks so cozy and comfortable. I've checked posts and the support seems great!
(DreamingRecovery) QUOTE (mephisto @ Apr 17 2008, 01:52 AM) *
Thank you! I already feel a little better reading through these posts; honestly, my problems seem rather minor compared to some, but it's nice to see all the support available! Great forum!
(mephisto) QUOTE (Dominique @ Apr 12 2008, 10:59 PM) *
Hi, I'm Dominique, I just became a member, and wanted to introduce myself. This is the first time I've ever made a post in a forum, they always seemed intimidating to me I suppose, I'm feeling good about finding "Depression Forms" though. I can tell already there are warm, kind-hearted, and understanding people on here, and the whole vibe of your community feels safe, and supportive.
So...I thought it would be good to join this community ..... and I look forward to getting to know people here, and connect flowers.gif
Peace and hugs.....Dominique
(Dominique) QUOTE (Oddball @ Apr 3 2008, 01:43 PM) *
I'm new here, but this is a special thanks to everyone who's been so kind to me on all boards (Wellbutrin, Depression, Poetry, Anxiety.. all of em).
Thank you Mods for what you do, and this is just a great community. I'm super happy I found it!! sigh.gif
And nooooo, this isn't the wellbutrin speaking!!! stare.gif
(Oddball) QUOTE (kels @ Apr 2 2008, 12:35 AM) *
Thank you for a great forum...I found more healing and sense here than I have in therapy!
(kels ) QUOTE (Darken @ Mar 13 2008, 04:52 PM) *
Hi Everyone,
Let me first thank you all for your well wishes and offerings of support. Your comments, suggestions and support really did help me seek the proper help for my condition. If not for sincere comments like those from Soleil and Burgy who knows where I'd be. Angel brought me your comments while I was in the hospital and it really made my day.
For those who have been following this thread let me update you on what happend. I was in danger of being taken to the hospital against my will after Angel became involved. She made calls and had the abilty to do just that, yet gave me the space and time to prepare my life for this big change. On the day I was to make the call to the hospital I chose..everything seemed to go wrong and my planning and choices went up in smoke. I was in danger of going to a general hospital and that is something I was not prepared to accept. In the end my fears and panic were dismissed as I finally got the courage to call the hospital myself and they agreed to admit me that night.
Let me make this next part clear...my hospital stay was the most amazing experience of my life. After a night and day of severe anxiety because of where I was and some of the people that were in this ward, I realised many of the 35 people in the unit were just like me. My choice of hospitals was certainly the best decision I ever made as the structure of your help in this particular hospital is all up to you. Aside from seeing the Pdoc every morning the rest of my day was my choice. If I wanted to attend one of 13 groups I could, if I wanted to sit in my room all day I could do that too. I obviously opted for the groups and this being my first experience at all with something like that I found myself really enjoying the interaction and information being presented. At the end of the first day I was literally a totally different person as opposed to when I went in. This was not due to any medication, it was merely the stress free environment and the ability to control my life and help in the way I needed to. By the end of the third day I truly did not want to leave. No outside pressures, no work, no home stress just the tools and people to help me get straight again. This coupled with Angel's renewed support made me feel like I haven't felt in years. I spent a week in the hospital and really felt I was ready to leave when the time came...as it turned out I most certainly was not.
Let me briefly touch on meds. The Pdoc at first wanted to put me on Lexapro, I was not totally against that idea as I have seen many success stories on this very site (at least in the beginning). In the end though I did not feel a drug more geared for anxiety (which I do not have) was the best choice for me, nor did I want to deal with the side effects of SSRI's. After doing research and speaking to others on here I thought Wellbutrin might be a good start as it is a stimulant and may be better at treating just depression. The doctor listened to my concerns and agreed to begin with the WB. My first three days on this med were not good at all. They were concerned about seizures as I had an odd feeling in the front part of my head which developed into a killer headache for three days. I also had the blurred vision, dry mouth and a general uncomfortable 'physical' feeling. I discussed my concerns with the Pdoc and I agreed to give it time. After the third day the side affects disappeared and have not returned since. I did not knowingly experience the early 'kick' of this drug, although as I've said I felt incredible in the hospital....since getting out it seems to only help with a general feeling of a 'clear' head as opposed to the muddled mess I felt before. I am on the lower dose for the moment so perhaps if moved to the 300 mg I may find more benefits.
I will not post my experience after the hospital on this post as I really wanted to convey my appreciation for all of your support and also to let people know who were thinking of, or are fearful of going to the hospital that the help there is invaluable. I chose a specific Behavioral Health hospital and I would encourage anyone else to do the same, from talking to people in there who have been through many different 'wards' the BH hospital was much less structured and far more geared to help yourself, rather then push in on you. This was the perfect receipe for me. Also none of them looked down on the fact that I was suicidal and almost went through with it, instead they worked on making me feel safe both in the hospital and out.
Darken
(Darken) QUOTE (Darken @ Mar 30 2008, 11:44 AM) *
Thank god I found you all and this incredible site.
(Darken) QUOTE (mikey @ Mar 25 2008, 04:34 PM) *
I've just been offered a job after 3 months being unemployed and moneyless. Yay!
I've just found a great new depression forum! This one! taz.gif
(mikey) QUOTE (crunch87 @ Mar 7 2008, 06:58 AM) *
Hi Hopey! I love DF too! hearts.gif
(crunch87 ) QUOTE (HopefulOne @ Mar 7 2008, 06:46 AM) *
Morning, Crunch!! Hopey here. tongue.gif
I love DF. Just had to say it....
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(HopefulOne ) QUOTE (hellnbak @ Mar 5 2008, 10:57 AM) *
I love DF
Thank God for DF
(hellnbak ) QUOTE (Trekgirl @ Mar 6 2008, 08:55 AM) *
Again thank you all SO MUCH!! Without you guys today, I would be a MESS!!! I am very blessed to have such kind and caring people in my life!!
(Trekgirl ) QUOTE (gaugreg1x @ Mar 2 2008, 11:02 AM) *
Once again I am so thankful I have found this forum, I feel like many of you are like friends.
(gaugreg1x) QUOTE (Darken @ Feb 19 2008, 12:10 PM) *
Well let me compliment this forum. I wasn't sure what I was feeling when I came here seeking advice. Through the thoughtfullness of so many members I have come to realise not only what I'm going through is not uncommon, but also there is a supporting group of people out there who can help when your feeling down or alone. Thank you DF, if not for you and your members I may not have been here to respond.
((Darken) QUOTE (thedougwilson @ Feb 17 2008, 04:06 PM) *
i also did the google thing. i think i was looking up depression help +chat +forums lol . and this was the third or fourth site i checked out, and the only one i liked. the others had too many ads and stupid layouts. not very inviting, but this place....is really great, thanks to all who created it.
(thedougwilson) QUOTE (laralee @ Feb 17 2008, 05:15 PM) *
{{{{{{{{ }}}}}}}}}}}} to everyone here. This truly is a remarkable place. A place to laugh and a place to cry.
From the bottom of my heart..................................
Thank You Everyone
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(laralee) QUOTE (xoxoguy30 @ Feb 7 2008, 11:32 PM) *
This forum is great. A lot of information and a lot of great people.
(xoxoguy30) QUOTE (NewVoid @ Feb 1 2008, 04:44 PM) *
I have to say this forum has the most caring people, plus it's truly the best format I've ever seen for a forum. Very easy to navigate. The personal assistant is excellent. There's even games like tetris which can really take your mind off of negativity. I hope the chat gets fixed. smile.gif
(NewVoid) QUOTE (dtm @ Mar 25 2008, 04:39 AM) *
You know, I've been involved in lots of online communities, but I've never met so many great people in one place before. wub.gif
(dtm) QUOTE (DaniBanani @ Jan 2 2008, 06:12 AM) *
Hi! I feel the same as most people here. I joined DF only a few months ago when I was at my lowest time ever in life. Since then, I have improved and looking forward to reading and talking to people has meant a lot to me as the days go by. Some of my issues take time to resolve and DF has been helping me with passing the time. I have also found some people on here who I would consider friends and some great advice on how to get better. Without DF I would be in a bad state. Thanks to all who volunteer to help us. I really need it! wub.gif wub.gif wub.gif
(QUOTE (DaniBanani @ Jan 2 2008, 06:12 AM) *) QUOTE (Grizzly_Guy @ Jan 1 2008, 11:21 PM) *
this forum is one of the only places Ive felt accepted....thank you so much to the staff and other members here a DF...youve made a world of difference to me.
Coopclapping.gif THANK YOU DF!!! Coopclapping.gif
(QUOTE (Grizzly_Guy @ Jan 1 2008, 11:21 PM) *) QUOTE (duggie @ Jan 1 2008, 01:01 PM) *
Bless all of you who Volunteer your time on the DF!!!! You are making a difference in people's lives!!
Doug smile.gif
(QUOTE (duggie @ Jan 1 2008, 01:01 PM) *) QUOTE (Sundown @ Jan 1 2008, 12:37 PM) *
yea I just have to agree
this place is great!
you guys literally saved my life
thank you wub.gif
(QUOTE (Sundown @ Jan 1 2008, 12:37 PM) *) QUOTE (Cupid22 @ Jan 3 2008, 07:26 PM) *
Whew, that's SUCH a relief. I am REALLY thankful for this forum, it's so good to be able to talk with people who understand where i'm coming from. If I were to mention this kind of stuff to some of my friends, or even anyone for that matter, i'd get a look as if I was insane & needed to be on something. (Which to some extent, I guess I do! LMAO.)
I'm going to keep pressing forth, tonight i'm gonna go pick up my prescription for Effexor & get started on that, I hope I see some results. I was trying to do this on my own, but I see it's almost near impossible, unless I load on on Xanax all day, but then all I want to do is SLEEP SLEEP SLEEP, & that is NOT an option.
Anyways, let me stop rambling, thanks so much for all your reassurance you guys, it's so great to have met you so to speak. hugs.gif
(QUOTE (Cupid22 @ Jan 3 2008, 07:26 PM) *) QUOTE (hbircharo @ Jan 1 2008, 03:17 AM) *
I been a member of this Depression forum for a year and it has help me in more way then one. Thanks to the staff for your vision and hard work. Thanks to everyone for being so supportive, and the wonderful advice, and for a "safe haven" to vent out problems and to find different ways of finding a solution to those problems. I was advised by my therapist to find a support group...I went home and Googled for depression forums and your site come up first. I read for awhile to get comfortable and like the environment that I joined the DF family. Posting on DF has been an important part of my recovery. My therapist and I had to revise my individual plan today, she asked how I am doing on control my depression? I answered her by saying that I read and reply to topics on your site to find the courage to guidance on how to approach my depression for that day. I am so greatful that I have joined a caring and great website. Very thankful it is available. I thank all the moderators for their great work!
(QUOTE (hbircharo @ Jan 1 2008, 03:17 AM) *) QUOTE (lifegotcold @ Dec 27 2007, 05:13 PM) *
I'm glad i found DF. I love this place and i know i dont post much and i'm not really that interesting but just being on here makes me feel better. I love the people you are all great wub.gif and i really mean that. I could not imagine my life without DF now. hearts.gif
(QUOTE (lifegotcold @ Dec 27 2007, 05:13 PM) *) QUOTE (lifegotcold @ Dec 27 2007, 05:13 PM) *
I'm glad i found DF. I love this place and i know i dont post much and i'm not really that interesting but just being on here makes me feel better. I love the people you are all great wub.gif and i really mean that. I could not imagine my life without DF now. hearts.gif
(QUOTE (lifegotcold @ Dec 27 2007, 05:13 PM) *) QUOTE (crunch87 @ Dec 10 2007, 09:27 PM) *
I am sooooo glad I found DF. I was feeling extremely depressed, opened up the laptop and did a little search. I don't know anyone particularly well, but just to be around people that understand, and to read things that sound similar makes me feel less like an alien visitor on Earth mad1.gif I want to thank you all for being so nice and open, and expecially the moderators. You guys rock!
(QUOTE (crunch87 @ Dec 10 2007, 09:27 PM) *) QUOTE (QNA @ Dec 11 2007, 08:27 AM) *
Some of you may have noticed from my posts that I generally have a low opinion of mankind and where we are going. I wanted to extend my deepest thanks to all of you guys for helping me to open my eyes to the goodness that we can do, and to the light that we can find...on our own and with others. We may wreak horrors, but we are also capable of miracles.
That goes for all of you.
Thank you.
(QUOTE (QNA @ Dec 11 2007, 08:27 AM) *) QUOTE (Obsessing @ Dec 8 2007, 07:54 PM) *
If I could I would take all the pain from all the people here and ball it up and swallow it for you all!!
You are all beautiful, caring, sharing people who don't deserve the pain.
And I know I can't but really if I could I would I have been reading posts for about an hour now and I just think you people are so wonderful that if I could take it from you I would.
(QUOTE (Obsessing @ Dec 8 2007, 07:54 PM) *) QUOTE (svendorrian @ Dec 3 2007, 07:21 PM) *
Thank You Depression Forums
You have helped me alot.
You so much invaluable information here, I am indeed thankful to have come here.
Since I have come here, I have gotten better indeed, and I feel better.
But I am not leaving the forums, I will just frequent the many other forums here,
specifically the ones that apply to my situation.
If it was not for Depression Forums, I can not say exactly what my condition would be,
but it would not be good.....not good at all.
There are so much information, and words of wisdom, so much to learn by going through all of the different forums, and whether you look into your particular situation, or just to find general answers or advice...
I listened, EVEN WHEN I DID NOT WANT TO..... and it has helped me..
I am smiling right now, and sometimes when I am smiling I may come across as being cocky when I type, I am sorry.. I am just happy..
I am peaceful....happy... and content....
and if I did not come here and finally face the true realities in front of me,
I would still be suffering.....
THANK YOU, DEPRESSION FORUMS....
THANK YOU.
(QUOTE (svendorrian @ Dec 3 2007, 07:21 PM) *) QUOTE (stuguinea @ Nov 28 2007, 09:09 PM) *
DF is a wonderful site that I stumbled upon during one of my greatest bouts of depression. Considering the large number of topics and threads available on the site I believe there is something for everyone here. In many cases I considered DF my therapist. The warm, inviting community provides a safe place to discuss your innermost thoughts (regardless how disturbing you think they may be) without fear of being judged or labeled. The community is understanding and the advice provided by the moderators and members is very good.
I have told others who I know are suffering from depression about this great website. What is disappointing is that when I try to illicit feedback from them about the site, they reply they have not had time to look at it. I tell them that they do not realize what a valuable resource this is. I believe all therapists should direct their patients to this website in order to ease their suffering. Unfortunately my therapists have never heard of it when I mention the name. At first they seem curious but nothing is ever mentioned after the initial conservation.
Great website. Very thankful it is available.
(QUOTE (stuguinea @ Nov 28 2007, 09:09 PM) *) QUOTE (stuguinea @ Nov 28 2007, 09:09 PM) *
DF is a wonderful site that I stumbled upon during one of my greatest bouts of depression. Considering the large number of topics and threads available on the site I believe there is something for everyone here. In many cases I considered DF my therapist. The warm, inviting community provides a safe place to discuss your innermost thoughts (regardless how disturbing you think they may be) without fear of being judged or labeled. The community is understanding and the advice provided by the moderators and members is very good.
I have told others who I know are suffering from depression about this great website. What is disappointing is that when I try to illicit feedback from them about the site, they reply they have not had time to look at it. I tell them that they do not realize what a valuable resource this is. I believe all therapists should direct their patients to this website in order to ease their suffering. Unfortunately my therapists have never heard of it when I mention the name. At first they seem curious but nothing is ever mentioned after the initial conservation.
Great website. Very thankful it is available.
(QUOTE (stuguinea @ Nov 28 2007, 09:09 PM) *) QUOTE (Tweed @ Nov 23 2007, 05:00 PM) *
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Spreading the love! I too have never posted on such a warm, welcoming and loving forum.(been to a few not-so-nice ones!) Seriously can't believe how well oiled this machine is. Everyone involved in this forum is just amazing. This place has really helped me and more so than I expected!
hearts.gif Thank you so much DF!! bow.gif
(QUOTE (Tweed @ Nov 23 2007, 05:00 PM) *) QUOTE (Battousai @ Nov 23 2007, 07:45 AM) *
Thank you guys for responding, your kind words helped me out more than you know. I didn't relapse smile.gif I just ended up watching episodes of "Naruto" (anime cartoon) until I went to sleep at like 6am. Today I was extremely thankful I didn't relapse and that I have outlets like this site to turn to. Thanks again smile.gif (Battousai) QUOTE (scarletworld @ Nov 22 2007, 06:47 PM) *
Don't know if anyone is around from way back when, when I was on all the time. I left to live life a little and now I'm back. I logged on here today for the first time in... ohhh, i dont know... almost a year? and it was just so comforting to even just SEE the site again. Back in the day, the kind people here probably literally saved my life... and I want to thank you all for that. nod.gif Lots has changed for both the good and the bad and I want to share some of that here in the form of (hopefully) helpful advice to others which has also been a comfort to me even in hard times. So, how is everyone? smile.gif (scarletworld) QUOTE (QUOTE (MichaelBlue @ Nov 7 2007, 09:47 AM)
I have to say something, Suburgatory. I only discovered this forum a few days ago (although it feels like months, given the hours I'm browsing it!). And your posts really do stand out in my mind. I have found them very insightful, intelligent, inspiring and sensible. They've given me much comfort in a very dark, wretched period. And I'm confident that others feel the same way about how much you have gifted people with your knowledge. Thank you for this. (MichaelBlue) QUOTE (Sundown @ Nov 6 2007, 03:15 PM) *
I hope you guys are okay and you are having a good day. and i also wanted to say this websites great but it really is the people who are on it that makes it awsome rolleyes.gif (Sundown) QUOTE (Sundown @ Nov 1 2007, 09:32 PM) *
((hugs)) for the admin/moderators for doing a good job on this website, its great hugs.gif and (((hugs))) for everyone else cause you all deserve it, your all great (Sundown) QUOTE (Sideways @ Oct 28 2007, 05:16 PM) *
I've been lurking a bit lately and found this place to be a really helpful resource! Thanks to the founders and moderators of the forum - it really makes a difference. (Sideways) QUOTE (QNA @ Oct 24 2007, 08:35 PM) *
To All: Thanks for providing a place for a recluse like myself to vent to begin with. It helps...it truly helps. I appreciate it, and I find that-even with my hypertrophied vocabulary*-I do not have the words to properly do so other than to simply say: Thank you. (*how often does someone get to use the word 'hypertrophied' in a sentence? About as often as someone gets to say the word 'infinitessimal!!! I love it!!!) (QNA) QUOTE (Deep Breath @ Oct 16 2007, 10:34 AM) *
To everyone here that set aside their pain, reach outside themselves and ease anothers suffering, it's reinforcing something I have long known deep down. The true test of my character is how I am when I'm not in the mood. Thanks so much, Deep Breath (Deep Breath) QUOTE(GinnyP @ Sep 22 2007, 01:33 AM) *
I gave her 2 of the emergency numbers I knew I'd find help here. The International Hotlines section is great, by the way. A lot of websites are still concerned only with what happens in their country, and DF is one of the rare forums where you can find international contacts. (-GinnyP) QUOTE(GimmeGimmeMore @ Sep 19 2007, 10:00 AM) *
I'm looking forward to learning more about this drug and chatting with you all. Thanks for this valuable resource! (-GimmeGimmeMore) QUOTE(azncollegegurl21 @ Sep 15 2007, 07:57 AM)
Hi. I use to come here and post all the time when I was going through a really rough time. Not sure if anyone remembers me or not, haven't been here in a long time. Thanks to the people who helped me when I was down and thanks for this site! (-azncollegegurl21) Depression Forums has helped me so much. Not only does it help to talk to people experiancing similar things, but many of the members also help because they have a lot of knowledge that helpes depression. This site has been so great for me. When I have felt alone, it has shown me I have friends and people who care about me.
(So Many Great People) QUOTE(keren_za @ Sep 2 2007, 01:04 PM) *
FRIENDS, I thank you all. I love you. I love you for being who you are. Silly me, Now I'm crying...IT IS NOT EASY FOR ANY OF US. being part of this amazing community-I find it so very comforting. You represent a piece of Trueness and beauty in a world which can (often) be very frightening. keren. (-keren_za) QUOTE(its4rboys @ Sep 1 2007, 04:11 PM) *
Thanks YOU ALL ARE THE BEST!! God has answered my prayers today with all of you. Thank you. (-its4rboys) Thank You!! You will never know how much this forum has helped me over the past few weeks. I have gone from suicidal tendencies to being on top of the world. I've never felt better in my life!!!! And I'm not overstating that. If I had to choose between. ADs and DF, DF would win hands down.
Thanks again! Jeff (-ISeeBluePeople) QUOTE(Isabeau @ Aug 27 2007, 01:52 PM) *
Here, this site makes me smile, the people and everything about this place, even when I am know that I am going down hill and the moods change, I know I can call this place home. smile.gif Isabeau (-Isabeau) QUOTE(Joanna @ Aug 25 2007, 02:46 AM) *
Hi Hedgehog and Suburgatory! Yes, I see you guys are both moderators, and a wonderful job you do too! Thank you for all your great posts! I guess I'm still in the "not yet in remission" stage so I seek solace here more than I am able to give it! I agree this website really is a godsend.....the educational resources, active message-board community and great blogging section are better than anything comparable I have found elsewhere on the web. Long may DF continue! smile.gif Joanna (-Joanna) QUOTE(marak88 @ Aug 24 2007, 08:38 PM) *
I forgive myself for all the hurtful and harmful things I have done and said to me Thank you to the person who started this board, this is so helpful to forgive and release all the tough emotions behind our thoughts! hearts.gif (-marak88) QUOTE Aug 25 2007, 10:02 PM
So I started looking into this stuff and found these forums and was impressed by how supportive people were and how much information is out there. The front page was stunningly informative and as depression was explained, I felt like someone was talking right to me on some of the points. - perplexed, in Welcome to DF! (- perplexed) Aug 21 2007, 08:43 PM
Each day I feel that I am lucky I found this place, its a special place with so many special and caring people just like yourself. HUGS Isabeau ( -Isabeau) QUOTE(MJY @ Aug 12 2007, 04:03 PM) *
Thank you all for your kind and reassuring words ! It's true, this forum has a wealth of information. (-MJY) QUOTE(peledog @ Jul 24 2007, 08:19 PM) *
To the moderators and forum creators, thank you. (-peledog) QUOTE(nofunanymore @ Jul 30 2007, 09:15 AM) *
Thanks for the service you provide. (-nofunanymore) I just wanted to take a minute to thank sheepwoman for responding to so many of my posts.
It's people like you that make all of this a little easier. You're the first other person I've ever talked to that has went longer than my son without sleep. It's just nice to know there's other people out there going through the same things (-slw) QUOTE
QUOTE(Useless1999 @ Jul 24 2007, 12:40 AM) * It's Like my heart is being ripped out ----------- I'm pretty new here, but I already feel like I've found a lot of understanding and acceptance, and you will too. And your heart won't hurt so much, and it'll feel like it's found its place -- here. tbeav's response in "How do you describe the pain of depression?" (-tbeav) Jul 23 2007, 12:55 PM
Either way, I have read a lot of your posts and I think what you do (and have to say) is great. Thanks so much. Dave Props given to Bean, from Blue1991! (- Blue1991) QUOTE(Isabeau @ Jul 20 2007, 11:26 PM)
Something good about the world is we have this place to call home where people understand us and I am so grateful I found this place yesterday. Isabeau (-Isabeau) QUOTE07-14-07
I've been a forum mod/admin before, but this board is much different, and thankfully much nicer. [You all are doing a wonderful job. I haven't seen any of the usual trolls, spammers or rude members who need spanking/banning]. butterflyfree: (-butterflyfree:) QUOTE(happy fish @ Jul 12 2007, 07:36 AM) *
QUOTE(lambvet @ Jul 11 2007, 05:55 PM) * Welcome happyfish welcomeani.gif Thank you for the warm welcome. blush21.gif This is a great forum, my compliments to the builders/maintainers. (-happy fish) QUOTE(DUSTYROAD @ Jul 2 2007, 12:25 PM) *
But it does take a very special person to be a sucessful, balanced, fair mod. Like KA. who I know the most out of all the reg mods is just wonderful and ppl like her are not low hangin fruit. Dusty (-DUSTYROAD) QUOTE(Zell @ Jul 1 2007, 11:22 AM) *
It's nice to be here. Thank you for the great support this site offers. (-Zell) UOTE(cookiecrumbs @ Jun 28 2007, 05:08 PM) *
Sarah ~ Thank you for being such an encouragement to everyone. I realize that as a moderator that part of your job might be to welcome and encourage, but you excel in filling that role. Of all my emotional problems, my eating disorder has been the most secretive, hidden problem in my life. For almost 34 it's been a forbidden topic with family, friends, and doctors (both therapists and physicians). This is the first place where I've felt able to share a small portion of my struggle. Thank you for being sensitive and caring as you deal with each post on this forum. It must be difficult with an eating disorder of your own to constantly be put in the role of counselor, friend, encourager, and advisor when you need all of those things in your own battle. Thank you. Your honesty and kindness is greatly appreciated. icon12.gif (-cookiecrumbs) QUOTE(moviesign @ Jun 24 2007, 08:53 PM) *
Hi there, lurker to the forum for a while, decided to finally introduce myself. This is a great place, keep up the good work. Mark (-moviesign) UOTE(GabrielleC @ Jun 22 2007, 05:04 PM) *
Hello, This is GabrielleC, I just found this forum. I still feel a little lost, but it's exciting to find a forum with so many people who understand! Wow. I'm thrilled to have found this site! Thanks for it, for all the help and support I can see that you give. You mods are amazing... I don't believe you are paid to do this, eh? Well if I had my say you'd garner six figures, what you do is that important. So, thanks again! Now, I'm off to poke around and peek into some of the other threads here... hope I don't get lost... smile.gif (-GabrielleC) from annon99
QUOTE BTW - The forum software/features are great - kudos to whoever came up with it. annon99 (-annon99) QUOTE(Doohicky @ Jun 20 2007, 04:12 PM) *
Df is truly.......magical. Everyone here is willing to help and as we are all goin through roughly the same thing everyone understands. It's great, just thought i'd show my love for Df and all its members, mods and admins. Coopclapping.gif GO DF!!!! Doohicky (-Doohicky) QUOTE(Tanha @ May 23 2007, 10:02 PM) *
*hugs* I know how you feel...I often feel like an outsider here so it's hard for me to post at times, but I know I have a few friends here who care. I love the forum and that's why I stay. There's such a wide variety of people with all kinds of experiences to learn from...plus I need all the help I can get. (-Tanha) QUOTE(robinbird @ Jun 15 2007, 03:43 PM) *
Hi everyone. I found this forum when I was searching for information about side effects of Lexapro. There is so much useful information here...I'm so glad I found this place. Thanks for such a great forum...I've lurked a few times before joining and everyone seems so helpful and friendly. (-robinbird) QUOTE(dondi2538 @ Jun 14 2007, 08:10 PM) *
Thanks, and I will let you know how it's going. I do love this site. (-dondi2538) QUOTE(robinbird @ Jun 15 2007, 03:43 PM) *
Hi everyone. I found this forum when I was searching for information about side effects of Lexapro. There is so much useful information here...I'm so glad I found this place. I've been depressed for several years now, was diagnosed with dysthymia about 3 years ago (which is the first time I ever told anyone about my depression), and I just started Lexapro this past October. Like I said, I found this place when I was researching side effects...I've been ridiculously tired on Lexapro, but other than that I'm doing ok on it. Thanks for such a great forum...I've lurked a few times before joining and everyone seems so helpful and friendly. (-robinbird) QUOTE(Awaken @ Jun 13 2007, 03:34 AM) *
I don't wish to go off topic here but I just wanted to second the view that this is simply the best forum I have ever seen on the web, not just about depression but in terms of clarity of layout, friendliness and information. A truly wonderful site that I am very glad I discovered! Ok...back on topic lol (-Awaken) I just wanted to second the view that this is simply the best forum I have ever seen on the web, not just about depression but in terms of clarity of layout, friendliness and information. A truly wonderful site that I am very glad I discovered!
(Awaken) [i]Thanks again for the support- I always know I can count on the people here to help me out![/i]
(Indigo Girl) I absolutely love this site, it has been a great support and comfort to me. Thanks again for being here.
(Lambvet) "Thanks for being so helpful. Im glad I found this site the other night. I think it will be helpful to know that there are other "sad people" in the world that I can talk to."
(-turtleshell) I do just LOVE everyone here at DF, I have made so many great friends here who have made me understand life better.
(DUSTYROAD) You all are great. This site is awesome!!!
(maintainin) Thanks for the Birthday message, and thanks for a GREAT site.... Wonderful support and great people..... You saved my life.
Roger Xxxx 4-9-2007 (-cornirog) "From this awesome forum I've learned so many great things. It's invaluable."
(scissorhands) "Wonderful, so much info and inspiration. You lot have been a blessing, given me confidence to keep at it over the last few days."
(zebedee) I live alone and have no family support. This forum is awesome. THANKYOU!
(zebedee) To every single member of this forum, that includes those of you that made this place happen. I spent hours looking for an online therapist. I didnt feel that I could relate to anyone, or have a chance to let out what is in my heart. Family is around me all the time, but I still felt alone. I came across this forum, and I no longer cried tears that made me feel I was alone, but tears of joy... I finally found a place I feel I can belong. I didnt even need to start my own topics, as many of the members spoke for me. Hopefully I will be able to get better here. Be able to let out what needs to be let out... and help others like myself.
Bless you all ... and thank you... (_Sarah_) "Thank you for all the great articles.This is such a great website."
-Lisa (lisa1972 @ Mar 14 2007, 01:10 AM) "A wonderful bunch of humankind........
Hello everyone.... Depression Forum has created a place of warmth in the internet world. A place of dialog between PPL from around the world bringing together a diversity of thoughts from those who share a common feeling and need for friendship and trust which is at times impossible to achieve in the everyday world. From Australia to the USA to Britain to South America to Canada. People in chat all getting along sharing the birth of their children, going to college, working while I chat has become a real help in my own dealing with anxiety as it gives me a break. The men and ladies are the best I have ever come across. FEEL THE LOVE....... Thanks for the gift of this lovely place," -Dusty (DustyRoad) Wow! The support here is just amazing and it is encouraging to hear so many people respond who "get it."
(-BrooklynRider) "i just can't get enough of this place. feel like i'm glued to my monitor hitting refresh all the time. so happy DF is here for me.
thanks for all your support guys". -Julie (flippingout) "I don't post all the time But I log on daily.
I am addicted too. (To DF) DF has helped me recover. I have been here two years now. I have my ups and downs. But some people here are family now. and now you know that." (littleblackduck) "The new upgrade looks sleek."
(-flippingout) "I 2nd that! The forums look spectacular!!!"
(-Beanchop99) "I would bake you cookies for this effort if you were around , seriously.
We must be the coolest forum on the face of earth now." (- Shrink) "QUOTE
Hi there, Lindsay........., I don't know if you're entirely responsible for this website of if you simply just contribute a heck of a lot, but I just wanted to say "thanks" from the bottom of my heart!!! I don't know where you're at.......(depressed? Anxiety sufferer? Panic attacks?)......but I assume you've been there?? Anyway, regardless of how whole or partially vested you are in this website, I commend you. I think it is great.......I'm so glad I found it! I (as others) have noticed an influx of new folks (like myself) joining. As I've said before, I honestly think some of it has to do with the season.....(every episode in my life has been in Nov/Dec/Jan/Feb).......and I could speculate about weather, sunlight, etc. but regardless of *my* reasons, I'm assuming the common ones may be why we're seeing more people here lately. I hate this disease and while I'm not suicidal, I just wish there wasn't so much suffering. Anyway, before I turn this into a pitty-party, I just want to say thanks again!! I don't see you in the forums I frequent, but see you on the (DF) front pages everyday!!! Thanks again" (-Dooin' it) "Thanks so much for your kind words Eileen. I'm having a bit of a hard time at the moment and your message really makes things more bearable.
From the day I registered you made me feel very welcome around the forums. DF helped me a lot in the past few months and it was a relief to have found such a supportive group of people." (-Autumn) "Thanks so much. I finally feel like I can talk about myself and be understood and not criticized. I already feel such a connection to so many people here. I've been dealing with my issues for decades and have never found a place like this. I have already learned so much and hope the help I've given has been useful. I'm so grateful for this place. Already I've laughed and cried. I finally feel home. Thanks for a place to be understood."
(-Two of Me) "hank you so much Coop. I really appreciate your help and fast response on
this. That is so kind of you." :) (-nucleusgirl) "You have no idea what this means to me.
Yes, I may be having a difficult time at home, but knowing that at least one person is thinking about how I'm doing is so great. So thankyou, Erin, so much." (-Helpless_broken) "I cant thank those of you who helped me with this situation enough, if it wasnt for you my life...could have missed one of, if not the only, biggest loves of my life. I thank you all so much, if there is ANYTHING i can ever do for any of you i will do it in a heart beat, its only a small sacrafice i can give to those of you who helped in this situation, you are all magnificent people.
rock on." (-Ben) "I do feel a bit of a fraud because i have improved so much and so quickly since joining this forum.
As i described previously i joined several months ago when i was seriously depressed. I have, i hope, left all that suicidal stuff behind. I have to say that this change is almost entirely due to DF. Thanks Lindsay and all." (-Compo) "
Thankyou very much, I have already made my self know in the OCD forum This is brilliant forum, very helpful and friendly, I think it will help me a great deal Thankyou!" (-Abi) "thank you again! that's why i love this place...it is so helpful when there are things we need to get off our mind, but we feel like others around us are so judgemental...but here (at DF) everyone is so openminded and supportive. i'm so glad i found it!"
(-quietCherub) "...Welcome to the DF forums, where everyone is more supportive than a sports bra. Its made a big difference to me. I hope its the same for you."
(-Ekavlije) "I'm so glad that I've found this site and forum, It makes me feel so much better about my depression and medication to know that other people are having similar experiences in Britain , America and Canada. I've learnt more about Efexor in the last few days through reading this forum than I have in the past few years from the medical profession. Keep up the good work."
(-shopgirl) "And here's to the amazing people on this forum -- a garden of blooms breaking through a sometimes darkened world."
(-kadykim) "on another note**** thank you admin team, moderators, webtechs, and everybody that started and has put work into making this website and these blogs possible, b/c its such a great thing for everybody, and has helped me so much!!! If i can ever help out in any way just let me know....."
(-Bookgal) "Thank you again! that's why i love this place...it is so helpful when there are things we need to get off our mind, but we feel like others around us are so judgemental...but here everyone is so openminded and supportive. i'm so glad i found it!"
(quietCherub) "I want to thank you and the powers that be here for having such a supportive environment.
Saying "I need help" is one of the hardest things I have ever said and/or done. Thanks" (Cazzandra) "No one here will judge or argue with you about your problems. Everyone here has issues we have to deal with on a daily basis and lets face it, it isn't easy for any of us. You will feel more than welcome to spill your heart out and all you'll get is people that are willing to listen and maybe offer some advise coming from someone who may have been in a similar situation as yours."
(pamschae) "So far I really like this forum finally somewhere that I can go and get some releif and answers 24/7"
(Carpe Noctem) "You guys are a lifesaver, I really dont have anyone to talk to about this stuff. My parents are emotionally oblivious. "
(MacGuyver) "I'm really happy to be on this forum. Firstable I want to congratulate, it's the best forum I've ever seen! Coopyahoo.gif I live in Poland and I wonder if I be able to understand english posts, I hope it won't be so hard. I have depression and I know it's a great place to share my experiences and get help. Kisses!"
(psychical) A true sucess that saves lives.
(RKeys) hello just want to say hello,and tell you all that this site have helpt me many times.
(from elin in norway) ...I have been away in the past when life & mood improved but I've come back . I am very grateful for a place like DF & all the great ppl here. You have no idea how much you have helped me: giving me perspective, encouragement, kindness.
(Orso) Ok, so I am not truly new here but it has been awhile. I have had it with many boards where there is constant bickering. I am happy to be back to a truly supportive community.
(Ocracoker16) I'd like to thank everyone who has been there for me through all the laughter and the tears, but especially through the last few weeks of my son's graduation. I didn't think I'd survive the emotional roller coaster I was on.... but you guys were always there... ever supporting, every pushing, prodding, leading me on toward the light.... toward the day when I could just life my arms up in exclamation and say, "I have done it! I have done it! I have done it!" and I have... My son has graduated high school tonight... this very night... and though my eyes still well up with tears... my heart swells up with pride at the love that fills me every time I think of all of you... pushing me on toward the end goal! Praise! Collaboration! Love! And isn't THAT what the DF is all about? :nod: Thank you... and most especially, thank you to Lindsay, sarah-nicole, weeble, and caddon, for their undying support! :hearts: I couldn't do it without you! :hugs:
(I am Cat) Thanks Lindsay and Lizard.
Thats one really good thing about this site,everyones in the same boat and i guess i come on here to get away from the harsh reality of people who dont understand. Many people here dont see depression as an illness...and its hard to explain that itis,they think that anyone on the benefit is just plain lazy and i hate hearing this...they dont love in my shoes so how would they know? So thankyou for all your hard work and many hours spent provinding us with such a great resource,keep up the good work and give yourselves a pat on the back... (surgeon2006) I just wanted to let You know that You have put together a extrodinary and incredible site here. Ii come here everyday. All of You who have put this together should be commended...I just wanted to share this with you.
thanks again.................. ("bear".) Fight stigma. Misunderstandings about mental illness cause fear or shame and may prevent you from seeking the help you need. You can help by understanding that people do not choose to have a mental disorder. It is a disease that can and should be treated.
(-US Surgeon General Richard H. Carmona, M.D., M.P.H) Just wanted to drop a quick note to say thank you to all of those who lent their support. I had a really tough time these past few months and I've been incredibly grateful for all of your wisdom and advice. I am feeling like I'm in a pretty good place right now and it's thanks in part to my family and friends, but this site played a huge role. It was wonderful to have a place where you could just bare your soul without anyone judging you.
I will be back, but am taking some time to travel and move back home so will be offline for a while. Take care of yourselves and see you again soon. (-Volleygirl) "I'm grateful to have found this site. After just reading through some of the forums yesterday I actually felt better about myself than I had in a long time. Just knowing that I am not alone in my struggles with depression has lightened the burden.
thanks." (-moxielady) "Thank you... all of you at DF for listening
and making this miracle work here at DF, people healing people... " (- Pupabella) "Thank you everyone for your replies. They were very encouraging. :) I will definitely try out your suggestions. It was encouraging to know that I am not the only one who deals with the comprehension issue.
You all seem like very nice people, and DF is lucky to have you. ( - Sacred Journey) "I've seen here a few times the mention of "stigma" and depression. I'm learning a lot from this site!!" - LAS
(- LAS) "Thanks so much for your advice. I will take all things into consideration.
This is such a wonderful community! Just reading some adivce from others helps me. Its nice to not feel so alone!" (-m-brown-eyes) "In the past six months I have often had nothing that helped me except for this board. The fact that it's free is mind-boggling (I've had no luck with
therapists/pills, actually getting more out of posts here than therapy). Thank you all and a special thanks to the moderators." (-annonymous) "Hey y'all. I was just recently diagnosed with OCD and have been doing gobs of research. I can't tell you how happy I was to find these boards.
I did a lot of reading over on the older boards and all I can say is "Thanks." Thanks for running this site, for being so caring and supportive, you name it." (- Iarwain) "I am new to this board. I love the wealth of information I am finding here."
(-KJD) "This is my first post and visit to the board. I have "surfed" a little throught the site, and am already enlightened. Hello to all the ones who stand with
me in this battle! Together, we will overcome!" (-gerlygerl) "I am so grateful to all of you posting with your genuine concern. I get more help here than I do anywhere else".
(- Malto) "Thanks for the warm welcome and helpful advice, Forum Admin. As I read various posts around this board, it seems so amazingly supportive. I can definitely see the strong sense of community created by it for everyone."
(-niltiac) "I am here after looking around the web and finally deciding that this forum seemed to be more genuine than others. Thanks for providing this space. I, for one, appreciate it."
(-kylebellamy) "This is a great place to connect with others going through the same things like depression, anxiety and ocd. I'm glad that the forum is here to help. Thanks"
(- ~Canadian Girl~) "Honk if you love DF!
At DF, my tears were dried. My hand was held. My backbone was strengthened. I was carried when I could not walk. I was praised when I did walk. I was treated like a best friend by scores of people I had never met. I came here desperate many times not knowing what move to make, and I got replies EVERY SINGLE TIME helping me go in the right direction. Here I was never ignored or made to feel insignificant. I was loved." (- Brenshay) " DF is my lifeline. At DF I have made so many connections with people halfway around the world. I wish I could meet all of you and give you a big hug because you've saved my life so many times I can't even count anymore.
Only here do I find people who really truly understand and are sincere in their support. Complete strangers and yet kindred spirits. Thank you DF." (-blackhole) |
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