QUOTE (Silver_wlf @ Sep 13 2008, 02:19 PM)

I like the Dr. Burns book too - I found it really helpful to get a grip on the downward spiral I would suck myself into. I liked the activities and the lists. I have a workbook that I use to complete the activities and keep all my data together. However, I also found that it makes me much less tolerant of my friends gossiping.... I understand how damaging it is - not only to whoever is being gossiped about - but also to the gossiper's mental state...
My favourite - by far is "Mind Over Mood" by Christine A. Padesky. It's very similar to the Burns book - but much less reading and more questions to help probe the damaging thoughts. I also really liked the "Mood rating" - you give yourself a percentage on the mood you're feeling - then after you work through it - you re-evaluate your mood. I found it very helpful.
It's inexpensive - and it's like a workbook with pages to write on (or photocopy if you need more).
General reading that helped me in the past couple weeks were the Lance Armstrong books. They were motivating and inspiring. I know not everyone is a Lance fan - but I am and it definitely helped pick me up a bit.
I've got both the Burns book and the Padesky one. Just wish I had time/inclination to read them !!!!