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A. A marked and persistant fear of one or more social or performance situations in which the person is exposed to unfamiliar people or to possible scrutiny by others. The individual fears that he or she will act in a way (or show anxiety symptoms) that will be humiliating or embarrassing. B. Exposure to the feared social situation almost invariably provokes anxiety, which may take the form of a situationally bound or situationally predisposed Panic Attack. C. The person recognizes that the fear is excessive or unreasonable. D. The feared social or preformance situations are avoided or else are endured with intense anxiety or distress. E. The avoidance, anxious anticipation, or distress in the feared social or preformance situation(s) interferes significantly with the person's normal routine, occupational (academic) functioning, or social activities or relationships, or there is marked distress about having the phobia. G. The fear or avoidance is not due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g. a drug of abuse, a medication) or a general medical condition and is not better accounted for by another mental disorder. -JKM QUOTE Social Anxiety Fact Sheet Social Anxiety Disorder (social phobia) is the third largest mental health care problem in the world. Latest government epidemiological data show social anxiety affects over 7% of the population at any given time. The lifetime prevalence rate (i.e., the chances of developing social anxiety disorder at any time during the lifespan) stands at above 13%. Definition: Social anxiety is the fear of social situations that involve interaction with other people. Put another way, social anxiety is the fear and anxiety of being judged and evaluated by other people. If a person usually becomes anxious in social situations, but seems fine when they are alone, then "social anxiety" may be the problem. Perceptions: People with social anxiety are many times seen by others as being shy, quiet, backward, withdrawn, inhibited, unfriendly, nervous, aloof, and disinterested. People with social anxiety want to be "normal" socially, they want to make friends and they want to be involved and engaged in social interactions. Having social anxiety prevents people from being able to do the things they want to do. People with social anxiety want to be friendly, open, and sociable. It is fear (anxiety) that holds them back from participating. Social anxiety is a fully treatable condition and can be overcome. Triggering Symptoms: People with social anxiety usually experience significant distress in the following situations: Being introduced to other people Being teased or criticized Being the center of attention Being watched or observed while doing something Having to say something in a formal, public situation Meeting people in authority ("important people/authority figures") Feeling insecure and out of place in social situations ("I don’t know what to say.") Embarrassing easily (e.g., blushing, shaking) Meeting other peoples’ eyes Swallowing, writing, talking, making phone calls if in public This list is not a complete list of symptoms -- other symptoms may be associated with social anxiety as well. Emotional Symptoms: The feelings that accompany social anxiety include anxiety, intense fear, nervousness, automatic negative thinking cycles, racing heart, blushing, excessive sweating, dry throat and mouth, trembling, and muscle twitches. Constant, intense anxiety (fear) is the most common feature. Insight: People with social anxiety know that their anxiety is irrational and does not make logical sense. Nevertheless, thoughts and feelings of anxiety persist and show no signs of going away, without appropriate treatment. Therapy: Cognitive-behavioral therapy for social anxiety has been markedly successful. Thousands of research studies now indicate that, after CBT, people with social anxiety disorder report a changed life -- one that is no longer controlled by fear and anxiety. Appropriate therapy is markedly successful in changing people's thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and behavior. National Institutes of Mental Health-funded studies report a very high success rate using cognitive therapy with a behavioral therapy group. Both are essential to alleviating anxiety symptoms associated with social anxiety disorder. Medication: Social anxiety medication is useful for many, but not all, people with social anxiety disorder. Psychologists and therapists should work with the persons’ medical doctor and/or psychiatrist if at all possible. For cases of generalized social anxiety, research indicates use of the anti-anxiety agents, and certain antidepressants in conjunction with CBT has proven most beneficial. As to antidepressants, the MAOIs have the highest success rate when combined with CBT. Medication without the use of cognitive-behavioral therapy has proven to be only temporarily helpful. In particular, antidepressant treatment using SSRIs has been shown to be useless. Prognosis: Markedly good. People completing CBT training report a high success ratio. In the NIMH longitudinal studies, people continued to report progress after the CBT behavioral group therapy was over. We have found that repetition is the key to overcoming social anxiety disorder. Therapy is not difficult. What matters is a person's continuing commitment to getting better. Treatment Specialties: Social anxiety, as well as the other anxiety disorders, can be successfully treated today. In seeking help for this problem, we recommend searching for a specialist -- someone who understands this problem well and knows how to treat it. Social anxiety treatment must include an active behavioral therapy group, where members can work on their "fear" hierarchies in the group, and later, in real-life situations. Differential Diagnosis and Comorbidity: Social anxiety disorder is one of the five major anxiety disorders as listed in the DSM-IV. Social anxiety is many times mixed up with panic disorder. People with social anxiety do not experience panic attacks, in which the principal fear is of having a medical problem (e.g., heart attack). People with social anxiety realize that it is anxiety and fear that they are experiencing. They may say things like "It was awful and I panicked!", but, when questioned, they are talking about feeling highly anxious. They are not talking about the fear of having a medical problem. People with social anxiety tend not to go to hospital emergency rooms after an anxiety problem. People with panic disorder many times go to hospital emergency rooms, because they feel there is something medically and physically wrong with them. High rates of alcoholism and other substance abuse, family difficulties and problems, lack of personal relationships, and difficulty in obtaining and continuing with employment are among the everyday problems experienced by many people with social anxiety disorder. Lack of professional and knowledgeable therapists is the biggest and most relevant problem to overcoming social anxiety. While we know it can be done, and a vast amount of clinical and research evidence supports this, overcoming social anxiety is difficult because of the scarcity of treatment options for people with this persistent anxiety disorder. 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May 30 2009, 11:59 AM
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From the last Social Phobia Topic QUOTE (Jerrica @ May 10 2009, 06:18 PM) 
So this weekend has been absolutely terrible for me :( I feel like balling my eyes out right now. In fact I might go do that....
I don't know why my anxieties are getting worse! I've felt anxious and nervous all weekend and have barely eaten a thing, except for a spurt last night where I felt calm. I went to the grocery store today and totally freaked out, felt light headed, uneasy, nauseous, tense muscles, dry mouth. I made it through, but it was hell.
Other than work I haven't really left my house for a week, I think keeping yourself housebound makes things worse. two weeks ago I had no problems at all going shopping, now I do all of a sudden.
I feel terrible I keep ditching my friends!
I used to be SO happy, always on the go, never had any problems. Now my mind has taken over my life in the matter of a few weeks. I hope it's not forever.
Maybe i should up my dose? I'm only on 20mg of Celexa (been 3 weeks) and I'm running out of Lorazepam :( so I need more of that too...is it possible that anxieties sometimes get worse on this drug before they get better? I really just want my life back....maybe I need to expose myself more to the outside world instead of hiding in my house in my PJ's all the time just waiting to get better...
QUOTE (Trace @ May 11 2009, 04:46 AM)  QUOTE (Jerrica @ May 11 2009, 12:18 AM)  So this weekend has been absolutely terrible for me :( I feel like balling my eyes out right now. In fact I might go do that....
I don't know why my anxieties are getting worse! I've felt anxious and nervous all weekend and have barely eaten a thing, except for a spurt last night where I felt calm. I went to the grocery store today and totally freaked out, felt light headed, uneasy, nauseous, tense muscles, dry mouth. I made it through, but it was hell.
Other than work I haven't really left my house for a week, I think keeping yourself housebound makes things worse. two weeks ago I had no problems at all going shopping, now I do all of a sudden.
I feel terrible I keep ditching my friends!
I used to be SO happy, always on the go, never had any problems. Now my mind has taken over my life in the matter of a few weeks. I hope it's not forever.
Maybe i should up my dose? I'm only on 20mg of Celexa (been 3 weeks) and I'm running out of Lorazepam :( so I need more of that too...is it possible that anxieties sometimes get worse on this drug before they get better? I really just want my life back....maybe I need to expose myself more to the outside world instead of hiding in my house in my PJ's all the time just waiting to get better... Hi Jerrica I am sorry that you are strugling right now. Yes there are start up side effects to the meds, they can take up to 8 weeks to work into your system properly. So how you are feeling may pass. If you are really concerned, you can go back to your doc. Have a look in the Celexa Room here for others start up experiences. Trace
QUOTE (Jerrica @ May 11 2009, 06:17 PM)  QUOTE (Trace @ May 11 2009, 03:46 AM)  QUOTE (Jerrica @ May 11 2009, 12:18 AM)  So this weekend has been absolutely terrible for me :( I feel like balling my eyes out right now. In fact I might go do that....
I don't know why my anxieties are getting worse! I've felt anxious and nervous all weekend and have barely eaten a thing, except for a spurt last night where I felt calm. I went to the grocery store today and totally freaked out, felt light headed, uneasy, nauseous, tense muscles, dry mouth. I made it through, but it was hell.
Other than work I haven't really left my house for a week, I think keeping yourself housebound makes things worse. two weeks ago I had no problems at all going shopping, now I do all of a sudden.
I feel terrible I keep ditching my friends!
I used to be SO happy, always on the go, never had any problems. Now my mind has taken over my life in the matter of a few weeks. I hope it's not forever.
Maybe i should up my dose? I'm only on 20mg of Celexa (been 3 weeks) and I'm running out of Lorazepam :( so I need more of that too...is it possible that anxieties sometimes get worse on this drug before they get better? I really just want my life back....maybe I need to expose myself more to the outside world instead of hiding in my house in my PJ's all the time just waiting to get better... Hi Jerrica I am sorry that you are strugling right now. Yes there are start up side effects to the meds, they can take up to 8 weeks to work into your system properly. So how you are feeling may pass. If you are really concerned, you can go back to your doc. Have a look in the Celexa Room here for others start up experiences. Trace Thanks, I saw my doc today. She wouldn't up my dose yet...she says I have to give it more time. She did give me more Lorazepam to take as needed. I think I know why I'm freaking out so bad now though. My major support person, whom is my best friend and has been getting me through this, god bless him, is going on vacation for a week on wednesday and I don't know what I'm going to do for a whole week without him :( and I think it's causing all sorts of anxieties and anticipation as to how I will cope when he's gone. I've been living at his place lately, because I feel safe there. Home is not a good place for me (my mom is very unsupportive, brother disrespectful, they just don't understand and make it 10x worse). He did say he would leave me a key to stay there while he's gone but I'm uneasy about being alone right now.... It really sucks when you hate being home and feel like you have nowhere else to go :( BUT it's only a week.....I can do it!
QUOTE (Trace @ May 12 2009, 04:47 AM)  Jerrica
Yes, it is only a week and you can do it. You also have us too. I hope the week goes fast for you.
Trace
QUOTE (Masquerette @ May 25 2009, 09:25 PM)  I'm 19 and have had problems socializing with people ever since I was little. I can't even stand being around my family for more than 5 minutes, they don't even bother looking at me as I leave the room anymore during a movie or TV show. When I was in school I always got bad grades and constantly stuttered having panic attacks just simply reading something aloud. I didn't get help until about 3 years ago but nothing has helped until recently when i started taking Effexor EX along with Deplin, so far I've noticed improvement but I still can't stand being with people for to long.
QUOTE (PRT @ May 26 2009, 04:04 AM)  Hi Masquerette,
What a difficult position to be in. What thoughts go through your head when you're with people?
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QUOTE (Forum Admin @ May 30 2009, 09:59 AM)  From the last Social Phobia Topic QUOTE (Jerrica @ May 10 2009, 06:18 PM) 
So this weekend has been absolutely terrible for me :( I feel like balling my eyes out right now. In fact I might go do that....
I don't know why my anxieties are getting worse! I've felt anxious and nervous all weekend and have barely eaten a thing, except for a spurt last night where I felt calm. I went to the grocery store today and totally freaked out, felt light headed, uneasy, nauseous, tense muscles, dry mouth. I made it through, but it was hell.
Other than work I haven't really left my house for a week, I think keeping yourself housebound makes things worse. two weeks ago I had no problems at all going shopping, now I do all of a sudden.
I feel terrible I keep ditching my friends!
I used to be SO happy, always on the go, never had any problems. Now my mind has taken over my life in the matter of a few weeks. I hope it's not forever.
Maybe i should up my dose? I'm only on 20mg of Celexa (been 3 weeks) and I'm running out of Lorazepam :( so I need more of that too...is it possible that anxieties sometimes get worse on this drug before they get better? I really just want my life back....maybe I need to expose myself more to the outside world instead of hiding in my house in my PJ's all the time just waiting to get better...
QUOTE (Trace @ May 11 2009, 04:46 AM)  QUOTE (Jerrica @ May 11 2009, 12:18 AM)  So this weekend has been absolutely terrible for me :( I feel like balling my eyes out right now. In fact I might go do that....
I don't know why my anxieties are getting worse! I've felt anxious and nervous all weekend and have barely eaten a thing, except for a spurt last night where I felt calm. I went to the grocery store today and totally freaked out, felt light headed, uneasy, nauseous, tense muscles, dry mouth. I made it through, but it was hell.
Other than work I haven't really left my house for a week, I think keeping yourself housebound makes things worse. two weeks ago I had no problems at all going shopping, now I do all of a sudden.
I feel terrible I keep ditching my friends!
I used to be SO happy, always on the go, never had any problems. Now my mind has taken over my life in the matter of a few weeks. I hope it's not forever.
Maybe i should up my dose? I'm only on 20mg of Celexa (been 3 weeks) and I'm running out of Lorazepam :( so I need more of that too...is it possible that anxieties sometimes get worse on this drug before they get better? I really just want my life back....maybe I need to expose myself more to the outside world instead of hiding in my house in my PJ's all the time just waiting to get better... Hi Jerrica I am sorry that you are strugling right now. Yes there are start up side effects to the meds, they can take up to 8 weeks to work into your system properly. So how you are feeling may pass. If you are really concerned, you can go back to your doc. Have a look in the Celexa Room here for others start up experiences. Trace
QUOTE (Jerrica @ May 11 2009, 06:17 PM)  QUOTE (Trace @ May 11 2009, 03:46 AM)  QUOTE (Jerrica @ May 11 2009, 12:18 AM)  So this weekend has been absolutely terrible for me :( I feel like balling my eyes out right now. In fact I might go do that....
I don't know why my anxieties are getting worse! I've felt anxious and nervous all weekend and have barely eaten a thing, except for a spurt last night where I felt calm. I went to the grocery store today and totally freaked out, felt light headed, uneasy, nauseous, tense muscles, dry mouth. I made it through, but it was hell.
Other than work I haven't really left my house for a week, I think keeping yourself housebound makes things worse. two weeks ago I had no problems at all going shopping, now I do all of a sudden.
I feel terrible I keep ditching my friends!
I used to be SO happy, always on the go, never had any problems. Now my mind has taken over my life in the matter of a few weeks. I hope it's not forever.
Maybe i should up my dose? I'm only on 20mg of Celexa (been 3 weeks) and I'm running out of Lorazepam :( so I need more of that too...is it possible that anxieties sometimes get worse on this drug before they get better? I really just want my life back....maybe I need to expose myself more to the outside world instead of hiding in my house in my PJ's all the time just waiting to get better... Hi Jerrica I am sorry that you are strugling right now. Yes there are start up side effects to the meds, they can take up to 8 weeks to work into your system properly. So how you are feeling may pass. If you are really concerned, you can go back to your doc. Have a look in the Celexa Room here for others start up experiences. Trace Thanks, I saw my doc today. She wouldn't up my dose yet...she says I have to give it more time. She did give me more Lorazepam to take as needed. I think I know why I'm freaking out so bad now though. My major support person, whom is my best friend and has been getting me through this, god bless him, is going on vacation for a week on wednesday and I don't know what I'm going to do for a whole week without him :( and I think it's causing all sorts of anxieties and anticipation as to how I will cope when he's gone. I've been living at his place lately, because I feel safe there. Home is not a good place for me (my mom is very unsupportive, brother disrespectful, they just don't understand and make it 10x worse). He did say he would leave me a key to stay there while he's gone but I'm uneasy about being alone right now.... It really sucks when you hate being home and feel like you have nowhere else to go :( BUT it's only a week.....I can do it!
QUOTE (Trace @ May 12 2009, 04:47 AM)  Jerrica
Yes, it is only a week and you can do it. You also have us too. I hope the week goes fast for you.
Trace
QUOTE (Masquerette @ May 25 2009, 09:25 PM)  I'm 19 and have had problems socializing with people ever since I was little. I can't even stand being around my family for more than 5 minutes, they don't even bother looking at me as I leave the room anymore during a movie or TV show. When I was in school I always got bad grades and constantly stuttered having panic attacks just simply reading something aloud. I didn't get help until about 3 years ago but nothing has helped until recently when i started taking Effexor EX along with Deplin, so far I've noticed improvement but I still can't stand being with people for to long.
QUOTE (PRT @ May 26 2009, 04:04 AM)  Hi Masquerette,
What a difficult position to be in. What thoughts go through your head when you're with people?
xx
Hi, im new on here and let me just say that "this " is a very difficult thing to deal with. I work at a wholesale store (will not name) part-time. Ive been out for a whole month due to stress. Now, i can't even go to the store with out having a major attack. I seem to hate everyone. I get irritated and annoyed and everyone. It takes me days to recover! I have migraines, vision problems....I just need a new brain..
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Jun 1 2009, 03:19 AM
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HI Sashapoo,
Social Anxiety causes low self esteem , lack of confidence and poor self image, and CBT is a good tools to use as the others have said.
Your opinion of yourself is vital and thinking in social anxiety undermines all your positives assets, skills, abilities, achievements and distorts your world. Feeling causes action, o you act how you feel.
Funny thing is it a bit like depression, your reality and thinking get distorted and you are left with a negative perspective on the world. Avoidence creeps in and isolation.
I found the Book - Feeling Good - by David Burns excellent for depression, but a lot of what he days rings true for Social Anxiety.
I hope your Doctor sends you to see a CBT therapist .Best Wishes
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QUOTE (PRT @ Jun 1 2009, 01:33 AM)  HI Sashapoo It is a very difficult thing to cope with. It mst be tough having a job that deals with the public when you feel like this. Are you in therapy at all? PRT xx Yes, Im in group therapy and see a therapist. Right now im thinking im not going to be able to go back. Im preparing for the worst but hoping for the best i guess...
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Jun 3 2009, 04:43 PM
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Until I read this I had always just assumed that I was just off. I get extremely upset it social situations that involve anything above like 7or 8 people, the more people the worse it is. It helps some if I know the people but I still freak out. I get extremely angry and agitated and I'll start to lash out at people for ridiculous things like standing too close to me or not getting out of my way fast enough. I really can't help it. I just get so angry and upset that there's nothing anyont can do. I know I'm acting out of line and being ridiculous but there is nothing I can do about it, honestly it makes me fill like a B****
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Jun 12 2009, 04:38 AM
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I experience social anxiety specifically in situations where I'm being watched:
I avoid making or taking phone calls when someone else is in the room.
I avoid speaking in groups and my heart starts pounding if I'm even asked to say my name and a few words.
I don't like having or attending parties.
I'm too scared to get my driver's license because the instructor would be beside me watching as well as the person testing me ... then, of coarse, all of the other drivers on the road watching me.
I need to find a new job but can't think of one that would accommodate my social anxiety. When I start a new job I have moments of sheer panic when I have to answer a phone or use a cash register or deal with a line up of customers. I actually enjoy customer service and I know that these anxious feelings would diminish over time but the initial humiliation is so great that I end up avoiding these sorts of jobs.
I'm afraid to be called upon to take control of any crisis situation. I'm afraid the old woman walking in my direction will trip on the ice and need assistance or god forbid someone need CPR.
I'm always afraid of doing or saying the wrong thing and will beat myself up for years remembering some small foot in mouth moment.
I don't like people watching me cook. I feel like they're saying to themselves "why is she doing it that way? That's not how I would do it"
I'm especially nervous doing things like cooking, eating or making phone calls in front of someone that I'm intimate with because the stakes are just that much higher.
If I'm with another person I tend to let them sort things out, especially if a phone call is involved. This is why I like to do things alone. Because I don't usually have a problem navigating on my own ... since no one is watching me if I screw up.
I don't have a problem looking into people's eyes when I talk to them. I don't worry so much that people won't like me - I worry that they will think I'm stupid and incompetent.
I've listed my triggers, at least the main ones. I'm sure I could come up with a few more. I'd like to hear other people's.
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I am a 37 year old man... i had assumed that by the time i had reached this age i would not have self esteem issues... it is totally ridiculous...
there are a lot of good things about myself... i can be extemely confident at times, especially when with just one person... but often when in group social situations i shrink down to the size of a pea.. social situations now make me so fearful that i do my best to avoid them... Sitting alone in my house...When i am out and drinking i can silence the critical voice and have no problems.. am confident and funny. But when sober the critical me comes back... the return of the pea...
I recently started taking lexapro and find it helps.
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I don't go out a lot, basically I'm living a lifeless life.. I think I have BDD too :(
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Sep 5 2009, 08:31 AM
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I have SP live alone and spend most of my time at home by myself trying meds again cymbalta
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Anyone found a AD that helps there anxiety ? I have depression as well but i think anxiety is the main problem Been on cymbalta now for a bit over a week no relief yet :(
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I have social phobia to certain situations also. In fact, I sound exactly like whitman77... 39 year old female who finds it ridiculous at times that I feel this way. I also have problems in group settings, but not so much the one on one.. My doctor recently prescribed me citalopram for it as well as my panic attacks. I can't believe things have gotten worse and to the point where I fear and dread going into work.. We have a group meeting every day and I get all worked up thinking about going in there. I hate talking in front of others and being put on the spot and the center of attention. Ugh! I hope the citalopram works, I'm on day 9 today... PRT you have given me some hope..
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Sep 15 2009, 08:22 PM
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Hi Peeps....im new here, im glad ive found this Forum..
I too suffer from Social Phobia as well i have since i was 11 years old. I cant fill out Paper work in front of people, my hands shake terribly. I was normal as an 11 year old could be, when i had this Techer at a private school i went to used to make me do stuff on the board at school. I never had a shakie hand then one day i made a mistake, all the kids laughed and since then ive never been able to do Paper work in front of anyone. Im now 36 years old.
In 1999 i was at rock bottom and it was either get help, or the other option. And i refuse to go down that road. I was in therapy for 1 year and my DR really helped me to accept myself for who i am as a person, i was able to do things i couldnt before and im now in a position that i thought for years id never acheive. But those fears are still there and when im in my comfort zone i can do paper work in front of ppl and my hands wont shake at all, but when i have to go somewhere were its an unfamiliar surrounding that voice starts in my head, What if you Shake, people are think your Stupid and end up working myself up into quit a state. Its funny cos if i dont think about it i dont get nervous, like at work if a boss just comes up while i dont expect it and says I need ya Signiture to approve so and so, and i sign and date it with out a problem. It weird. If im out with my mates drinking and having fun, im a totally differant person.
Ive come to the conclusion i think ill always suffer from this, and i think the key to me getting better is me accepting me for who i am, and not worrying what people think of me, and if i shake then who gives a Fxxx. Ive always, as most of us here feel like we are the only people in the world who are differant, and i know how dibillitating this can be to live with.
I wish everyone here all my support and the best. Ciao
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