Citalopram And Decreased Libido
Posted 29 August 2010 - 10:08 PM
Posted 30 August 2010 - 08:51 AM
This sex drive issue is making me want to stop taking the tablets, but I would imagine it will take weeks/months to get back to normal.
It must be a difficult situation for you, being that you are only one month into your relationship. Although you can only hope your new partner learns to accept the medical position you are in, I can understand how tough it will be.
However, you must remember that your overall health and wellbeing is the most important thing of all, and that should be at the fore-front of any decision you make.
Posted 30 August 2010 - 11:58 AM
I've heard that adding Wellbutrin can help reduce the side effects. You might want to ask your doctor.
Posted 30 August 2010 - 06:55 PM
Posted 31 August 2010 - 02:31 PM
he is very understanding, but he's frustrated because he just doesn't understand, and i'm frustrated because i don't know how to explain it to him. i can't get in to see my doctor for quite some time, and i don't want to just stop taking my meds... they've really helped me in a lot of ways, but they're going to ruin my relationship if i don't change something quick. even with the meds, i'm so depressed about this that i can't bring myself to do anything... all i want to do is lay in bed all day and sleep.
I would not stop taking the meds, the side effects of stopping suddenly can be really uncomfortable. Maybe you should ask your partner to read this board so he can try to understand.
Other than that, your Doctor is best placed to help you decide which route you should take.
I do feel sorry for you, I am frustrated with myself for the exact same reason, but I would rather take the meds until I am well again. I still remember why I went on the happy tablets in the first place.
Posted 01 September 2010 - 01:51 AM
Hi, I've been on 40 mg Citolopram for several months. I find that my sex drive has decreased significantly. I am also on birth control pills and lowered sex drive is a normal side effect of those too. My husband and I have been married for a year and I think for every point mine is low, his is high. I find what helps is being around him when he is aroused and doing things or looking at things that turn me on. It is harder to feel turned on, it is harder to enjoy and get into the whole thing, but it still happens I just have to give if some effort. (Sorry if this is TMI!) Just keep trying to experiment with different foreplay techniques, and "helpers".
Posted 01 September 2010 - 02:22 AM
I've taken Citalopram in the past and it sent my sex drive sailing out of the window too, all SSRI's do that to me. I have recently tried Effexor which is an SNRI as I thought it may not be so bad, it had the same effect.
I've stopped taking my medication, by slowly tapering the dose, (don't ever just stop outright !), and am still suffering physical side effects (this is a problem with Effexor), but I did think my sex drive would come back pretty quickly, it hasn't ! but it's only 9 days ! and I am in a position where I feel I can try to go without medication, it doesn't sound like you are. I'm hoping once I get through the physical w/d symptoms and feel better physically things will improve.
I agree, with all meds there is the double edged sword, you are the only one who can weigh up the pro's and cons. I admit losing my libido was one of the reasons I came off Effexor. As fireve said there are things you can do to help perhaps.
It is one thing to plod through life in this unsexed state, but quite another to try to explain to a partner, mine is very unsympathetic, mainly as he has never taken any such medication and simply can't understand. He also seems to think, that stopping them was the end of the problem. Like I'm going to be rampant an hour after I stop the
Seriously though, you have to put your state of mind first, if you really need this med and it helps then unfortunately your sex life may just have to suffer a little. I sympathise 100% with you as this is a recurring problem I've had. Alternatively try a different a/d. I'm very interested in Wellbutrin, as it doesn't seem to have this effect, but it doesn't seem very available where I am. Also I took tricyclics for years and it never had that downside, though it is listed as a possible side effect. Mybe you could chat to your doctor about something to take as well as Citalopram which would balance things up. I don't know if it's acceptable to take Wellbutrin and an SSRI ?
Edited by Irthiya, 01 September 2010 - 02:24 AM.
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