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MichaelBlue
post Nov 7 2007, 08:07 AM
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I was wondering how many of you worry whether online depression forums fuel the depression, or make you genuinely feel better? I've been spending many, many hours reviewing this forum. On the one hand, I feel it's comforting and is something of a lifeline. On the other hand, I wonder if it's a good use of my time -- as I zone out unproductively each day waiting for the medication to kick in. My cognitive therapist didn't say that the forums are a bad idea, but he seemed to suggest that possibility by the way he asked whether it's making my problem worse. Any thoughts? Does there come a point where it can become an obsession?
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post Dec 21 2007, 06:19 PM
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It probably varies with what ails you. People are here seeking different solutions to the same problem and not everyone will get the answer they want.

A forum like this certainly can make people feel worse as well as better. I haven't read this one long enough but I know from experience that you can indeed become bitter...er reading these things.

In my case, it stems from being jealous of just about every poster. Yeah, they're recounting their terrible problems and I'd still rather be them.


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post Dec 23 2007, 10:42 AM
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QUOTE (MichaelBlue @ Nov 7 2007, 08:50 AM) *
Those are excellent points, Hedge -- thank you both for your responses. I went from having a very productive life to a sudden paralyzing depression in a matter of just one month. Unclear what triggered it. I do find the forum a comforting place to "hang out" right now, as my inability to function normally (and work productively) has me locked in a mental prison. There simply are no family members/friends who can spend countless hours with a person in this predicament.

Wow,

You just nailed my situation pretty close, only I know that it is a combination of work, personal and other things that pushed me over the line. I have been here (depressed and at DF) before, almost 2 years ago, got to feeling better and then did begin to feel that reading all the posts was preventing me from complete recovery (no disrepect intended and Lords knows the DF did wonders for me when I needed them).

So it's possible that continuing to interact with severely depressed people might affect you - it really increases my admiration for the names that I recognize that are still here and also for the folks in the medical profession who help us.

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post Dec 27 2007, 08:53 PM
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We're all on different paths here although we have similar issues. For me, this is a comfy cozy place where I can find people who really understand what I may be going through. I have gotten reassurances, echoings of my own angst, information and friendship. I love you all! I also feel that the element of being able to reach out to others is an extremely important to anyone's recovery. I feel so good when I can reach out and offer a kind word or suggestions to someone else! My therapist thinks it's wonderful and really helping my treatment.
Moderators, thank you so much for your service to us!!!! We want to have a cruise where only the members here are eligible and spend a week together with you!


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post Dec 28 2007, 12:22 PM
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Yes, absolutely I think for some people it can. Only they don't realize how it affects them until they leave.
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post Dec 28 2007, 12:36 PM
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For me personally, I don't have depression as such, more depressive episodes, but I've found that this site is very supportive and welcoming, and it offers what someone feeling alone often needs - just someone to say that they understand and they hope things work out.

I find that pretty much everyone, although clearly not all posts are upbeat, responds in a supportive manner, often focusing on people's positives. For someone who suffers from chronic negativity, this site is a great aid to helping me be more positive overall.

I am still pretty new here, and maybe there is a more negative side to being on this forum, but so far, I haven't found it.

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post Dec 28 2007, 01:06 PM
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No I don’t think Depression Forums worsen the depression but... other people will look at it differently and have many different opinions. I'm glad I found this place and it’s great to talk with so many intelligent, thoughtful and caring people. I enjoy spending time on here and know if I need advice or just someone to listen there are so many people on here to do so.


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